Family & Relationships - 4 December 2006

At a friends party I met this guy was DJing we talked and eventually started a relationship for the first year we were the perfect couple I met some of his family members and friends we all would have a great time kicking it. He would come over to my house and make the most passionate love to me. He would call me to see what I wanted for lunch ,and on my days off from work he would take a half day of from his 9-5 job just so that we could spend more time together But somewhere down the line things started to fall apart he would start to do lil stuff that he knew would piss me off ,he just changed all of a sudden. This went on for about 6mnths till Igot tired and told him that I didn't want to see him anymore.finally 3mnths later called 2c how he was doing found out this scum was married with 4 kids and a grandbaby I shited a brick talked to wife told her I was sorry I didn't know he was married told everthing he crashed n burned they're divorced now should I have told her or not?

2006-12-04 06:03:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I said:Thanks for your honesty. My last email was an experiment which failed,
and I won't use it again;however, I think it made you feel
uncomfortable
( that was not my intention), but even your reaction helped me.


Thanks

PS: I have no hard feelings or any other feelings, so we can go back
and forget anything has ever happen and please note that you are still
welcome in the club, unless It makes you uncomfortable, which I would
understund.
However, I must refuse your offer for friendship, since I have already
to many friends.





She responded?
WOW,
You are seriously one of the rudest men I have ever met! I seriously hope
not all guys are like you here in Vancouver, because if that is the case I
am moving!
What were you expecting from me? I just moved here, you think I want to jump
into something right away?
So it is all or nothing with you? That is fine with me, at least I have now
seen your true colors, and know what you are like.
etc

2006-12-04 06:02:56 · 4 answers · asked by Unknown U 1 in Singles & Dating

Just curious if I spent to much money on my kids this year for Christmas. So my question is... How much on average do you spend on your kids for Christmas?

2006-12-04 06:02:22 · 18 answers · asked by jd77 3 in Family

I have this friend. One could say she is possibly my best friend, or ties for the front row. But, she has the worst case of loose-lip disease I have ever seen. She even talks about me when I am in the very next room. Strangely enough, I think she doesn't even think anything of it. I have sisters and they talk to each other about each other- and family does that. If you have a best friend, does that make it okay for them to talk amonst the other friends as sisters would? It bothers me even when sisters do it.

2006-12-04 06:02:15 · 11 answers · asked by answermaker96 2 in Friends

why do we ask questions on this site as if the people reading the question can answer them for us most questions are about relationships how the hell do we know what someone is thinking we don't

2006-12-04 06:02:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I also mock your values.

2006-12-04 06:01:32 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-04 06:01:14 · 5 answers · asked by Celeste P 7 in Friends

I am having sushi for lunch and the tuna is just divine, but it is kind of smelly...

should I eat away?

2006-12-04 06:00:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just curiosity..

2006-12-04 06:00:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-12-04 06:00:21 · 11 answers · asked by sexyonesr2goodforyou 1 in Singles & Dating

How did you find your soulmate? How did love happen for you? Advice for someone who is losing hope in the world in finding true love.

2006-12-04 06:00:13 · 8 answers · asked by Crazy Heart 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been together about 2 years, and she has not gone down on me? We have never discussed this before? Should I ask? Should I just wait? Do you think she will ever? She let's me, but she has never returned the favor if you know what I mean? I don't want to make her feel bad, or make her feel like I am not going to like her if I don't get it, but It's part of for-play, and you would think since we both are 30, she has probably done it before? Should I bring it up? And when? Over the dinner table? After I service her? When is the RIGHT TIME?

2006-12-04 05:59:55 · 13 answers · asked by Midge 1 in Singles & Dating

just reading through this site and loads of kids - 12, 13 asking for dating advice. so many answers say you're too young to be dating. they're not to young to think about it, to feel the way they do, so why too young to go on a date? isn't it healthy to learn how to express such emotions? besides, even if valid, the point rarely has anything to do with the question asked, so why say it? do you really think todays teenagers will ask for help of they only get talked down to? i don't get it. please explain or empathise. i seem to be the only one who thinks this

2006-12-04 05:59:35 · 5 answers · asked by smethansmee 3 in Singles & Dating

well, this is what i mean. i was with this girl for about 4 years, and we had talked about getting married but then things happened and we decided to hold off. well, we recently broke up a couple off months ago actually and well, i still have feelings for her and she says the same about me but cant handle being with me cause i have anger issues. but its more then just that, that we are no longer together. anyways i have done some stupid things since we broke up, one being, i tried pretending i was someone else and was talking to her and well, i eventually told her that it was me, but now shes pissed off. anyways, guess im just wondering if i should just let her go or what. like i said i still love her and miss her, but all i seem to be doing is things that hurt her or make her mad at me even more. just really confused i guess

2006-12-04 05:59:28 · 5 answers · asked by pearme 1 in Singles & Dating

Not sexually, but I've been talking to and messing around with an ex-boyfriend. What are the odds of my husband finding out?

2006-12-04 05:59:03 · 31 answers · asked by ... 2 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone really have the guts to eat their wedding cake on their 1 year anniversary???

2006-12-04 05:58:39 · 27 answers · asked by Kimberly M 3 in Weddings

I don't know how to cook. Will that effect my relationship?

2006-12-04 05:58:28 · 3 answers · asked by Lordes D 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 05:57:57 · 17 answers · asked by Laetishaa 2 in Singles & Dating

Or still want the wrong thing.?

2006-12-04 05:57:28 · 19 answers · asked by bob 2 in Singles & Dating

Classmates.com that is?
I found two old school friends and my HS Sweetie there. Finding him again changed my whole outlook on life for the better. Whats your story?

2006-12-04 05:57:16 · 4 answers · asked by :-) literary cappy 4 in Friends

Let’s say there’s this guy, and you want to date him. But for one reason or another, you don’t want it to turn into a serious long-term relationship or anything…you just want to sort of have a guy to hang out with and casually see for a few months, no major commitments or anything. Is that pointless?

Has anyone here done it before? And if that’s what you choose to do, should you tell the guy upfront that you don’t want it to turn serious?

2006-12-04 05:56:56 · 10 answers · asked by Kortney 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex broke up with me b/c he needed space. We fought too much over little things and he wanted to get his life straightened out. We were both devastated and were crying. He stated that he still loved me and that he wants to be with me later.

This was 6 weeks ago. 2 weeks ago he text'd me and called me twice! at first I didnt return his call. A couple of days later I did and he stated at the end of the conversation that I should give him a call and we should get together sometime.

I havent called him yet, b/c I am giving him the space I thought he needed. I still love him and want to be with him. I need to know if he feels the same way. What do you think? How can I find out without directly asking him?

2006-12-04 05:56:28 · 6 answers · asked by jane s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 05:55:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 05:54:45 · 22 answers · asked by Armireoni 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been talking to this guy and somewhere along the way i fell in love and yesterday he got asked out by one of my friends. he doesnt like to like other people but deep down i think he likes her, and he told me that if i didnt want him 2 go out with her than he wouldnt i told him that both of them should think about it and he said no i want your decision and i just stood there and he told me to call him and tell him tomarrow and it is tommarrow and i dont want to feel bad but i love him and if he dates my friend i feel like i would not be abel to talk to him or my friend and i dont want that to happen!

2006-12-04 05:54:34 · 12 answers · asked by care_bear_sugar_princess_hottie 1 in Friends

2006-12-04 05:54:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 05:54:25 · 16 answers · asked by jtimberlake240 2 in Singles & Dating

Its getting a bit silly now but i just find
it so hard to talk to this guy in work i get
nervous and the things i want to say and talk
bout comes out totally wrong and stupid. Like
today i wanted to speak to him bout a dvd i
borrowed yet i couldnt get out what i wanted
to say as im so nervous/awkward.

I have started emailing him more which is
easier like today i was on about a comedy dvd
and he emailed me back saying along the lines
oh youll have to remind of what happens in
the dvd so obviously he wants me to talk to
him

2006-12-04 05:54:01 · 8 answers · asked by Jo S 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 05:53:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 05:53:55 · 10 answers · asked by Travis S 2 in Marriage & Divorce