after he hurted my feelings he want 2 marry me and i must tell u am still love him but iam afraid of he maybe treat me so bad after marriage but i cant stop thinking in him coz he the frist love in my life and my mind tell me he is not for me but my heart tell me the oppsit and am so confuse ,i dont know how can i deal with this problem.can u tell me???
2006-12-06 08:30:38 · 11 answers · asked by moga 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he already hurt you once, he wouldn't hesitate to do it again. I think that you should move on.
2006-12-06 08:32:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hard one.. follow your heart or your head. I guess it depends on what he did to hurt your feelings and if you can forgive him for it. If you are affraid he is going to treat you bad after you marry him there must be a reason that you are feeling that way.. you shouldn't be scared of what happens after the wedding, you should look forward to it. First loves are tough to get over. Good Luck!
2006-12-06 08:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by Tracy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on. Marrage is a strong bond between a man and woman. So if you are going to spend the rest of your life with some one, make sure he makes you happy. And not prone to making you feel bad.
2006-12-06 08:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by sweetheart36113 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he treats you bad now, he will treat you
worst after the marriage.
Why would you want to marry someone who
hurt you? This isn't love.
Keep looking.
2006-12-06 08:48:03 · answer #4 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are prepared to spend every day feeling hurt and confused then stay with him, there are a lot of wonderful men out there that do not play games keep looking
2006-12-06 08:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go there if he has hurt u once he will do it again it will only get worse then it will be even harder to get out of the relationship.
2006-12-06 08:49:10 · answer #6 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone treats you badly, you deserve better.
First loves are called that for a reason. First does not mean only. It means first of more than one.
2006-12-06 08:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by Karen L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he said he wants to marry you.
Then test him.
Then see if he asks again.
Maybe if ya like him you ask him.
If he didn't yet, then you have more talking to do, just to find out if it could maybe work out.
2006-12-06 08:34:33 · answer #8 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think u should marry him. that will give him tha power to keep hurting u. there are better guys out there for u
2006-12-06 08:34:07 · answer #9 · answered by lol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't what to marry him.
2006-12-06 08:35:36 · answer #10 · answered by Carrie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋