Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

I'd just be with my friends, or walking down the hallway and i'd notice this guy that I relly like looking at me and i would look and he wouldnt realize at first that im looking at HIM buh then he wud n he wud stop lookin, and recently my friend as i was walking with her, she knew about me likeing him, she sed oh hey you guys dont know each other.. ___ this is ally and Ally this is ___ and nothing happened after that. Well there is still that daily looking from afar thing. So does this mean anything?

2006-12-06 09:09:15 · 5 answers · asked by Ally 1 in Singles & Dating

I wrote my opinion about happiness on my blog & this person who reads it thought it was directed at HER & that I had written it with her in mind. But I didn't have anyone in mine, just people in general. I thought it was pretty nonimflammatory. I just wrote stuff like, Happiness is free, Regrets are pointless. Etc.
So she took it pretty offensively even if she hasn't confronted me or even said outright her feelings were hurt, on her blog it just says stuff like "No thank you" over & over again. But I can tell what's implied.
So, it's an invisible & unacknowledged conflict. Should I acknowledge it, but what if I'm wrong and she DIDN'T find it offensive, and then I'll just be pointing something out to her that never happened & she might take THAT offensively.

Also, it hurts that she disregards my opinion completely (she is a really close friend) & doesn't even bother to think about my ideas applied to her life.

I want to ignore it and let it pass.I don't like fights.What should I do?

2006-12-06 09:08:42 · 3 answers · asked by Traveler 3 in Friends

I'm in sexual relationship with a woman and going quite well mentally too. I would like to get her something nice for christmas but not like a ring or something just something about the 2 of us what kind of momento should i get?

2006-12-06 09:08:36 · 3 answers · asked by dano 2 in Singles & Dating

I JUST WANT TO KNOW

2006-12-06 09:08:13 · 9 answers · asked by magdaly 3 in Singles & Dating

How do you know if you or some one else is flirting

2006-12-06 09:08:02 · 7 answers · asked by YOUR MY BEST FRIEND 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My recent boyfriend had moved while were dating he said he had nowhere else to live this was true but after he moved i had only spoken to him maybe like twice in 2 months. He only moved 20minutes away. The couple of months he was gone i had meet someone else that sweept me off my feet we had sex one time, then when my man decided he wanted to work things out i openly told him what had happened he cosidered this cheating, but i think since we had broken up it wasn't. Maybe i shouldnt have told him,cuz now he says he cant trust me. Would you consider this cheating?

2006-12-06 09:07:05 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Expressions of Love


Touch me with your eyes, whisper to me with your fingers

Breathe me in, and never let me out

Taste me with your pores and caress me with your mind

Love me as if your blind, my thoughts and your thoughts combine

Teach me, free me, and see me without seeing me

Feel me without feeling me Be me I can be you

Both of us one in the same

Knowing you, loving you and experiencing you

Has taught me how to use more than ten percent of my Brain

2006-12-06 09:06:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

HELP GUYS COULD YOU Anwser This One?
When a guy says he would love you if he was single what does it mean?
i was dating a guy for a while we both were very physically attracted to one another and things broke up as i was upset about my job etc a little needy at the time...he always stares at me when we are out and the other day i apoligised to him and he said i was one of the most lovely people he had met and that initially he was intimidated by my job ( i have quite a high powered job and earn good money) he also said he thought i was gorgeous back then and still does, i said i was leaving and he kept on grabbing me and said he would love me...if he was single..When i chatted about one of my ex boyfriends he got jealous and said 'what about us?'. He has only just started to date someone else..i have always been infatuated with him and vice versa..what should i do should i ask him for a drink as friends, i think he could of beena potential one

2006-12-06 09:05:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have NEVER cheated on him, weve been married 11 years, but he still thinks a guy has only got to look at me and I'll be off. I have never done anything but he doesnt believe me.I'm 9 years younger than him, btw. He is driving me mad.

2006-12-06 09:05:12 · 16 answers · asked by The Way 4 in Marriage & Divorce

why do they keep going back and where can someone find help?

2006-12-06 09:04:59 · 53 answers · asked by yeouxleigh 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-06 09:04:38 · 15 answers · asked by Kelly T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-06 09:04:31 · 36 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

on, myspace, i need to look at someone's profile, but it's on private? how can i look at it? i'm not trying to stalk him but i like this guy, and i'm a very shy person. but his profile's on private and i can't really add him cause he knows i like him. and it's akward cause he didn't like me. so how do i get on his page? please help me.. i just wanna see his profile..please?

2006-12-06 09:03:58 · 16 answers · asked by ilovedotsx3 1 in Singles & Dating

My kids were allowed to go visit their father on Thanksgiving Day of 2005. He came and picked them up from my house under false pretenses. He claimed he just wanted to visit with them because he just got out of jail shortly before that. I have been trying to be a "good" parentby letting stay with him for a little while. I went to get them in May and he begged me to let them stay with him until I moved into my new apartment. So I moved into my apartment on August 1, 2006. I called him and he told me I was not getting sh**! My kids are crying for me his alleged wife says but she and him are seperated, because he a heroine addic. I dont know where he is staying because she dont want to give him up. I explained to her that I just wanted my kids, but she probably think I will do something crazy to her.Which these are my babies we are talking about and if I get a little crazy, DUH! I am on welfare and been to legal aid, and the cops and theuy told me there is nothing they can do about it.

2006-12-06 09:03:02 · 12 answers · asked by Lil Momma 1 in Family

Her boyfriend told me the kid was okay because it was light beer.

2006-12-06 09:02:35 · 5 answers · asked by OMG I thought I saw A Kitty Kat 2 in Friends

Is it too much to expect your best-friend to 'care' and 'consider' you and your feelings? Being blamed as being 'too sensitive' when they are deliberately hurtful , thats not on is it? Has anybody had experiences with one-sided friendships ie. one side gives, the other takes! Its easy to say walk away, is it worth staying to make the friendship work, or is it a fruitless exercise?
Sensible suggestions for a disillusioned guy, welcomed!

2006-12-06 09:01:31 · 24 answers · asked by Ian 3 in Friends

There is a guy who is 36 years old and the only thing he could say about how he felt about his mate...was that he felt good....I mean good...he could not come up with nothing better than good...I mean he is 36 years old and has been in his relationship for 2 1/2 years and all he could come up with in his extensive vocabulary was good. I mean he says that he cares about his mate but all he could say was good....what do you say??????????????

2006-12-06 09:01:05 · 4 answers · asked by dy_mond05 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Anyone have any ideas how to surprise my man and show hiim what kind of freak i really am?
I know there are some freaks out there so let a sistah know!!

Oh, and we will not be adding anyone else to the party!!!

2006-12-06 09:00:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean hey they never want to be with a nice guy. they choose the a**holes and they will play with your heart I mean it only seems fair that they should get abused by men or at least the a**holes they are with...

2006-12-06 09:00:25 · 23 answers · asked by A Guy With NO Sex Life 1 in Singles & Dating

I know sometimes staring is a bad thing. I just wanna know why guys stare at me.

I don't dress like a slut or hoe or in really low-cut things or stuff like that, just my usual creative girlie girlie clothing. Whenever I pass by a guy, they stop and give me a few second looks, but usually stare straight into my eyes. Whenever I'm in a class with a certain punk guy, he stares at me straight into my eyes(they're nothing special, just dark brown colored-eyes) without looking away when I look back at him for a second(he has a girlfriend btw).
Is it because...
-I'm interesting or pretty to look at? or
-they just like to look at me or
-they want to talk to me or
-or what?

2006-12-06 08:59:49 · 8 answers · asked by ♥star baby! 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a married mother of a 14 month old. I have been with my husband for 6 years but married for only 2 of those years. Lately I have been feeling myself pulling away from my husband. The spark just isn't there anymore. This is where it gets tricky. My husband introduced me to his coworker who had previously stated that he thought I was fairly attractive. At first I didn't feel anything for him but as time goes on I feel myself getting more and more attracted to him. I asked him if he would have an affair with me and he politely declined, saying he would never do that to my husband. I cannot get him out of my mind. I see this man only once a week if that but I feel such a strong connection between us. I want my husband but I think we need to take a break. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

2006-12-06 08:58:28 · 23 answers · asked by Brightside 2 in Marriage & Divorce

3 months ago I told my girlfriend I wanted some time apart because things were moving fast, and we were getting pretty serious. My girlfriend was very upset, but I insisted and we didnt see each other for a month. When I realized how much I loved her I asked her to take me back. At first she was still angry at me, but after a few weeks she finaly took me back.We are happy for the past two months, but last week I asked if she had dated anyone while we were apart - I did not.I found out she not only did date but she even slept with someone she knows from her gym and someone from her work, she says for about 3 weeks she had regular sex .The past few days I have been trying to hold in my jealousy.I know it is my fault and I gave her the freedom, but how do I get rid of my rage without showing it to my girlfriend?I have been asking her details of what happened and we have talked, and i feel i need to know altho its hard. i let her know it is ok to talk about enjoying the sex. am i ok?

2006-12-06 08:58:08 · 25 answers · asked by downtokissit 1 in Weddings

I'm going back this christmas and i will see some of my friends i haven't seen since this summer and a friend i haven't seen since 6th grade ( in 9th now). Should i get them something for Christmas?

2006-12-06 08:58:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best friend is a p.k. (pastors kid) and he lost his wallet in a messy house and it had over 200 dollars in it, and there are at least like 5 other people that could be accused of it, but the only reason he is sayin i did it, cause i bought an mp3 player at the wrong time. and his dad has talked to my parents, but not as a pastor, as adams dad. and i think my rents' listen to him cause hes a pastor, he knows everything right? so now the only people that i think actually believe me are my girlfriend and her rents, my youth leader, and a couple of my friends. and see adam has been my best friend forever, but he doesnt believe me that i didnt take his wallet cause he has his mind set on one person. and my parents seem optimistic because they dont believe that i can actually save money, they try and get me to write down how much money i have, and where i get it, but i dont have any credentials against this b/c i never write anything down in me "ledger" what should i do, plz email me

2006-12-06 08:57:45 · 3 answers · asked by Dan The Man 3 in Friends

2006-12-06 08:57:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work mainly nights and weekends. I do not live in a very big city. During the week, when i go out the clubs are empty except student nights where they do not allow me in because obviously, I am not a student and do not have a student ID card. I cannot date at the work place because we are only 2 on duty and in most cases, it is a man. This means I have limited means of meeting girls. Any suggestions how i can meet people during the week, I mean in the UK though

2006-12-06 08:56:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

3 months ago I told my girlfriend I wanted some time apart because things were moving fast, and we were getting pretty serious. My girlfriend was very upset, but I insisted and we didnt see each other for a month. When I realized how much I loved her I asked her to take me back. At first she was still angry at me, but after a few weeks she finaly took me back.We are happy for the past two months, but last week I asked if she had dated anyone while we were apart - I did not.I found out she not only did date but she even slept with someone she knows from her gym and someone from her work, she says for about 3 weeks she had regular sex .The past few days I have been trying to hold in my jealousy.I know it is my fault and I gave her the freedom, but how do I get rid of my rage without showing it to my girlfriend?I have been asking her details of what happened and we have talked, and i feel i need to know altho its hard. i let her know it is ok to talk about enjoying the sex. am i ok?

2006-12-06 08:56:21 · 5 answers · asked by downtokissit 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-06 08:56:11 · 15 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5 in Singles & Dating

3 months ago I told my girlfriend I wanted some time apart because things were moving fast, and we were getting pretty serious. My girlfriend was very upset, but I insisted and we didnt see each other for a month. When I realized how much I loved her I asked her to take me back. At first she was still angry at me, but after a few weeks she finaly took me back.We are happy for the past two months, but last week I asked if she had dated anyone while we were apart - I did not.I found out she not only did date but she even slept with someone she knows from her gym and someone from her work, she says for about 3 weeks she had regular sex .The past few days I have been trying to hold in my jealousy.I know it is my fault and I gave her the freedom, but how do I get rid of my rage without showing it to my girlfriend?I have been asking her details of what happened and we have talked, and i feel i need to know altho its hard. i let her know it is ok to talk about enjoying the sex. am i ok?

2006-12-06 08:56:04 · 39 answers · asked by downtokissit 1 in Marriage & Divorce

just balancing my brain out...i asked a few heavy duty ones this morning...lol
;0)

2006-12-06 08:55:58 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating