Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

I've been in a long distance relationship for a few months.When I go down to see my boyfriend,I stay at his place,don't have to put my hand in my purse once.But when he comes up to see me,he does have to pay around £50 a night in a hotel and has to pay for his food etc..this is because I live wit my parents,& we're not serious enough for him to chill out at my place wit my parents.However, he's sayin he won't come up unless he can sleep at my place,he was gonna come up just before xmas when my parents are away,but is reconsidering it.I told him that he'll have to stay in a hotel,cuz my sister will tell my parents that he stayed when they get back -bear in mind that this guy's salary is pretty high.I called him da other day and said "You can either stay in a hotel that I'll pay towards or come alone without your friend and stay at my place".I told him to think about it.last nite,I texted sayin"You made up your mind?"and he hasn't replied.Do u think I'm being unfair?should I call him?

2006-12-06 07:00:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in total love with a guy from the internet that I have known for 6 years, we have never met but we have plans to soon. I want to be with him, but he's not here. Is this just a fantasy? Should I go for a guy here even if I don't like him as much?

2006-12-06 07:00:21 · 2 answers · asked by *~*~*~* 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 06:59:57 · 27 answers · asked by tim k 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

and of course answer in respect of women please.

2006-12-06 06:59:17 · 8 answers · asked by ~*southrn chik*~ 1 in Singles & Dating

The past few weeks I've noticed people on here begging for money and gifts saying they are poor, if they are so poor then how come they can still afford internet? and since they have all this free time to be online shouldn't they be looking for work?

2006-12-06 06:58:53 · 10 answers · asked by joy joy 1 in Friends

2006-12-06 06:58:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he's more sexual than me, etc but I've heard opposites attract

2006-12-06 06:57:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The one i read was by an unknown author....here's a snippet..."If i could build a stairway to heaven out of my tears i would bring you back for just one more day"..... can you think of any inspiring verses you wont forget?......

2006-12-06 06:57:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 06:57:13 · 9 answers · asked by tim k 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Weve been dating for exactly a month, and I've messed up three times: taking one single drag from a cig at a bar, after i promised her i wouldnt smoke, having sex and then leaving only 10 min after that, because i had to run errands that needed to be done, i didnt do it as a hit and run, i just had to go, and she got upset over this, and #3, just not acting or putting enough sympathy over a loss she recently had, whcih evolved into not talking to her because i wasnt sure what shew was feeling, so i dindt want to say the wrong thing, but overall, i just have had bad incidents with past relatinoships and i really care about her and just wanna make her happy, but im notorious for screwing things up, not on purpose, but just not realizing what im doing, not being aware of everything....and weve spoken and she hasnt come down to a conclusion, but i just wanna show her im for real and i sincerely care about her, i havent felt like this in a long time.....how do i become a better boyfriend?

2006-12-06 06:57:07 · 12 answers · asked by chrisj7682 2 in Singles & Dating

i HAVE BEEN LIVING WITH THE FATHER OF MY CHILDREN FOR THE PAST 10 YEARS, HE WORKED NIGHTS THAT WHOLE TIME, AND I FOUND MYSELF IN THE COMFORT OF ANOTHER MANS ARMS AT NIGHT FOR THE PAST 5 YEARS. nOW IVE MADE THE LEAP TO KICK OUT THE 10 YEAR AND LIVE WITH THE 5 YEAR PART TIMER, HE WAS ALL HELPFUL FOR THE FIRST TWO WEEKS NOW, HE JUST WATCHES TV AND EATS, DOESN'T HELP MUCH, DID I SCREW UP?

2006-12-06 06:56:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been seeing my girlfriend for at least a month now. And... we haven't kissed yet. I mean, not even a peck. I'm afraid to make the first move and I guess so is she. I really do want to kiss her and it upsets me slightly because we haven't yet. What do I do? Is it bad to have waited this long? Should I make the first move despite my inner instincts and fears? What should I do? HELP!!

2006-12-06 06:56:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It isn't our anniversary or anything, I just want to make tonight special for her. Keep in mind that it is freezing in MN, so no suggestions for long walks on the beach, ok?

2006-12-06 06:55:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My best guy friend that Ive known for 15 years started dating in the summer and broke up a couple months ago. We told each other that we wanted to stay friends no matter what. He broke up with me cause he doesn't feel he is good enough and he is soo busy with everything that he barely has time to sleep. The point is I know he is busy but it hurts right now just to be his friend. If by chance we don't get back together when things clear up what are my chances in staying friends? Have any of you dated a best friend and stayed friends?

2006-12-06 06:55:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 06:54:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

It's effin snowin' and blowin' up here and Buffalo, and NO one has come up here to keep me warm. The mitten drive fell through, and if it wasn't for Karen and her "Handjobs for the Homeless", I would be DEAD! Come on, people! Where is your spirit? Help me OUT! I just need a few warm bodies, some liquor and a pair of mittens!















How about them Sabres, Karen? POOR Tampa. I still love ya, though!!

2006-12-06 06:54:23 · 18 answers · asked by TheOneVersion3.0 2 in Singles & Dating

I think that I am falling in love with him again. But I don't know if he loves me, or not.

2006-12-06 06:54:09 · 7 answers · asked by karrajp85 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents just saw a girl for me and afterwards I went to see her. I liked her and she likes me. She says yes about marriage. When my parents compared janmakshar, we have same nadi. Can you please give me your opininon about believing this stuff or not?

2006-12-06 06:54:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

just have fun with it...;0)

2006-12-06 06:53:57 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If i had one week to live, i would go see all my friends and family and hang out with em.

2006-12-06 06:53:37 · 37 answers · asked by RedneckCuitie 2 in Family

go to this site first and look at the pictures
http://www.photos.yahoo.com/krystalknight04

This dress was actually my senior prom dress. (yeah I know it looks like a wedding dress). I went to prom in that dress with my now fiance. I love the dress a lot and I'm looking to save money and my future mother in law said she would help me alter it into a wedding dress. The problem is I'm not really sure what exactly I want to do with the dress. I want to either hide or get rid of the tulle and add a cathedral train. I'm pretty sure I want to go strapless too. I want to change the dress enough that my fiance won't even recognize it. I'm also thinking that I may be going over my head and should just buy a whole new dress if I can find a relatively inexpensive one. Any suggestions??

2006-12-06 06:53:35 · 25 answers · asked by Lily19 2 in Weddings

I'm 15 and so is my boyfriend and we have been together for about 3months but we have been on and off for a while now he has got me something and has apparently spent quite abit but i have no idea what to get him! i want something that means something and not cheap someone plz help me

2006-12-06 06:53:35 · 23 answers · asked by kinkypinky 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, here's the short story of the situation: this guy came over to my place this past weekend, good time...yada, yada, yada.
He called Monday; he wants to see me again...(of course).
Well, I told him I probably can't see him until the weekend again, because I'm working through the week.
WELL, he just called AGAIN and left a message saying he wants to see me....
I'm not working tonight. Should I wait until the weekend like I said, or go for some lovin' tonight????

2006-12-06 06:53:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when i worry i get so stressed, i just wanna sleep my life away...what should i do?

2006-12-06 06:53:19 · 3 answers · asked by mzvirgo19 1 in Friends

Right now, it's my Pakistani friend, he's a Libra(like me)
It was one of my exes, and he is a Scorpio(love them)
I'm looking forward to my Indian friend soon(Scorpio)

2006-12-06 06:53:17 · 6 answers · asked by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am looking for a location for a small wedding (20-30 people) somewhere in NH. I'm thinking maybe the seacoast area, maybe white mountains, anywhere from say Hampton to Conway. Any good ideas? I also need it to be CHEAP, be able to be outdoors or indoors, it may be early spring. We live in Maine but want to get married in NH so my fiance's Grandmother can marry us there. Somewhere we could have the ceremony and a small reception would be great! PLEASE HELP!

2006-12-06 06:52:29 · 5 answers · asked by aouellette84 1 in Weddings

I have a boyfriend that I went out about 2 years. I felt kind of tired, because I found out in his computer that he has instant messages with two girls. In those messages, he was flirting with those girls. I got mad, and he didn't understand me why I got mad. He also told me "even if that happens again, I still love you." He also liked one girl last year.
So, I kinda decided to take the revenge, and I met a guy through myspace. I talked with him through online, and I talked with him on the phone. I got a feeling that he wants to meet me. He even worked the place that I'm working right now and asked me when do I get off from work and what do I do afterwards. When I said I might be busy, he said he has friends around the work place, and he will visit his friends and have a barbeque party. I think he wants to surprise me or follow me. I'm worrying, because I work with my boyfriend.

What should I do?

2006-12-06 06:52:03 · 10 answers · asked by asianlover 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we have dated for like 1 year and i like another boy am I a total Jerk??

2006-12-06 06:51:56 · 15 answers · asked by Hay 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my best friend/roomate haven't been getting along lately and we have another eight months on our lease, i been avoiding her by spending nights elsewhere, please help!

2006-12-06 06:51:44 · 7 answers · asked by mzvirgo19 1 in Friends

its on the 14th so havent got long!

2006-12-06 06:51:21 · 14 answers · asked by big bird 3 in Family