me and my best friend/roomate haven't been getting along lately and we have another eight months on our lease, i been avoiding her by spending nights elsewhere, please help!
2006-12-06 06:51:44 · 7 answers · asked by mzvirgo19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try to make amends. start the conversation, and ensure that you don't get hostile or angry. this makes it hard for her to be angry at you. also, stick it out. not everything in life can be resolved by ignoring and leaving it.
2006-12-06 06:54:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you don't get along, doesn't mean you should be spending your nights elsewhere. Just let this roomate know that the 2 of you have to get along while under the same household, and that you will try to stay out of each other's way. You are on the lease also, and you have a right to stay there.
2006-12-06 14:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by bostonchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you could suggest that another person take over your part of the lease. That would help both of you to resolve this issue. If you are unable to find somebody try talking to the landlord, some can be sympathetic. You cannot continue to feel so stressed over this or, ruin your friendship any further
2006-12-06 15:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by wandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend lives with me also and we dont get along. We have come to the conclusion that we are too much alike, but we make it work as good as we can until she can find a new plcae. So my suggetion to you is try to talk to her about your problems and make it last for the 8 months, because good friends are hard to find, so dont lose a friendsahip over something that can be fixed.
2006-12-06 14:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by Dez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try sitting her down and talking to her about the situation. Try letting her tell you what the problem is and then you tell her what the problem is between her that you have. Then you should ask her what she wants from you and you should tell her what you want from her. Then you both need to come to a compromise. If this doesn't work then try giving or sending her a letter or sending the message to her through one of her friends or someone she's around regularly.
2006-12-06 14:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to be nice and fight through the 8 months
2006-12-06 14:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by Crazy ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe yall should spend the night together.
if ya know what i mean
2006-12-06 15:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by mona ferrell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋