What now?I told her how I felt..More info.. Serious answers only pls..Girls advice...?

Question

I asked my close female friend if she FELT anything towards me at all, ever. More than just a friend. (She knows how I feel about her) She replied:

"I never feel nothing for anybody and every individual means something to me in their own unique way.Thats all I'm going to say". MEANING???

If we were just friends WHY wouldn't she just say so???I asked her to be blunt and that I wouldn't hate her for her reply. Help!!!Advice!!!

She then said there are too many ppl in the world who are 2 faced and selfish,who don't value individuals like she does.Is hurt that OTHER ppl don't value ppl the way she does.MEANING???

What she thinking\feeling???Will she speak to me again? What do I do now???

Surely as FRIENDS, she would let me know if there was no chance at all....NO???Is she scared???

MORE INFO:

We go to dinner, lunch together and for drinks in the evening. We’re ATTRACTED to each other, flirt with each other, we’re in touch practically everyday, can only open up too me, feels very comfortable with me, enjoys spending time with me,we trust each other etc.

Answer 1

maybe, shes holding back because shes scared of getting hurt? (has she been hurt before?) or maybe she just wants to be your friend but thinks if she tells you that you wont want to be?
maybe try and re-assure her that if she says she just wants to be friends you will understand, and thats all it will be?
The best thing to do is ask her,tell he you have opened up to her, so at least she can tell you straight, coz its just no fair on you.
Hope this helps
xx*Merry Christmas*xx

Answer 2

ok, i don't know how to answer this, but if i said those words i would mean a multitude of things including, I don't love you, but I want to, also, I want to know if you will hurt me, she could really be saying that I'm incapable of love, ( not me her) having read it right again, i think she is emotionless. I'm not saying that she is but it's what i think., considering that she said this after you asked her how she felt I would say that it's not love, like you hoped but something else, I really don't know now if she wants to be your friend. you really should take your cue from her second saying and take it as a personal statement about herself, if not ask her if she heard something about you, maybe something you said that was directly related to her, that didn't really go with your outbursts of love etc. to value and individual means to place in order of importance, i think, and she is hurt that people wont put her in order of importance, considering that you are trying to get over the friendship and move it to a more personal level, she has undoubtedly and wholly unconsciously unveiled her own unimportance to you in relation to your feeling for her and towards her, she obviously does not see herself in that light and even though you, do it won't change much, apart from that she might be playing hard to get, and if so, i think the rabbit should be caught by now. lastly considering her responses, i don't think that you should place that much importance to and on her, she sounded like a player at the first instance and she still does now.

i really dont know what she is thinking/feeling only she can answer that, and yes as friends she should, keeping you stringing like that is really cruel by my books and indicative of what you should do with your feelings and her. the only thing that you could do is aks her, then ask a shrink then us.

get yourself some sleep and things will look better in the morning.

Answer 3

Wow, she has some communication issues. Has she been really hurt before? What kind of relationship did her parents have? Does she even date? What has she observed about your previous romatic relationships

You have two options. One continue in the friendship, continue to demostrate that you are safe and trustworthy. Two, directly ask again and don't take "vague" for an answer. Then you can make a decision.

Answer 4

make sure she knows that youre not 2 faced and selfish and you value individuals like she does.. or at least w/e you really are.. don't lie.. and so she might give you a chance

Answer 5

stop asking us the same question. iknow you want help with this particular issue but your becoming obsessive. be spontaneous, girls love that. stop asking people on yahoo answers how to sort your problem out. we arent your personal advisers. people answer to get a kick out of helping someone, but this is really ridiculous. your 'problem' isnt THAT interesting. we helped you enough. sort the rest out yourself....BE A MAN ABOUT IT.

Answer 6

it kinda obvious! She doesnt like you like that. Just as a friend.
answer above is pretty good!
the mindi one
jees, answer below is also pretty good!

Answer 7

from wht she said sounds lyk she only wants to be friends (best friends)

Answer 8

she wants u only as a friend. or maybe friend w/ benefits