Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

3 months ago I told my girlfriend I wanted some time apart because things were moving fast, and we were getting pretty serious. My girlfriend was very upset, but I insisted and we didnt see each other for a month. When I realized how much I loved her I asked her to take me back. At first she was still angry at me, but after a few weeks she finaly took me back.We are happy for the past two months, but last week I asked if she had dated anyone while we were apart - I did not.I found out she not only did date but she even slept with someone she knows from her gym and someone from her work, she says for about 3 weeks she had regular sex .The past few days I have been trying to hold in my jealousy.I know it is my fault and I gave her the freedom, but how do I get rid of my rage without showing it to my girlfriend?I have been asking her details of what happened and we have talked, and i feel i need to know altho its hard. i let her know it is ok to talk about enjoying the sex. am i ok?

2006-12-06 08:55:51 · 7 answers · asked by downtokissit 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend is a p.k. (pastors kid) and he lost his wallet in a messy house and it had over 200 dollars in it, and there are at least like 5 other people that could be accused of it, but the only reason he is sayin i did it, cause i bought an mp3 player at the wrong time. and his dad has talked to my parents, but not as a pastor, as adams dad. and i think my rents' listen to him cause hes a pastor, he knows everything right? so now the only people that i think actually believe me are my girlfriend and her rents, my youth leader, and a couple of my friends. and see adam has been my best friend forever, but he doesnt believe me that i didnt take his wallet cause he has his mind set on one person. and my parents seem optimistic because they dont believe that i can actually save money, they try and get me to write down how much money i have, and where i get it, but i dont have any credentials against this b/c i never write anything down in me "ledger" what should i do, plz email me

2006-12-06 08:55:24 · 4 answers · asked by Dan The Man 3 in Friends

I asked my close female friend if she FELT anything towards me at all, ever. More than just a friend. (She knows how I feel about her) She replied:

"I never feel nothing for anybody and every individual means something to me in their own unique way.Thats all I'm going to say". MEANING???

If we were just friends WHY wouldn't she just say so???I asked her to be blunt and that I wouldn't hate her for her reply. Help!!!Advice!!!

She then said there are too many ppl in the world who are 2 faced and selfish,who don't value individuals like she does.Is hurt that OTHER ppl don't value ppl the way she does.MEANING???

What she thinking\feeling???Will she speak to me again? What do I do now???

Surely as FRIENDS, she would let me know if there was no chance at all....NO???Is she scared???

2006-12-06 08:55:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been trying to figure this out with my faince and its just like when i talk to him he is completely quite,it drives me nuts but i think im patience enough, we are engaged and have been for a few mths. i have a job and he doesnt, we do not live together yet. but i feel that everytime he talks about a job he is interested in and when it comes to approaching it, such as him wanting to be a electrician. he like shys back. when he shys back, i feel like everything is rely on me. i want him to be able to support him and i well,even as he says he wants to support us.next yr we'd be moving in togther etc.but what should i do? im just getting sick of this repeat and i just wnat him to get a damn job. i dont know if i can be able to go on with this reltionship if he wont eb able to support and its all on me.:( its hard choice cuz i love him so much...help plz!

2006-12-06 08:55:00 · 5 answers · asked by Andrea 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months. This my first serious relationship, he took my virginity so we're on a whole other level than what I am used to. Recently we've been having nit-picky arguments over the most random things. At first, I blamed it on the fact that it was "that time of the month" but my period is over and we're still having problems. He works in a factory from 4:30 PM until 3 AM. He spends all day with his friends and his nights with me. I don't think it's fair because all we do is sleep when we're together. When I confront him about spending more time together, he accuses me of having "seperation difficulties." I'm working on getting a job, my license and a college education, which would keep me busy while he's at work and with his friends but then I worry we'll see each other even less and things will be even harder than they are now. Am I too clingy or does he spend too much time with his friends? How can I get through to him and make him realize how I feel?

2006-12-06 08:54:53 · 12 answers · asked by Desiree 5 in Singles & Dating

Are you “Super In-Love?”, “Gushingly Ga-Ga?” “Over-The-Moon? ...
or "Dying of Boredom", "Throwing in the Towel", "Ready to Kill 'Em", etc., etc.

2006-12-06 08:54:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Situation: I stood up to a bully in my family this week. There are three. One-- I have no contact with, the second, I have very limited contact with and the third, well I FINALLY stood up to her. She went and TOLD the other two and now they are all ganging up on me. They are hateful, dishonest and cruel. I am honest and very sensitive. I've asked them all to stay away from me, my husband and my daughter. I know it will hurt my mother terribly but I just can't take it anymore. Can someone say something to me that will help me find my pride again? I have been so derailed and ganged up on and lied to and about. I am crying as I write this. Anything??

2006-12-06 08:53:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We have lived together for 3 years. We have plenty of "Stuff." We think a nice honeymoon is a great gift that we otherwise would not be able to enjoy.

2006-12-06 08:53:32 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i recently moved far away from my girlfriend and we dont see eachother very much,when we do its the best thing in the world,its really stressful on the both of us and drives me crazy.this is not permanent just untill i get on my feet here.iam starting stupid arguements over the dumbest things that push her further and further away from me.as much as i hate fighting with her i seem to keep causing these things.i know i can be extremely jealous and or insecure at times witch as alot to do with her cheating on me a year ago,we broke up over that,we have been backtogether for a little over a moth after being separated and rarely talking for 10 months.she told me that she thinks that it might* have been a bad idea getting back together when we cant see eachother when ever we want,she doesnt want to break up(right now)the thing,its not forever maybe a month,month and a half longer.im so in love with her,i want to marrie this girl and will do anything to make this relationship work.
comments?

2006-12-06 08:53:00 · 6 answers · asked by lost and found 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 08:52:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi
my friend and i have been freiends for three years...she's one of my best friend...but ever since this year she been a little bitchy!...she can be the bestest friend ever but sometimes her attitude just turns me off.....alot of people don't like her because of her attitude...but she doesn't know cause she thinks they are real friends....instead she's giving her best friend an attitude whenever I talk to her. I know she loves me and I love her (we're not gay!...just friends!) but ever since I've stopped talking to her she seems a little sad and I know she misses me...well I miss her too, but I can't continue to talk to her if she doesn't know her real friends from her false ones and continue to give me an attitude....she hardly evens listens to me when i try to talk to her should I talk back to her or let our friendship slide?

2006-12-06 08:52:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How do I let this guy at school know that I'm not interested. I see that he wants more than friendship, but I'm not attracted to him physically. He's a great guy so I don't want to hurt his feelings. He asked me to go places with him already. I did once, thinking we're friends, but I realized that he wants more. What do I say to him when he asks me to go with him somewhere the next time?!

2006-12-06 08:52:04 · 9 answers · asked by xXPrincessXx 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 08:51:22 · 2 answers · asked by DontHateThePlayerHateTheGame 6 in Singles & Dating

My little 11 yo brother got hit and cut by a girl mad bc he laughed at her sneeze, so he punch her lights out, and i hi 5ved him and took him for ice cream after! Now she wont come within 10 feet of him. I told him 'Good job dude!'

And you girls think i should tell him to "respect her".. lol.?

2006-12-06 08:50:36 · 22 answers · asked by Peter X. Long 2 in Singles & Dating

went on blind date ..last night seemed to go ok ..but hes been blanking me all day on line ....should I close and put down to experiance

2006-12-06 08:50:29 · 8 answers · asked by bobonumpty 6 in Singles & Dating

We've done:

LIttle red riding hood
a hooker
Beth - dog the bounty hunters wife...

2006-12-06 08:50:14 · 8 answers · asked by jairman2004 2 in Singles & Dating

My problem is i keep no having random erections. I'm not thinking sexual thoguhts but still have these erections. The problem is that they are REALLY annoying cause they usually happen while i'm stitting and i dnt notice em till i get up. They make it hard to walk and people ask me if i hurt my foot or something. I was wondering if you know of anyway to stop these random erections.
i'm circumcised and could it be side-effect of puberty?

2006-12-06 08:50:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 08:50:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There's this really hot guy that works at a coffe shop that i've been looking at. Whenever I go he gets nervous, i can tell because he gave this customer the wrong change and dropped a coffee. So me and my friend need some tequila for a party, but we're too young to buy it. So we plan to go ask him, first we're gonna ask for a coffee, then for his name, the we ask it by saying "can you do us...........a favor". We also will flirt with it, and get its attention. If he says no, we plan to say "is there anything we can do for you to get it"....but we wont be serious about it. Do you think this plan will work??? What do you think this guy's reaction will be?

2006-12-06 08:49:53 · 24 answers · asked by lizx002 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 08:49:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my best friend and i have a band together i play guitar and he sing withour other friends but he got an AMAZING offer from a record company and we come from a small town so this is a once in a lifetime chance but they only want solo artists so the rest of us arent included in the deal his family needs the money but him and i have been friends for 9 years and hes only 18 and he says he doesnt want to leave me behind while he becomes famous i have tried everything and he still wont go i even got the rest of the band to try and help me but he keeps saying he wont leave me behind im only 15 so i cant go what should i do???

2006-12-06 08:47:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do you think men or women are more wild in the sack. If you don’t want to ask this then vote thumbs up for women or thumbs down for men.

2006-12-06 08:47:48 · 21 answers · asked by Male Sex God 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 08:47:33 · 4 answers · asked by blake t 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-06 08:47:04 · 24 answers · asked by Minnie 2 in Friends

I have no idea what I could do for her I treat like a queen and til no prevail this chis is still not happy any ideas, surprises are welcome!!!!

2006-12-06 08:46:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I was about 7 years old I was taken away from my birth mother and put up for adoption and now I am about to be 17 years old and I got contact of her and like I want to live with her and see her would it be against the law to go and do that at the age of 17 years old? Just to move with my birth family (mom) I mean I though I was old enough to do whatever I wanted and what if I just run away? Would that be okay just to walk out?

2006-12-06 08:46:31 · 9 answers · asked by vickyg_892008 3 in Family

2006-12-06 08:46:30 · 6 answers · asked by leisei 1 in Singles & Dating

What is your interpretation of the word "love"?

2006-12-06 08:46:22 · 3 answers · asked by theburlaces 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you think that there is a person for everyone?

2006-12-06 08:44:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 08:44:11 · 15 answers · asked by DontHateThePlayerHateTheGame 6 in Singles & Dating