I was seeing this man for 3 months and i he did some thing to hurt me and i was going to leave him then we talked and he told me he really loved me alot and not to give up on him he went away for his job and when he came back he told me he needed space ! Well i pushed andhe still would not talk so i ended it with him! Well i told him i still love him but he has to talk to me about stuff and he now tells me he dose not want a realtionship but would like to be Just Friends ! We end up haveing sex when we are together and we still go out to eat and things some times but he dose not let me know how he is doing when he leaves out of town and things he knows i worry about him and i still care ! He told me he dose care but will Not let it go any wair !
I love him what should i do!
2006-12-06 08:23:39 · 7 answers · asked by Hart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
should i act like i have a nother man in my life other than him?Should i not call,tex,email him? I am use to talking to him every day
2006-12-06 08:25:31 · update #1
love yourself find another
2006-12-06 08:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the man what he wants. Leave him alone and you will get over him trust me. When he is ready he will start telling you things and what he wants. He may have someone on the side, you never know. But if you leave him alone you may find out if he really wants you to go away and the reasons why he has chose these decisions.
2006-12-06 16:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle_204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why play silly games by pretending you have another man in your life. Go out there and get another man. Your ex is just hurting you. Leave him, he decided not to communicate with you. Why put yourself through hell when he is out having a good time. I say screw that and push on with your life.
2006-12-06 16:31:17 · answer #3 · answered by george 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds to me like its a one way street here. It seems like he will keep you on the line, so you can be his booty call and companion when he feels like it. I would definitely stop all contact with him, and leave yourself with some pride. I know it will be difficult for a while, but stop investing in something you are not getting anything back.
2006-12-06 16:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have something that will go no where. Get on with your life withOUT him. He's merely using you. If you continue, you will only create grief for yourself. He's already told you, he wont allow it to go anywhere. So why dont you believe him? He cant possibly care for you after a statement like that.
2006-12-06 16:35:47 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to really start questioning him about the situation. Possibly he has some other lady in mind that he has been messing with. Sounds like you should both get honest with each other in a heart-to-heart talk.
2006-12-06 16:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by HeyNowBrownCow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. It sounds like he is just using you at this point for the occassional "booty call".
2006-12-06 16:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by Sam F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋