He found me, my first love, both are married with kids, he had a baby to be born soon. He emailed me, i took the bait, hes had my heart for a long time. We rekindled, he was honest and told me his baby was due in 3 weeks, but that he loved me and wanted to see me, I tried to resist at first, but I was afraid if I didnt, Id never know. So I did, all the feelings came back, that Id kept in my heart (8 yrs)He told me he was gonna tell her, he told his parents, they told him to follow his heart, then when he told the wife, she called his parents and threated them with the grandchildren. they then threated to disown him if he didnt do the right thing. So, he came to see me and told me that he had to be where he was at, he couldnt turn his back on the new baby. So he couldnt see me anymore, cause that made him want to be with me. SO the baby was born and Ive heard nothing since. He told me he wanted me to wait for him.His wife doesnt care. My husband forgave me. This was real love.
2006-12-06 07:38:41 · 3 answers · asked by janner1999 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Of course he told his parents and then his wife and she threatened them with the grandchildren. This is the newest excuse I have ever heard, and it is a great one, he really has an imagination doesn't he? A great excuse for having an affair and wanting to end it after the new wears off and goes back home to the WIFE. YOU GOT PLAYED!! Don't be stupid and fall for lame excuses anymore, aren't you worth more than what he did to you? And honey, that wasn't real love, your husband forgiving you is REAL LOVE!!
2006-12-06 07:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What went wrong...
You cheated on your husband, he cheated on his wife, if this was REAL love none of this would have happened. You said it yourself, you took the bait, but it wasn't about love. You are lucky you have a forgiving, FAITHFUL husband, unlike the cheating husband you love so much! Pray to the lord for forgiveness and strength, pray for direction, you need it.
2006-12-06 07:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't ask what went wrong. Sometimes things just don't last. This is not meant to be, him leaving you once should have proved that to you. I'm sorry your heart but you deserve a real man who will be able to be with you no matter what.
2006-12-06 07:44:27 · answer #3 · answered by AnnaG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋