Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

When a guy says he would love you if he was single what does it mean?
i was dating a guy for a while we both were very physically attracted to one another and things broke up as i was upset about my job etc a little needy at the time...he always stares at me when we are out and the other day i apoligised to him and he said i was one of the most lovely people he had met and that initially he was intimidated by my job ( i have quite a high powered job and earn good money) he also said he thought i was gorgeous back then and still does, i said i was leaving and he kept on grabbing me and said he would love me...if he was single..When i chatted about one of my ex boyfriends he got jealous and said 'what about us?'. He has only just started to date someone else..i have always been infatuated with him and vice versa..what should i do should i ask him for a drink as friends, i think he could of beena potential one

2006-12-06 07:21:44 · 6 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Singles & Dating

Girls, if you are giving someone the brush off would you call them sweetheart in the text to cancel on them? i.e Hey sweethart , sorry we are no going out tonight, next time x

2006-12-06 07:21:35 · 7 answers · asked by bishbashbosh11 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex and I broke up months ago. even though we broke up we were still benefit I never left her side. Then she wentout and met other guys she told me she doesnt want do anything with me nomore and I should leave her alone. It was hard for me to do it but I did for her. couple weeks later she calls me and said she miss me...she miss the old day and everytime she hang with her friend she think about me. I ask her if I asked her back out again she said she cant because she has a boyfriend. It hurted me so much she told me if I have feeling for her hide it because she doenst want anything do with it. I thought she would do the same but she didnt when she told me those it just brought me back from where we seperated and it just kills me because I regret losing her first time and now I really want her back. more we doing this the more she hates me now she wouldnt even look or talk to me. i waited for outside and said hi but she didnt look at me and just walk pass me. i really love this girl

2006-12-06 07:21:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my boyfriend are in a long distant relationship, been going since August, but have known him for over a year. When I go down to see him, I go alone, when he comes up to visit me, he has to stay in a hotel cuz my parents won't let him sleep here, anyway, he always brings a friend with him. Do you think this is odd, or am I reading too much into it?!!!

2006-12-06 07:21:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 07:21:13 · 13 answers · asked by TAI 1 in Singles & Dating

i just found out that this boy that knows i like some boy and im crazy for him told some people !!!!!!! and now theyre laughin and ****! i dont even noe the whole story or what the boy told them, i just know that they know!!!!!!!!!!! i dont even noe if the boy i like knows!!!!! if he finds out ill go crazy he cannot find out!!!!!! i wanna kick that bois asssssssssss!!!!!!!!! should i or should i talk to that boi first? hurry it's schools almost over and i need to know now!!!!

2006-12-06 07:20:56 · 6 answers · asked by lala crazy 2 in Singles & Dating

give me all your tips, dont hold back on details.

2006-12-06 07:20:14 · 28 answers · asked by jessica lynn 1 in Singles & Dating

21 year old pregnant wife.. wants a puppy, but we can't keep one in our apartment... any ideas? willing to spend upwards of 300$ on her gift.

no romantic getaways, etc... we do enough of that already

2006-12-06 07:20:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-06 07:19:50 · 9 answers · asked by sand bad 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have these two friends that are twins. im better friends with one than the other. the one im better friends with, well us two have planned to exchange presents and im going over to their house a couple days before xmas to exchange the presents. it will be so weird if im exchanging presents with one twin but i dont have a present for the other one! but i dont think shes getting me a present? so should i get her a good present anyway? or a good present for one twin and a smaller one for the other?

2006-12-06 07:19:45 · 17 answers · asked by mlissers 2 in Friends

Well. that boy "M" decided that he didn't like me, and instead of telling me, he was about to ask this girl "Bri" out, and I found this out from my friend "Neesa."

Today in Homeroom, my friend "Shayna" asked him if he liked me, and "M" said that he didn't. And I was thinking to myself, so he just used me to get some action? Because a lot of guys at my school seem to think that i'm easy ((which I'm not!!!)

So then Shayna asked him if he just said he liked me to get some action, but he said no.



So my question::

Should I be hurt/upset about this, even though we weren't commited?


Because I feel so heart broken. but should I?

Do I have the right to slap him?

2006-12-06 07:19:27 · 5 answers · asked by UH OH iiT`S J* 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 07:19:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-12-06 07:19:23 · 6 answers · asked by flowergurl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 07:19:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He has a daughter but at the same time im his girlfriend who he claims he loves but we are on college break for christmas and we both live in ohio i live in grove city and he lives in xenia ohio. it takes 45 minutes to get to his house to mine.he was continplating on if he was coming to see me but as soon as his baby momma called and needed him to babysit he was there the next day....i dont know what to do or say im only 18 and he is 23..but he wants to marry me??? i need help

2006-12-06 07:18:59 · 25 answers · asked by diamond 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I found out my fieance has cheated on me. It wasn't just once or with just one person. I forgave him for the things i knew about but i have found out more. He cheated on me in my own house while i was at work, with my 15 month old son asleep in the next room. He told my son this person was going to be his new step mom. I found these things out by signing into his IM and talking to the girl while she thought i was him. What should i do? I don't think i can forgive this but i need to find a way to live with it for my sons sake. Please Help ME!!

2006-12-06 07:18:41 · 13 answers · asked by rose_calhoun23 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was at a bar with some friends last week and a very attractive girl started talking to me and gave me her number to call her. She's 19 and I'm 26 and married, but my marriage is on the rocks. We've already been talking about getting separated. Should I call the girl??

2006-12-06 07:17:29 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 07:17:16 · 11 answers · asked by BCSC SuperLeader 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy that im totally in love with, lost his virginity to me 3 years ago.... he said he loved me too... Well then he joined the army, which took him away & he is based elsewhere..... Well hes always in contact, but says he isnt ready for a relationship (due to him bein based away) and everytime he does come home, he comes to see me & acts as if hes never been away..... Does this mean that he really does love me still or is it just because he can get his own way (if ya know what i mean)
Please help me...... He means everything to me & i love him sooooo much!
Im going to see him over christmas & i need to know so that i can have a chat with him about it then!
Thanks in advance to everyone who answers with helpful questions xx

2006-12-06 07:16:30 · 17 answers · asked by ♥ Jodi ♥ Kaydi's Mummy ♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

I live in Almaty (Kazakhstan), since July I've been working in the Western part of KZ. But my GF is still in there Almaty, said she'd be waiting for me. I promised to come back after a month, but couldn't for some reason. We keep chatting over the cellular.And soon I'll be meeting her. The problem is that I made friends with a very nice girl here...and nothing more... But what if I'm being fooled and cheated myself.

2006-12-06 07:16:22 · 6 answers · asked by oskarbutterfly 1 in Friends

how can i turn my girl on and make her go crazy, if you know what i mean? i want to be the best i can be and i want some tips from ladies on how to make her go over the top? what things should i try on her? i am up for anything

2006-12-06 07:16:05 · 4 answers · asked by Crazy ace 2 in Singles & Dating

I really need this day for my family.

2006-12-06 07:15:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-06 07:15:35 · 72 answers · asked by Jerome 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Boyfriend of 2 and a half years broke up with me. Said he needed to get his life together. That I deserved to be with someone better. He cried and told me that he will always love me and that he wants to be friends. Said that when he is ready he wants to be with me. That its always been me and that he does picture a future with me, but he just cant be with me right now.

Any thoughts?

2006-12-06 07:15:33 · 5 answers · asked by Jenny S 1 in Singles & Dating

divorced 4 yrs now and he is living at his moms, no job, no child support-hes in huge debt and his car was repo-basically he has hit rock bottom finanacially but still pick up the kids with a big smile on his face and takes them to the park..but always asks for $ to get something for them ie a slurpy at 7/11 or takes them to a matinee on my dime....is it wrong that i give him $ knowing he has no way to pay it back???

2006-12-06 07:14:52 · 7 answers · asked by anabella 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so I am engaged, and my fiance is a total mommas boy hell bent on supporting his parents when his father retires which is all good with me but when i mention moving out of the state he proclaims it will only happen if his parents are stable- which i dont see how they won't be; They have a house and 2 new cars.. the thing is they are Columbian, I am not- they speak spanish I do not, and his mother has this mentality that no one will ever be good enough for her sons. What is one to do in this situation? She has had some unjustified things to say about me behind my back, but to him she says she has no problems with me. Friends have suggested that eventually he will have to choose and I know I will not be the choice because his thing is that his mother sacrificed for his family so he would never not support her. Don't get me wrong I am all about helping them but he even went as far to say "maybe they will move out of the state with us". HELP!

2006-12-06 07:14:44 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-06 07:14:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-06 07:14:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 07:13:39 · 7 answers · asked by lee34swann 1 in Singles & Dating

they both know that i am seeing diffrent people. Itld them if they want to see someone diffrent that they can, but they told me that they want to see me only.

2006-12-06 07:13:28 · 9 answers · asked by prettygothgirl69 2 in Singles & Dating