My wife always thinks the wrong way!?

Question

What should I do with her?

Answer 1

you married her, did you not have any idea what her thinking and ideas and values were before you married her? Now is not the time to try and change her, chances are she is a grown women and entitled to her own opinion. Your ideas and thoughts are not suppose to be hers entirely. God bless****

Answer 2

It is generally not a good idea to evaluate somebody else's life choices based on what "everybody" says. For "some" people, that is certainly true that the guy won't leave his wife. But in your case, you are divorcing him well after the fact - so, WHY oh why are you even concerned about whether or not he goes running to her? Since you no longer want him, what difference does it make? IF you had been able really to repair and renew your marriage bond (merely staying together grimly does not count), you would not be divorcing him. Clearly he is capable of all kinds of deceptive behavior, including but not limited to sneaking around and lying to you for more than a year, so the fact that he has slagged her off in front of other people and now is running to her seems pretty consistent with that, doesn't it? But even beyond that, he never really returned to you "emotionally" - since you say yourself that he probably didn't leave because you threatened suicide, he probably felt like a hostage back in your marriage - and you probably felt as though you had taken a hostage, since you saw the connection he had with her. Don't spend a lot of time evaluating other peoples' motivations and behaviors once you've decided they are not for you anymore. You were married VERY young, and you've both gone through a lot of changes. Pick yourself up with dignity and move on. And by the way, you have no idea what will happen with them - their story is not yet written. Maybe he'll do the same thing to her, some day.

Answer 3

you don't have to do anything with her, instead of thinking that she is always wrong , why not listen to what she says, you may find her direction in life isn't so wrong after all. when you keep thinking negatively against what you wife says, you'll never be listening to what SHE is trying to tell you. open up your ears and mind there is more than one answer to every question. that's why we are all so different - we are allowed to think differently from what someone else thinks. this is not a sin - it's called life and to make a marriage work you have to respect your partner and realize we can't always be on the same page.

Answer 4

Dude here is the deal. Your wife NEVER thinks the wrong way, she is always right. If men would figure this out, life would be much easier. LOL

Answer 5

That's called disagreement and not seeing eye-to-eye. What should you do with her? You make her sound like a sack of flour. Get some respect for your wife!

Answer 6

You didn't provide enough info for us to comment. Maybe its you who thinks the wrong way. How are we to know without details.

Answer 7

Perhaps she's not the one thinking the wrong way.

Answer 8

How arogant to (1) generalize that she is "always" wrong, she must hate being around your superior ***... and (2) assume that it's her that's wrong. Maybe it you, or maybe you are both wrong... Either way, you sound like a jerk.

Answer 9

Who are you to say her thoughts are wrong? Just because her thoughts are not the same as your does not make them wrong it just makes them different.

Answer 10

Not enough information....