they both know that i am seeing diffrent people. Itld them if they want to see someone diffrent that they can, but they told me that they want to see me only.
2006-12-06 07:13:28 · 9 answers · asked by prettygothgirl69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest with both of them!!!
2006-12-06 07:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all how old are you if your under 19 you shouldn't be getting married anyways.... but that's beside the point.... IF you are ready to get married you need to pick only one.... the way you do that is you figure out which one you like best or which one TREATS you best. You can also think of it this way.... Which one will you be happy with in the future. Hope this helps.
2006-12-06 15:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not under any circumstances marry either of them, you are clearly not ready for the kind of committment that is involved in marrying someone-hopefully they will both see what a lucky escape they both had.
2006-12-06 15:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by Very happily married. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sit each down and tell them hey I am just not ready to be tied down in a marriage and enjoy dating both you and my other man..if you NEED to be married then it's best if you start looking elsewhere
2006-12-06 15:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you must know that you are a crappy person to be dating the two of them and leading them on and keeping them on the rebound for the other. You need to step up your game and stop acting young. You need to get rid of one of them period and stay with that one person. That is a terrible thing to do to a person, no matter how they tell you that they are fine with it. They arent. You need to grow the crap up and be a woman.
You tell them that it wouldnt matter if they were seeing others, but you know that you would be hurt, and if not....you dont deserve them or yourself. Grow up!!!
2006-12-06 15:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do, is be honest with them both about your feelings, and about your ideas on marriage. If they don't listen to you, that's their problem.
2006-12-06 15:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by mj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you are not ready to get married.
2006-12-06 15:16:57 · answer #7 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical Female.
A few years from now you will be on YA asking:
"Why are guys jerks...etc"
Answer: "because girls are opportunistic weenies"
2006-12-06 15:15:04 · answer #8 · answered by Its me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r not ready then don't do it
2006-12-06 15:15:54 · answer #9 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋