A question for the girls if you'd help me out, thanks........?

Question

My girlfriend has been acting funny since last week. And on monday i called her and asked if she wanted to meet up she said that she could meet up with me the next day instead. I was kinda stunned by this coz if she ever asks me to meet up im there, always. And i figured it'd be the same the other way round????? Shes job hunting at the moment and she was doing that when i called. But i asked to meet up later when the job hunting was done. She agreed to meet up that night but she was short with me on the phone. Shes been short with me in txt msgs aswell. Shes normally says nice things in messages but she was very formal and blunt the other nite. What do you guys think. Thanks

Answer 1

Well give her some space and understand her frustrations. But leave room for open communication, because once the calls ends and those special moments become to far apart. Then you really should be worried. Right now just ask her do she need help. Because she could be ashamed. If that don't work then you need to be direct and ask where is this relationship is going.

Answer 2

Its kinda hard to tell. On one hand, she might be stressed out looking for a job and just needs some time to do what she has to do. If this is the case, dont pressure her, let her get herself settled so she could then she could feel better about her situation.

If it does not stop after she is settled, then it might be time to sit her down and talk to her. Let her know how you are feeling and that she is acting out of character. Its just to hard to judge how she is feeling without getting any answers.

Hopefully she will tell you the truth about her feeling, because being in a relationship is about communication and if somebody for some reason is not happy they should let the other person now.

Good luck.

Answer 3

Try not to take it personal. She might just really be stressed trying to find a job, and that is not easy these days. Just be upfront with her and ask her is there anything you can do to help her because you feel like she is taking her frustrations out on you and its not suppose to be that way. Tell her you are there to help her out of hard times, and there for her to talk to.

Answer 4

I think you should back off a little bit and give her some space. It will either bring the two of you closer, or you will find what you are thinking is true. If you push and pursue when she is backing off, it will only worsen the situation.

Answer 5

She either has someone else, something on her mind that is very distracting to her. Or she has found out something about you that is very upsetting to her. Why not ask her what is going on and why the sudden change in attitude towards you. Good luck and God bless****

Answer 6

She is stressed out and busy looking for a job be supportive of her and let her call you that way you know that she is not busy

Answer 7

That she is stressing because she needs to find a JOB

Being broke is not cute or funny

b-patient

Answer 8

maybe she is just stressed out trying to find a job. also, dont be a doormat, i mean dont let her say jump and u say how high. 50/50 n relationships.

Answer 9

I think that she is just a little preoccupied with finding a job.But u never know she might not like you anymore and just doesn't want to hurt your feelings......I hope that its the first one!

Answer 10

maybe she is just concerned about money right know it is almost Christmas and everything else. plus there are bills to pay she could be worried about that to. talk to her tell her you are concerned and ask her if she has anything on her mind