Ok...I have a younger sister and she makes my life miserable. She always follows me around and like kindergardeners tattle tails...i dont get the point of life anymore...what should I do with my sister?
2006-12-06 07:35:11 · 16 answers · asked by i <3 xou 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Little sisters job is to make older sisters crazy. You need to accept that. Just like older sisters job is to make little sister do whatever she wants. It's the natural order of things. Instead of being annoyed that she follows you around try playing with her for a while then explaining that you now need alone time. She will be your sister all of your life and if you don't spend a little time being nice to her now you will regret it later in life when she wants nothing to do with you. I am a little sister who can't stand my older sister because of the hell she made my life when I was young. She was mean and rude and never paid me one second of time unless it was to make do stuff she didnt want to do herself and she would beat me up if I didnt do it. Now she wants a relationship and I have no need for her in my life. Dont grow up like we did.
2006-12-06 07:40:50 · answer #1 · answered by freakyallweeky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL I think little sisters have been bugging their big sisters since the year "dot". But you are missing the point. You are in a very responsible position of being the role model for her own future behaviours. Like it or not, YOU are part of the formation of her whole future personality, and her worth, one day, as a full grown, good and decent member of adult society. And she will some day reflect the kind of person YOU are. It may be a job you didn't ask for - but that, too, happens to be one of the most important lessons to learn in life.......that we all, from time to time, get landed with responsibilities that we didn't sign up for. But it honors US when we take them on without complaint, and do the best job we possibly can ---just because it's the right thing to do. Make a friend of "little sister" - and an ally -- and I believe one day on down the road, you'll be very happy about the reward that you'll get from it, as you see her blossoming into the thoroughly nice young woman that you helped teach her to become.
2006-12-06 07:53:13 · answer #2 · answered by sharmel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger I didn't get the point in life either. Please believe life is a great gift even when you are miserable. Your little sister is looking to you as a role model. I know she seems like a pest now, but if you work this the right way she will become a cherished friend for the rest of your life. I only had a little pesky brother growing up, but was lost when he almost lost his life to drugs. I am thankful every day that he has changed and I have him around still.
2006-12-06 07:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Sounds like she really loves you.
Make it a point to take her out or do things with her - just the two of you. The more you give to her, the more she'll relax.
She's fighting for your attention, and I think it's sweet. You don't think that now, but when both of you are all grown up, you'll appreciate each other even more.
Give in a little - give it a try. You'll see, she's not that creepy. She just wants to be like you! Her beautiful big sister!
2006-12-06 07:39:01 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Saffire♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is wanting attention from you... try adding her into some of the things you do... set aside some time for just you and her... She may feels left out and that is why she is telling on you.... She looks up to you and you are her rolemodel so try letting her do somethings with you and you will see she will act different once you have...
2006-12-06 07:40:09 · answer #5 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enjoy these things. one day when you don't see each other as much and live many miles away from each other you will see the love that you feel for one another. 1 am one of 4 and all live in Florida except for me. i have not been able to see them for 3 1/2 years and now that we are all adults and far from each other i wish i had them around all the time to annoy the heck out of me.
2006-12-06 07:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by hormigabrava 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with her and tell her exactly what's bothering you and describe what she's been doing. Believe it or not, an intimate approach often works with younger siblings. When they hear YOU repeating back things they've said or done, they realize that it's wrong. I wish you well!
Merry Christmas!
2006-12-06 07:39:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u have to take everywhere you go? If not try talking to ur mom about this. Even tell your sister how you feel. If this doesn't work spank her the hardest you can!
2006-12-06 07:41:20 · answer #8 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, i have the same problem. my little sister is always following me and annoying me and copying everything about me. and then she says i'm the one that annoys her. little sisters are a major pain but according to what people say they look up to you and they think you're cool thats why they always follow you and copy you.
2006-12-06 07:39:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably just wants you to pay some attention to her. you are her big sister and i'm sure she looks up to you. don't be too mean to her. but let her know that sometimes you need your space without her. let her be part of what you are doing sometimes. it will make her feel important.
2006-12-06 07:39:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋