How to know if my ex is still into me?

Question

My ex broke up with me b/c he needed space. We fought too much over little things and he wanted to get his life straightened out. We were both devastated and were crying. He stated that he still loved me and that he wants to be with me later.

This was 6 weeks ago. 2 weeks ago he text'd me and called me twice! at first I didnt return his call. A couple of days later I did and he stated at the end of the conversation that I should give him a call and we should get together sometime.

I havent called him yet, b/c I am giving him the space I thought he needed. I still love him and want to be with him. I need to know if he feels the same way. What do you think? How can I find out without directly asking him?

Answer 1

I dont know about what kinda space he really needs.I too sailed in the same boat in the past 5 months as my ex needed plenty of space.But this so called ''Space'' made him too distant from me,somethin which i never imagined would happen.I was not only confused but heartbroken.If a person truely love you and just cant be without you,then he would never seek that space between the two of you.In my case this space actually meant that he wasnt into me,wasnt interested to be with me.He played his game and tore me apart.You are right,we sometimes dont need to know the truth by directly asking them,but we will know it through thier actions,through their negligence,carelessness,in such cases we dont even need a direct answer.Coz his actions have already answered the biggest questions.If this is your issue,then,i suggest you not to waste your precious time,energy and emotions on a guy who isnt worth.I know its painful,but you are better off than staying and hurting yourself even more.By moving on,you will save yourself a lot of grief.You deserve someone better who can give you all that love and care.

Answer 2

You guys may have been spending way to much time together, if your fights were solely over minuscule details. How long were you together? Also it is very possible if he just wanted a short break, that he was wanting to see if the grass was greener somewhere else. I am not saying that is true just possible. One good option that I have seen work, is if you have pic messaging. Then go out with one of your girlfriends have a few drinks if you drink, take a pic and send it to him with you smiling, laughing etc. Let him know that your not a house plant just sitting around waiting on him

Answer 3

You're doing the right thing ... waiting. If he's still into you and wants to be with you, he'll make it a priority to call you. If he doesn't then he won't. It's a pretty simple theory.

I can't imagine why anyone would still want to be with someone they fought with over little things all the time. Just because you have chemistry with someone doesn't mean they're right for you. And chemistry isn't love - at least not to me.

Answer 4

see first of all if there is love there would be some acrimony some altercation and u just broke up due to space then may be he realized his mistake.to check whether still he is in love or not just ask small things tht happend in ur life and asked him to do tht thing which he doesnot like but u like,if still he is not ready to do that means right now he is not cheating u .

Answer 5

Ok listen..needing space is code for people that you have met someone that you want to chase.

If he is calling you its because it didn't work out and he needs you back until he needs more space (see above).

Get over him and get out and meet some nice guy that wants to be with you.

Here endeth the lesson

Answer 6

Why don't you just skip the games and ask him directly. And don't put it off.

But if he broke up with you... I'd say don't waste your time with him either way.

It sounds like the relationship wasn't that fun for either of you.