I didn't see my GF for 5 months. How do I know she's not cheating?

Question

I live in Almaty (Kazakhstan), since July I've been working in the Western part of KZ. But my GF is still in there Almaty, said she'd be waiting for me. I promised to come back after a month, but couldn't for some reason. We keep chatting over the cellular.And soon I'll be meeting her. The problem is that I made friends with a very nice girl here...and nothing more... But what if I'm being fooled and cheated myself.

I pushed my new friend away...cuz I believe my GF is not cheatin me...
Yet, if she is...I lose everythin'...Do you think it's better to have a back up girl or no?Risk it all at one turn of pitch and toss?

Answer 1

It's always a possibility but not one you should let ruin your relationship. you're probably projecting your fears on to her. My boyfriend assumed when i moved 2 hours away that since I am a flirty person, I would cheat. He worried so much about it that he ended up cheating on me. And in all honesty I never even so much as looked at another man. I mean ask her in subtle ways if she's being faithful. If you have a good strong relationship I doubt she would be. I'm inclined to say take her word for it, she said she'd wait for you. She's most likely waiting unless she's a jerk.

Answer 2

Sounds as if you are giving your self a reason to cheat. Why would you think about your girlfriend messing around anyway? Think positive!

Answer 3

Maybe you're starting to feel guilty that you've found a nice girl while you've been away.

Answer 4

You don't and if you cheated too bad

Answer 5

You don't know.

Answer 6

giv me her Phone no. i'll tell u -wat she is doin ?