I was adopted when I was born because my biological mom though that I would have a better life. (my real dad was in jail at the time) I really want to meet my real family but I dont know how. My mom that adopted me doesnt want me to. All she would tell me about my family is that I have a brother named Kyle. Also that my biological mom told everyone that I died when I was born so that my real dad wouldnt come looking for me. I have always wanted a brother or sister eventhough all my friends complain about theres....its lonely being an only child! Does anyone know how I could find them. (I tryed all those ancester sites and they didne help at all!) Please help if you can!
2006-12-06 08:28:27 · 5 answers · asked by annastar92 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would follow your heart on this one. If you choose to look for you biological family, sit down and have a heart to heart with your mom. Let her know that no matter what you find she will always be your mom. She put in the late nights and long hours. She was the one that was there for the fun stuff, but she was also the one that was there for the rough times as well. Respect that and help her understand that you are not trying to replace her. Ask for her help if she is willing to give it. And accept her feelings if she can't support you with you search. But from what you have said she is your best source of information in tracking down your family.
But be prepared for the worst when you find them. They may not want to see you. They may be your worst nightmare of a family. If you are prepared to accept what ever you find then if you find something wonderful it is a bonus.
2006-12-06 08:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by KarenJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really want to meet them i say tell your mom that u have lied to people and told them that i died at birth.Even though i really don't know u that much "mom" but i want to get to know u and the rest of my family so if u would just let me be back with my real family i would treat u like the mother u are and u will treat me like the daughter i am (sniff and start to cry that way she'll give u a hug.
2006-12-06 16:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by advice girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your biological mother felt the need to lie to everyone and tell them you died at birth, so your biological father wouldn't come looking for you, then you should let it go until you are an adult, because there is a reason she tried to protect you from him in the first place.
2006-12-06 16:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any idea of her last name? Have you tried telling your mom that you love her, & she's your mom, but you are just curious about your birth mother? I'm sure she is worried for you, she feels threatened, & she scared about what could happen. It could be a bad idea, your father sounds like a dangerous man.
2006-12-06 16:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by pr1ncezz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are confused....your "real family" are those who raised you.
2006-12-06 16:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋