My wife tells me that she has been having a mfm fantasy. So I played along and asked her who was involved in the fantasy. She told me that it involved me and a good friend of mine. He is a pretty hot guy, and very well endowed, which I am not. Should I be concern?
2006-12-07 09:30:49 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
go for it it might make your relationship better.!!! I wish my dude would go for it but he's already well endowed I just need two!!
2006-12-07 09:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well endowed or not, you should have concern bringing another man into your bedroom. Some fantasies are better left as just that fantasies. And especially those that involve bringing other people into the bedroom. Regardless if it is a male or a female. This is asking for trouble. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-07 09:36:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does she know he is well endowed? Does she flirt with hiim? if they are talking and you enter the room does it suddenly get quiet? I know if my wife started having fantasys about my friend 1. he wouldnt be invited over for a while and 2. If she doesn't seem to be acting on it I would try to get past it. If she seemed to be "acting" on it, like a little school girl around her crush when she sees him I would be concerned and confront it.
2006-12-07 09:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds as though you must like the idea of this very well endowed man that is really hot. Most guys do not say that a man is hot and well endowed.
2006-12-07 16:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all a MFM threesome doesn't mean you're gay. Secondly, if she's openly told you about it and it involves a friend of yours that means she IS serious about it. Thirdly, your concern over your "size" compared your friend in relation to her is a tough one. But, hey, you're married so "for better or worse" bro.
If I were you I'd talk to her about it more. The consequences are dire when one person agrees but has apprehensions that don't get expressed. You need to express your anxiety to her and be specific. What you're contemplating doing can destroy a relationship and more often does. HOWEVER, if both of you are on the same page IE she knows how feel about specific points and you're in to it, I'm telling you it can very liberating. It swings both ways, too, dude. Dot your I's and cross your T's prior to and away you go to the land of sexual fulfillment because it's your turn next. Her and which one of her friends will your next choice.
2006-12-07 09:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes you should be concerned...but not with endowmnet. You should be concerned with why she would want to share her body with a man other than you. It hardly sounds like her love is sincerely 100% yours. And for you to consider it is the other half of the equation...how could you stand by and allow another man to boink the wife.....
Time to evaluate the marriage...not the sex life. Sometimes fantasies should just be left as fantasies....
2006-12-07 09:34:34 · answer #6 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
As long as it remains a fantasy then I guess everything is OK. But if she wants to play this fantasy out in real life...then there are some great problems to come. NEVER invite a third person into your bed. It will cause nothing but problems and jealousy. Good luck to you, that's a tough one.
2006-12-07 09:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by cammi1313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
F/M/F ONLY!!! The other means you're gay.
.......... And how do you know how well endowed this guy is? (somethings not right with this situation.)
I thought this question looked familiar so I looked back on your questions.... You ask this same question 2 to 3 times a week.
I think you may have a thing for your friend and you know what that means....
2006-12-07 09:32:57 · answer #8 · answered by BORED AT WORK 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, it truly is an person-friendly woman myth. second, because you look insecure she probable does have an charm for your pal. third, if she's conscious he's more beneficial than you (and must have made an attempt to be sure) she ought to savor nicely endowed adult males which may be reason for further concern...
2016-11-24 21:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be OK if you keep it in the realm of fantasy. Taking action may be very dangerous for your marriage. If she wants to take it to the next level you both need to think long and hard (pun is intended) about this.
2006-12-07 10:33:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just a fantasy.
Should she worry about it if you went to a strip club or watched porn?
Fantasy is fantasy.
Now the topic of her lusting after a specific friend WOULD concern me.
tell her it bothers you.
And next time, don't pry so deep into another's fantasy if your not ready for the Truth.
2006-12-07 09:35:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋