Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

after he hurted my feelings he want 2 marry me and i must tell u am still love him but iam afraid of he maybe treat me so bad after marriage but i cant stop thinking in him coz he the frist love in my life and my mind tell me he is not for me but my heart tell me the oppsit and am so confuse ,i dont know how can i deal with this problem.can u tell me???

2006-12-06 08:30:38 · 11 answers · asked by moga 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 08:29:38 · 32 answers · asked by mary w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husbands cousin started dating his step sister right before thier parents got married.... then they moved to kentucky and just got married this past weekend.... tell me what you think about this situation... cause to me that is still too close for comfort!

2006-12-06 08:29:00 · 11 answers · asked by Spitfire 2 in Weddings

One night i was just at a party,with no reason to think it would be different from the rest.i spotted a good looking guy,as i entered,and later on as i glanced about,our eyes met.At that moment i felt like someone had knocked all the air out of me,i felt in shock,but i couldnt stop staring.And he bared the same expression.i have no idea what it was...i felt instantly besotted,and we stood and looked into eachothers eyes before even speaking.He's a really shy guy but we did get talking.However,i had a bf by then.Even though my bf means the world to me i cant get him out of my head a year on.And he still gives me that 'look' every day.Its almost a year to the day we met and i vowed i would tell him how i felt.I was fine until now,when the emotion has been getting to me,although he is a friend to me now.Why are we still giving eachother the same look a year on?Help me stop!

2006-12-06 08:28:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 16 and he's19, almost 20. Hes a freshman in ocllage and im a sophmore in highschool. I have absolutly NO clue what i should do. I think hes really funny and nice and we talk on the phone all the time but then when he asked me on a date i started feeling really weird with him. I know my parents would probably freak if they ofund out how old he was, i'm so confused. my friends say i should go for it but idk, the last time they told me to go for a guy it didn't turn out the best. What should i do? And if i do go on a date with him what should i tell my parents?

2006-12-06 08:28:30 · 24 answers · asked by Vanessa 2 in Singles & Dating

I was adopted when I was born because my biological mom though that I would have a better life. (my real dad was in jail at the time) I really want to meet my real family but I dont know how. My mom that adopted me doesnt want me to. All she would tell me about my family is that I have a brother named Kyle. Also that my biological mom told everyone that I died when I was born so that my real dad wouldnt come looking for me. I have always wanted a brother or sister eventhough all my friends complain about theres....its lonely being an only child! Does anyone know how I could find them. (I tryed all those ancester sites and they didne help at all!) Please help if you can!

2006-12-06 08:28:27 · 5 answers · asked by annastar92 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

a girl that has a shirt that shows her tummy or a low cut top that shows cleavage?

2006-12-06 08:28:24 · 27 answers · asked by sd_andrea86 2 in Singles & Dating

What would you do if you were anti-abortion & one of your close relatives owend numerous abortion clinics? What "should" your relationship be with him/her? Lets say you love him/her..but he/she is still a mass murderer ..isn't it a very awakened situation?
(sigh)..I know being mean to him/her isn't a very good thing to do..but what "should" you do? What would YOU do if you were/are in this situation?

2006-12-06 08:28:11 · 4 answers · asked by *~SoL~ * Pashaa del Ñuñcaa. 4 in Family

2006-12-06 08:27:40 · 6 answers · asked by babba b 1 in Family

apart fromSTIs, and STDs, why dont we have several partners.

2006-12-06 08:27:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im an 18 yr old girl in university. is it okay to have a boyfriend? is it weird for parents to get pissed off? i mean when you are 18 yrs in London you are considered to be an adult.

2006-12-06 08:27:34 · 1 answers · asked by Betty 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

or sit on the fence shy girls?

Whats ur preference?

2006-12-06 08:27:20 · 10 answers · asked by sammyantha 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i need help i like this guy but hes kinda weird and geeky but hes cool. i don't know how to ask him out or if i should go out with this HOT!!!! guy that likes me

2006-12-06 08:25:54 · 23 answers · asked by best friend 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 08:25:29 · 11 answers · asked by KIM 1 in Friends

what should i do
he calls me his girlfriend and i tell everyone he is my boyfriend but we dont ever get to see each other. He says he loves me and i siad the same thing.HELP me please...

2006-12-06 08:24:36 · 11 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive been with this guy for a little while now and I really love him so much, and he says he loves me also but he doesnt show it. And now its at the point where he doesnt even say "I Luv You" anymore and he is acting like he doesnt care about anything. What do i do?

2006-12-06 08:23:55 · 9 answers · asked by Heavenly Dezyre 2 in Singles & Dating

hi all wondering if you can help me, am 20 and she about 24 and she is great, but this girl is giving me mixed signs like one day she will talk to me standing up with her arms crossed, but then ten mintues later she will sit down and have a really good chat with me, or if shes on the phone she wouldnt look at me and focus on something else but then give me a quick look and then back again, and she keeps calling me darling, adn if she talking to two of us she would always look at me more then the other guy. shes really nice to me am really nice to her and want her more then anything, but dont know if she that in to me, what you guy and girls think?

2006-12-06 08:23:47 · 5 answers · asked by ken21london 1 in Singles & Dating

I was seeing this man for 3 months and i he did some thing to hurt me and i was going to leave him then we talked and he told me he really loved me alot and not to give up on him he went away for his job and when he came back he told me he needed space ! Well i pushed andhe still would not talk so i ended it with him! Well i told him i still love him but he has to talk to me about stuff and he now tells me he dose not want a realtionship but would like to be Just Friends ! We end up haveing sex when we are together and we still go out to eat and things some times but he dose not let me know how he is doing when he leaves out of town and things he knows i worry about him and i still care ! He told me he dose care but will Not let it go any wair !
I love him what should i do!

2006-12-06 08:23:39 · 7 answers · asked by Hart 1 in Singles & Dating

so my friend is dateing and me,my sis,jenny,gabby,and sofie went to shop we all know the guy really well because he was in our class so he is more of a friend to us s my friend knows he is kind of hard to get and so we saw our with ANOTHER GUY!!?? in the movies it was really her we got in shock so should we tell the guy that she WAS dateing about it or not SO PLEASE HELP!!!!

2006-12-06 08:23:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and don't say it doesn't matter because i know it does.....just pick one do you like white, hispanic, asian, black, native american, russian...whatever...which one do u prefer and why?

2006-12-06 08:23:09 · 7 answers · asked by Buttercup 3 in Singles & Dating

my grandpa, beeing at my house for a visit, my parents not beeing home at the moment, had the right to disciplining me for something i did and he found out (phone call) with a belt spanking ?
The parents of a kid i picked on called home and my grandpa took the phone call and was informed.

2006-12-06 08:22:40 · 6 answers · asked by L R 1 in Family

I just want to know if anyone got an answer for that just let me know holla at me when you find out why?

2006-12-06 08:22:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She made me mad so I got her drunk and when she passed out I used my forefinger and thumb to slide (with some lube on each one) a bag of marbles up her butt. When she woke up she went to use the bathroom and the marbles ploped onto the toliet and caused her to scream. And now she is mad at me. But didn't she deserve it for making me mad? I just want her to see how many of you agree with me so she can apologize and stop being mad at me.

2006-12-06 08:22:10 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You all keep saying im lucky, this and that, there's no good women out there anymore, are you guys nuts??
I still think there's a lot of good women to be had, you guys just go about it the wrong way. I learned one thing through my life with chicks, here's what I found out.
1. don't make your girl into a materialistic bimbo, you are who you are, she needs to like "you", not your money, cars, etc.
2. don't be a control freak. women hate this
3. don't be dominant, women need down time too bozos.
4. don't be insecure, women like confidence
5. don't be abusive, ever. If you are, don't have a gf
guess that's about it
I think there is still a lot of good woman out there guys, maybe you are looking in the wrong places.

2006-12-06 08:21:27 · 17 answers · asked by godzillasagoodman 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 08:21:21 · 15 answers · asked by David S 2 in Friends

I have the number and address of his exwife but speak only a little Spanish. Should I call her and ask her if he tells her he his coming back to Mexico to be with her and the kids. He is very sweet and acts like he loves me and he has been here for 3 years but my gut instinct says dont trust him. Would anyone that speaks Spanish be willing to talk to her for me?

2006-12-06 08:21:09 · 3 answers · asked by Mindy ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 08:21:07 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-12-06 08:20:02 · 1 answers · asked by alex p 1 in Friends

My fiance and I considering sneaking off to the JP and then later having an actual wedding.

If we do that, what is still considered proper and in good taste?

Could we still have an engagement party??

Could we still have a real wedding & reception??

Would we have to apply for another marriage license for the real wedding??

Still have a wedding registry??

Basically.......what can we get away with and what would just be wrong??

2006-12-06 08:18:54 · 11 answers · asked by obsolete_allurement 4 in Weddings

i have a guy friend whos is going out with a 16 year or almost 17 . girl . oh he 22 ? is he cradle rocking?

2006-12-06 08:18:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends