Ok, here's the short story of the situation: this guy came over to my place this past weekend, good time...yada, yada, yada.
He called Monday; he wants to see me again...(of course).
Well, I told him I probably can't see him until the weekend again, because I'm working through the week.
WELL, he just called AGAIN and left a message saying he wants to see me....
I'm not working tonight. Should I wait until the weekend like I said, or go for some lovin' tonight????
2006-12-06 06:53:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well,,,,,,
i'm going to leave the ENDING up to all your nasty little imaginations.....
lets just say i STILL feel like OMG.
2006-12-06 13:50:56 · update #1
Knock dem boots! Why wait? What if he dies in a fatal crash before the weekend? Then how would you feel about denying yourself the pleasure? He probably doesn't want to wait either.
2006-12-06 06:56:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're available and ask what fun plans he can put together for a weeknight date. I suggest you not form the habit of always allowing him to come to your place and hang out instead of making an effort to take you out and have a good time. You don't want to be taken for granted. It's your perogative to change your mind, so if you want to let him know you're free you can do so.
2006-12-06 14:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait!! Otherwise, the guy may view you as a booty call that will drop everything for him, which is bad. And if you choose to go ahead and get it on tonight, make him DANCE for it.
2006-12-06 14:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much up to you. Guy seems a little desperate or hooked on you to be calling so soon but maybe he really enjoys your company. Hope you didn't get a stage 5 clinger :D
2006-12-06 14:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by Die S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask why he's impatient. Have him wait until the weekend. Don't let anyone get in the way of your work.
2006-12-06 14:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by Cold Fart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to do it go ahead and do it. I respect people more for doing or saying things that satisfies themselves. although we can't survive alone, we sure live alone in this world. You come and leave by yourself you don't wonder what if or say I wish I did. So if it makes u happy do it but u only have one shot (Do you want to say what if or i should have) ?
2006-12-06 14:59:49 · answer #6 · answered by tre_132mp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IMHO you should lay down the law and tell him that good things come in time. If he wants to have a relationship then he has to learn that it isn't all about what he wants.
2006-12-06 15:01:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmph you should wait until the weekend regardless
2006-12-06 14:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by spiritualism0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait til the weekend like you said. "some lovin' " is great....... great enough that he can wait and anticipate the weekend.
2006-12-06 15:02:13 · answer #9 · answered by hthr34 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you need to pull the "MAN CODE" on him make him wait for the weekend you can always take care of yourself until than trust me he'll want ya even more if you make him wait remember we are men who want what we cant have......,.
2006-12-06 20:33:14 · answer #10 · answered by tracy_baker47246 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋