Women--which one do you want to be: a hot chick or a real person?

Question

A man looks for thinness, fitness, a pretty face, big boobs, a tiny waist, and a pert little @ss. He wants a girl who is pretty and sexy. If he has that, he really doesn't give a shiit about anything else. That is what a guy looks for in a hot chick.

If a guy is looking for a real person, he looks for kindness, caring, understanding, respect, and appreciation. If he has those things, he really doesn't give a shiit what she looks like. That is what a guy looks for in a real person.

So, which one will it be, ladies? Are you a hot chick or a real person? You can't be both, you know.

Answer 1

Nope, I agree: you can't be both....at least not in a man's eyes. And by that I mean, if you happen to be a "real person" as you described AND a beauty, a man will only see the beauty...which is the plague of women in the world who are both....all 5 of them.

So my answer is: I am a REAL person, and I prefer it that way. I am a little pretty, with a few imperfections, and I have a great personality, with a few imperfections. If you're lucky, though, you'll find a man who loves "the total package." A woman they are attracted to (but doesn't have to be perfect), but who has a great personality they love.

And besides, don't worry about those incorrigibly superficial men and their barbie dolls. They'll marry them, learn what they're really like, become miserable, divorce them, and then be lonely for the rest of their lives because all the "real women" will be taken.

:)

Answer 2

Why is it a sin to have an interest in actual attractiveness? in spite of everything, He made those chicks warm and it can be a blasphemy to brush aside His handiwork. besides, you're purely following biology's regulations. do no longer overlook that we are fairly basically a set of attractive animals once you get all the way down to fundamentals.

Answer 3

I'm real so that only leaves hot. However, I differ with the assumption that "you can't be both" There are many many beautifully women, celebrities and students and mothers staying at home; that are generous to a fault! Love unconditionally and live to inrich the lives of others.

Answer 4

I would want to be a hot chick becuase guys would fall all over me BUT I dont have big boobs. That is a bad thing. But I want a guy to be caring and things too.

Answer 5

Geez, bitter much? There are plenty of attractive women who are also perfectly nice. I fit the hot-chick description better than the real-person description, but I'm smart, down-to-earth, respectful, and sweet (selectively, of course).

Answer 6

You know, there's nothing wrong with be healthy, pretty, and physically fit as long as you don't us your big boobs and beauty to attract a guy. I'd just find a guy who likes me for me. Who cares what the guys think about how we look.

Answer 7

i got to be a real person cause my kids has given me an extra few pounds i have lost my butt and well my calf muscle is not thin. My husband loves me just the way that i am and to him i am a hot chic but he tells me he loves my qualities of a woman also

Answer 8

A real hot chick

Answer 9

Hey there,

I disagree. First of all, a woman can be both. Millions are.

Second...this guy looks for a big/nice booty, nice body (not skinny or thin...not fat either), etc. She can't be whiny or over-emotional. Not an annoying picky eater. Has to be cool and mentally strong.

I feel kind of bad for you if you really believe in the question you asked. It's very incorrect.

Answer 10

Real person since I wouldnt like a guy being with me just for looks.