opinionated but honest girls.....?

Question

or sit on the fence shy girls?

Whats ur preference?

Bert, i think thats where opposites attract, cause I'm loud and I like u and I prefer quiet men!

Answer 1

Opinionated or Shy....!

It depends on whether the opinionated one has an open accepting mind ~ open to rational arguments, or able to supply a rational argument to back an opinion.

'Opinionated' does not necessarily equal 'Honest' ~ as in ‘Would this honest person admit that she knows nothing about what she hold an opinionated answer to?’

Or, is she just stubborn and bloody minded?

I’ve had conversations with the bloody minded type who, it turns out, that in spite of this stubborn laughing face, was in fact anything but ‘A Laughing Bundle of Joy‘. They were fiercely angry, resentful at things in their lives and just used that 'face' in order to

1: keep others away (play act ~ ’the Face’)

2: remain hidden from their truths (camouflage the truth)

3: strike back at the world (bit by bit)

4: punish their self for having been hurt in the first place ....in many respects, it's akin to a form of 'self-harm.'


Shy, on the other hand, is also something of a challenge or sorts.

I used to be incredibly shy, and I've had those try to dig me out of my shell whilst all the time was fearful that they were only doing so in order to try and make a fool of me.
I just didn't trust them ...so I know how it feels to be shy ~ and I had a stutter too.

I don't have a preference, but I know younger guys who do. The stubborn type are often open to the meaningless sex, another form of self harm, reinforcing their own view of themselves whilst giving them something real to feel through the tangibility of fleeting physical contact.

Sash.

Answer 2

You call it rude, we call it being genuine. We re not those to disrespect absolutely everyone yet will actually inform you what s on our ideas ( except this is going to reason wide conflict). I ve been suggested as rude with techniques from pals for being very opinionated. in my opinion I don t see myself as being rude I m up the front and honest. I don t imagine I m the most accepted or imagine I m above absolutely everyone yet i comprehend my properly worth and so do this kind of vast quantity of different librans. in case you opt for some thing genuine, honest who s style and cares a large purchase carry with a Libra otherwise in case you could t deal with waiting human beings only stay away

Answer 3

Opinionated girls are overrated. Most of them don't really have interesting opinions, they just like the sound of their own voice. They hold their own independence up like some award to be placed on a mantel when in reality it is just an excuse to be obnoxious, self-centered and rude. I prefer shy girls because I like to break 'em in and I love the challenge. There is usually a freak underneath that is well worth knowing.

Answer 4

Opinionated but honest girls!

But the "but honest" bit is important as just opinated girls arent much fun add in a bit of intelligence and good looks to your first statement and that is my preference!

Answer 5

Opinion but honest girls definitely my best friend is. I know she would always tell me how it was, Never let me go out looking a state and always help me look at things from a different point an visa versa.

Answer 6

neither. there are many wonderful women out there and herding them into to lines doesn't do the rest of them justice. my sisters are none of the above. they are intelligent articulate and offer answers that are well thought out. everyone is opinionated. just about different things. now that i think about it this is a very vague question lol.

Answer 7

hhmmm tough one,
alittle of both I think, I like a honest, shy girl.
someone who has an opinion, but knows when to give it.
while also not in your face, but not a door mat.

basically I want my cake and eat it.

Answer 8

Dunno why Im answering this


I think its gonna come out as shy restrained girls.....cause im a load mouth opinionated and it scares men......im not very load mouth but strong and know what I want etc men dont like to think ur more successful than them

Answer 9

opinionated and honest every time. how else would the great game progress?

Answer 10

honest girls.
you know where you stand with them.