Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

Ok..I've been dating my fiancee now for a year.Things started off all good at first...then after he got used to me..things went down hill.He wouldn't respect my wishes to stop going out to clubs,stop going to parties, and to stop taking exstacy pills.He got drunk and high most of the times and went out with his dead beat cousin.He ruined our relationship because he influenced my dumb fiancee to disrespect me..he stressed me out so bad that I lost our baby and he wasn't even with me at the hospital :(....RECENTLY..I was introduced to a friend of mines cousin..he is my soulmate..I mean..we have so much in common it scares the crap out of both of us.I have spent time with him and we really click.All of a sudden..my then b/f..stop hanging with his cousin,got a really good job,took me on a shopping spree,and bought me the ring I always wanted..we're newly engaged..that kinda puts me in a bind..b4 he did all this..I was sure that our relationship was dead..now I have 2 men n love.wat do i do

2006-12-06 07:42:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was on msn & I noticed that my ex-bf was playing Coldplay songs. The thing is that he HATES Coldplay but he knows that they’re my favourite band. I thought he was giving me some kind of signal so I said hi to him & asked “since when did u like coldplay” and he said “I always liked them”. Most of his responses were short & it took him long to respond so I just told him I had to go. I don’t get it, why did he do that? What are his intentions? He was the one who ended the relationship, but he would still say hi to me on msn but he doesn’t say hi as much, but today I felt like he was giving me a signal so I made the first move & said hi first. Also, I saw him a month ago at the university campus that we both attend. He seemed REALLY happy to see me, he said "give me a shoutout and we can do something", & I just looked at him, and he said "yeah we can see a movie together or anything you want", I just said bye and walked away. He hasn't tried to ask me to hang out yet.

2006-12-06 07:42:34 · 10 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

me and this guy have benn goin out since may 31,2006 how long hav we been goin out?

2006-12-06 07:41:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend (fiance) bought me the engagement ring. From my understanding, traditionally I am supposed to buy him his wedding band right? Do I also buy my own wedding band or is he supposed to?

2006-12-06 07:41:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My friend was with his GF for a year..
He is 26 and she is 27.

They shared their histories about 4 months into it and he told her he had 3 diff sex partners in relationships, she told him she had 3 too.

Then 2 weeks b4 the wedding she told the truth. 12 diff guys.

He called it off.

2006-12-06 07:41:41 · 20 answers · asked by Its me 4 in Singles & Dating

Why i can't find a p-friend from Canada. But Lots from US. Are you kinda shy or not easy goin?Me from Republic of Kazakstan.

2006-12-06 07:41:38 · 2 answers · asked by oskarbutterfly 1 in Friends

2006-12-06 07:40:37 · 4 answers · asked by vergota4u 1 in Singles & Dating

What should I do with her?

2006-12-06 07:40:32 · 11 answers · asked by MaTt 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my and i got seperated for 6 months because i found out she's been lying to me about what she does when she's gone come to find out she's been messing round with crackheads she keeps calling me saying she still loves me but now its like she wontcome see me i dont know where she is so i cant go to her and im tired of her calling me crying and hanging up what did i do wrong i mean i did all the cooking and cleaning etc.... so she wouldnt have to worry bout that kind of stuff we never even had real argument what went wrong is it me do women not like good men anymore i never even had sex till i met her someone tell me what i did wrong because im real tired of the sadness and tears coming down my face out of the blue

2006-12-06 07:40:30 · 12 answers · asked by darkdragonknight 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my boyfriend, but i don't think its the forever kind of love. It was once, but now its different. How can i explain that to him without hurting his feelings?

2006-12-06 07:39:48 · 24 answers · asked by Jaymi C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend and i are dating for almost two year now we argue a lot about him been out a lot with friend i know that a man must be a man but but most of the time hes to tired to chat with me like he would do with his friend i made several time a plan to leave him but i can don't think that i could thats my longest relationship and sometime he could be so sweet and treats me like lady but do u think that if you love someone can u make them cry over and over and said that u will change and you do not i dont know what to do.

2006-12-06 07:39:28 · 9 answers · asked by evadney 1 in Singles & Dating

Someone I know has claimed she was raped by her husband recently. She ran out of the house to her daughters who called the police and her husband is sitting in County Lockup.

Is this possible for a husband to rape a wife and what are you're thoughts?

2006-12-06 07:39:28 · 36 answers · asked by mikeae 6 in Marriage & Divorce

When a guy says he would love you if he was single what does it mean?
i was dating a guy for a while we both were very physically attracted to one another and things broke up as i was upset about my job etc a little needy at the time...he always stares at me when we are out and the other day i apoligised to him and he said i was one of the most lovely people he had met and that initially he was intimidated by my job ( i have quite a high powered job and earn good money) he also said he thought i was gorgeous back then and still does, i said i was leaving and he kept on grabbing me and said he would love me...if he was single..When i chatted about one of my ex boyfriends he got jealous and said 'what about us?'. He has only just started to date someone else..i have always been infatuated with him and vice versa..what should i do should i ask him for a drink as friends, i think he could of beena potential one

2006-12-06 07:39:22 · 4 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 07:39:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He found me, my first love, both are married with kids, he had a baby to be born soon. He emailed me, i took the bait, hes had my heart for a long time. We rekindled, he was honest and told me his baby was due in 3 weeks, but that he loved me and wanted to see me, I tried to resist at first, but I was afraid if I didnt, Id never know. So I did, all the feelings came back, that Id kept in my heart (8 yrs)He told me he was gonna tell her, he told his parents, they told him to follow his heart, then when he told the wife, she called his parents and threated them with the grandchildren. they then threated to disown him if he didnt do the right thing. So, he came to see me and told me that he had to be where he was at, he couldnt turn his back on the new baby. So he couldnt see me anymore, cause that made him want to be with me. SO the baby was born and Ive heard nothing since. He told me he wanted me to wait for him.His wife doesnt care. My husband forgave me. This was real love.

2006-12-06 07:38:41 · 3 answers · asked by janner1999 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just can't afford 10-12 thousand for it in the store but she has always dreamed about that damn little blue box.....HELP

2006-12-06 07:38:27 · 7 answers · asked by orzoff 4 in Weddings

sammie, my best friend is goin out with chad who does all kinds of druges. my other friend patience is the one who got them together and today we (sammie & i) got in a big big fight! im really sad because we'v ben good friend for a long time! can you guys help me and sammie?

2006-12-06 07:38:16 · 8 answers · asked by Joel 1 in Singles & Dating

well in school today i was in my lesson and my mate !!!!! fell out with me for no reason at all it was like a click and i was tryner get her attenttion but when i did she went shut up ure f in moron and then when i sat down she kept on saying **** to me like shut ure mouth u f**king nerd !!!!!!!! and then i said what ever and then she said to me shut ure mouth and then i sed omg shut up wil you coz ure relai winding me up and she replied wht ever and thn the nxt minute she sed im gonna telll the head master AND IL GET SUM 1 TO WITNESS IT but the person that she said that she was gonna get to witness it was thr other side of the room and never moved from her seat keep this is mind that the gurl that said it had galsses and was dog ugly and a emo urghhh we were llike gurd m8 but then she just clicked and wenta l funny and she keeps on giving me evils its reali winding me and acting relai cocky 2 me wht do u think of this and what would u do xx

thanks so much answer it please xxxxx

2006-12-06 07:37:27 · 9 answers · asked by **pure**brunnette** 1 in Friends

give me your reason.

coz this guy i'm seeing seems to have a problem ¬_¬!

2006-12-06 07:37:16 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just found out he has cheated on me for over 10 years with anything female that said yes. I am here with 4 kids and the bills. He is living with one of the women he cheated with. She put a leash on him and he isn't supposed to even talkj to me, he does but not when she is around. He has only been gone 2 weeks and he seems to be changing for her. I know it won't last, she will get what she deserves, him too. Even before he left, when I wasn't sure what is going on and now she acts like I am the BIT&&%%##!! Like I am the one who went out with a married man for years. Wait till she finds out there are at least 8 more during her!! Anyway I need to get them a gift a movie for them to enjoy that portrays a nice stay at home mom, a slimy 2 timing father and another woman. I want it to show how disgusting they really are. By the way I never cheated, I am not a nag and I never withheld sex. I am actully quite nice!! Any ideas for moviesout there?

2006-12-06 07:35:45 · 12 answers · asked by susyq 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i really like trhis go i just want to no how i say it to her without her feeling weird

2006-12-06 07:35:17 · 23 answers · asked by steveo453 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 07:35:13 · 3 answers · asked by BlEeDiNg wAtErMeLoN 3 in Friends

Ok...I have a younger sister and she makes my life miserable. She always follows me around and like kindergardeners tattle tails...i dont get the point of life anymore...what should I do with my sister?

2006-12-06 07:35:11 · 16 answers · asked by i <3 xou 2 in Family

How many of you think that pronography destroys a relationship? I'm not talking about an addiction, I'm talking about an ocassional x-rated movie with your spouse.

2006-12-06 07:34:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend has been acting funny since last week. And on monday i called her and asked if she wanted to meet up she said that she could meet up with me the next day instead. I was kinda stunned by this coz if she ever asks me to meet up im there, always. And i figured it'd be the same the other way round????? Shes job hunting at the moment and she was doing that when i called. But i asked to meet up later when the job hunting was done. She agreed to meet up that night but she was short with me on the phone. Shes been short with me in txt msgs aswell. Shes normally says nice things in messages but she was very formal and blunt the other nite. What do you guys think. Thanks

2006-12-06 07:34:53 · 11 answers · asked by macmurphy45 1 in Singles & Dating

I'll be spending christmas at my boyfriend's best friend's house this year. *Kenny has 3 sisters ranging from 21-28ish and they have different taste! I want to get them all something nice but not the same thing for each girl. Does anyone have any "universal" ideas that have a lot of options? I'm totally stuck!

2006-12-06 07:34:08 · 7 answers · asked by jenna 2 in Friends

me and my ex broke up for i think 3 months now and we been together for 3 years but this time he said it was for good but everytime i see him i get those memories of me and him and he looks at me then jus stares at me until i leave i wanna knoe if he still likes me but i cant face the fact that hes with someone new wat should i do

2006-12-06 07:34:06 · 4 answers · asked by vLiiCiiOuS&YoUnG oRiiGiiNaL 1 in Singles & Dating

i get the feeling my partner doesn't love me the way that i love him, he never tells me he loves me unless im depressed he doen't show me much affection i just get the feeling he wants to be some where else

2006-12-06 07:34:00 · 17 answers · asked by zara13 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-06 07:33:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im getting married in less than a month and we still havent chosen what to do for our honeymoon. we wanted to stay close to home and can only take a two night three day trip but theres not much to do in indiana or michigan it seems. anybody got some ideas?

2006-12-06 07:33:30 · 3 answers · asked by andrea_shawn@sbcglobal.net 1 in Weddings