sammie, my best friend is goin out with chad who does all kinds of druges. my other friend patience is the one who got them together and today we (sammie & i) got in a big big fight! im really sad because we'v ben good friend for a long time! can you guys help me and sammie?
2006-12-06 07:38:16 · 8 answers · asked by Joel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's not a damn thing you can do.
To Love someone is to truly recognize they have free will, to make whatever choices they want to make. You don't always agree with everything your friend wears do you? Yet she had a choice and made a choice to wear that outfit.
Speak to her clearly, bluntly, openly and honestly. Tell her your thoughts, feelings and why she needs to lose this creep. Then just walk away. From her and from her decision. She needs to know her foolish decision has consequences, it has cost her alot.
Give her the room she needs to make mistakes, like most girls she'll waste a lot of time on this creep, giving freely of her time, her body and her money and her life but eventually, if your friendship is strong, she'll return.
2006-12-06 07:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by simm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes when people are in love the truth falls on deaf ears.. if she refuses to see what is really happening there is nothing you can do about it but let her figure it out on her own and be there for her when she needs someone to talk too.... I know it is hard to watch a good friend mess up her life with a druggie.. but sometimes letting people figure things out on there own is better then tryin to force it on them... Give her time and she will get sick of having no money because he is taking it for drugs and she will get tired of that lifestyle... Good Luck and be patient with her.
2006-12-06 15:43:45 · answer #2 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should get her some proof! and tell her that you wouldnt lie about this because you care about her and you want her to be happy!!anyway good luck!i wish u and sammie the best!!
2006-12-06 15:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by roxygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have known that telling someone something bad about the man that they are with is a no-no. You are going to have to accept the fact that she will choose who she wants to be with and stop being a "fix it man". Let her bumb her head - she'll come around
2006-12-06 15:42:18 · answer #4 · answered by FeeLnUFeeLnMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her and be a good support system if and when this relationship fail. Also, I hope he doesn't influence your friend to take drugs or get her involved in his destructive life.
2006-12-06 15:46:50 · answer #5 · answered by ladilove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a good friend, you've done your part. The rest is up to her.
Sorry, she doesn't listen. It's time for you to just sit back and be there for your friend when her little dream world falls apart.
2006-12-06 15:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went though this with my boyfriends best friend his girlfirend was a druggie and he won't believe us so we took pictures and showed him...he dumped her and told her parents they sent her to a rehab...and now every girl he comes across he ask us do we know her...and if she;s doing drugs...by the way we are drug free
2006-12-06 15:43:48 · answer #7 · answered by ladywetherell23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must have presented her with some kind of proof and if she still dosent believe you then it could only mean that she is also doing crack herself, look at Whitney
2006-12-06 15:46:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋