hi all wondering if you can help me, am 20 and she about 24 and she is great, but this girl is giving me mixed signs like one day she will talk to me standing up with her arms crossed, but then ten mintues later she will sit down and have a really good chat with me, or if shes on the phone she wouldnt look at me and focus on something else but then give me a quick look and then back again, and she keeps calling me darling, adn if she talking to two of us she would always look at me more then the other guy. shes really nice to me am really nice to her and want her more then anything, but dont know if she that in to me, what you guy and girls think?
2006-12-06 08:23:47 · 5 answers · asked by ken21london 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whoo. What I think, first off, is that you're spending a lot of time and energy trying to read the tea leaves and omens, which is probably going to drive you nuts.
Here's the thing, sweetie -- there are no guarantees, and the only good, solid way to find out if she'll go out with you is to ASK her. Love, any kind of love, involves a certain amount of risk. So you ask her out, and one of two things happens:
> she says "no." Okay, not pleasant, but also not fatal. Tells you something important - you find her attractive, but what you're looking for isn't her, but someone kind of like her, except wanting to go out with you, or
> she says "yes." You go out. You find you really enjoy it, or really don't, or it's just kind of okay. She seems to want to go out again, or not, either of which is a huge relief, depending on how much fun you had.
Someone once said that "Silence is a statement that is easy to misread." In other words, it's hard enough for human beings to communicate successfully when they discuss things. When they don't, it's just about hopeless.
You're 20, not 12, and you won't dry up and blow away if she turns you down. On the up side, she might not turn you down. So it all depends on what you want more, a chance at going out with her, or to protect yourself from any possible embarrassment. If you'd rather play it safe, you don't want the girl as much as you think.
2006-12-06 08:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes a hoe. Theres no opposite direction to place it..She does look for interest from you--yet in addition from her "BF"..maximum women folk that do this fairly dont have any thoughts what so ever for there "BF". Shes sending you mixed alerts becuause thats how some women people do? I even have an identical subject..yet im a splash i think youthful then you certainly..yet i like a woman and she or he has a bf and shes maximum suitable me on...yet i've got observed that she leads on different adult adult males..and she or he sends me mixed alerts...mixed alerts are stressful yet you're able to easily take a seat her down and ask her why the heLL shez sending you mixed alerts, and she or he has a bf?--that still ends up in hardship, fantastically if she has a bf..considerable hardship..
2016-12-11 03:34:26 · answer #2 · answered by declue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any physical interaction? Does she want to stay close to you? Hold hands? Are you the first and last person she calls during the day? Do you get any other signs that she may be interested in you other than what you've said because all I'm getting from that is you're friends.
2006-12-06 08:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have a chance. As you well know people react differently when they like someone. May be she wants to look at you but doesn't want to get caught. I would ask her out and see what she says. See how it all goes and hope it turns into more. Good Luck.
2006-12-06 08:28:56 · answer #4 · answered by Bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes you but is playing hard to get. she also might be nervous you're not into her because of the age difference.
2006-12-06 08:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by bosox.girl23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋