Family & Relationships - 4 December 2006

My ex-fiance has been a thorn in my side lately. He and my daughter have been playing out as if he is her father behind my back. She is 13. Granite..he has helped us out...I got in a huge financial bind..and he allows us to stay at his home ..in our own rooms in a platonic relationship..and nothing weird sexually at all in this situation..I told him we are only here temporarily...we appreciate the help...I am glad she has him in her life..she needs more people to love her , than not. I am moving w/in a year...after my debts have been taken care of..I can't make it until then, financially. I work two jobs...he helps w/her care. I don't want to resume a relationship w/him...I asked him and her to not pertend or proclaim him as her father. I've put my foot down...however...I think that he thinks I am being unreasonible..and my daughter doesn't want to claim she has no father. (I am single..we don't know where her dad is...I've tried several times to find him)(shrug) comments?

2006-12-04 06:15:43 · 4 answers · asked by Win 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a black girl and I want me a pretty Asian boy. But it seems that the Asians I know of stick to themselves, are racist and don't like Blacks too much. My family wants me to go with a Black guy but all the ones I know are trying to be gangstas and thugs (ugh!). I'm also a devout Christian. Are my standards too high?

2006-12-04 06:15:15 · 8 answers · asked by loz_chyna 3 in Singles & Dating

I live with a friend (Maybe) I used to date a couple guys nothing serious. I don't do that anymore, when someone asks who I'm seeing she says who knows who she is seeing and will tell their names. It makes me look really bad. I don't tell her hardly anything she because I know I can't trust her. This has been a while ago and she won't let it go, I have even caught her in lies and confronted her and tells me she didn't do it. She goes through my cell phone to see who I'm talking to, I have a lot of guy friends but it doesn't mean I have sex with all of them.

2006-12-04 06:15:14 · 3 answers · asked by padros 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 06:14:27 · 37 answers · asked by lukas s 2 in Singles & Dating

how am i going to let my boyfriend know that i don't think he is serious when it comes to our relationship? He plays to much and i don't think that he really cares about my feelings.
What should i do?

2006-12-04 06:13:41 · 18 answers · asked by Lady_A 2 in Singles & Dating

Where? When? How? etc...

2006-12-04 06:13:40 · 15 answers · asked by jimjones3 4 in Singles & Dating

hi i am 17 years old, and i like this girl at my college, she's 2 months older than me, she became 17 2 months ago. i am scared to ask her out, maybe because she's older than me, does age make a big difference? or is it normal?

2006-12-04 06:13:32 · 10 answers · asked by John-Wokinson 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, my husband, his ex-wife, her current husband and myself would like to amend his child support. He's paying a large amount, that was based primarily on child care that is no longer needed and a job that he made a lot more money at. Here's where it gets tricky - the ex-wife and new husband agree the amount should be reduced, but she is no longer working, so if they look at incomes, his amount will just be more. She (the ex) also wants my husband's back child support waived. How can we do this, preferably without spending a billion dollars on a lawyer? Can we file a motion on our own and just pay court costs? Can we file something stating what we want without going through the formulas?

Please, serious replies only. Thank you!

2006-12-04 06:13:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-04 06:13:21 · 3 answers · asked by northeastcoast_butterfly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-04 06:13:16 · 6 answers · asked by BOOYAH 3 in Singles & Dating

He didn't even ask me about it, he just put it on there... it's a really hot pic, and I probably would be fine with it if he had showed it to me first. It just feels like he's flirting with everyone by doing that, why should he need to be sexy if he has me? Am I overreacting? I tried to not bring it up, but it really just bothered me because I have him on my top 8 so whenever I log in it shows that picture... and so I asked him to take it down but he refused. He says he doesn't like me talking about us in my blog, so I stopped talking about our relationship at all in my blog. I say I don't like this pic, shouldn't he just humor me? He keeps saying "it's just a picture", why doesn't he just humor me then?

2006-12-04 06:12:57 · 13 answers · asked by Procerus 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 06:11:58 · 49 answers · asked by lembry7747 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-04 06:10:49 · 11 answers · asked by rinoa 1 in Singles & Dating

I know ma ex did me wrong, in SOOO many ways, and now I'm with a guy who is more than a man, and as much as I tell myself he's a loser, and I'm over him, I'm afraid that if he gets out and we bump heads, I'm gonna fall!!!!!

2006-12-04 06:10:49 · 23 answers · asked by (¯`·._.·[•·.·´¯`·.·• Ariana 2 in Singles & Dating

As a grown woman(28) I see too many questions posted by young people wanting to know things that they have no business knowing. Why are you worried about dating, sex, wearing makeup, kissing etc at the ages of 12,13,14????? I think that Yahoo should implement some restrictions. Anyone agree with me?

2006-12-04 06:10:39 · 17 answers · asked by Kokolicious06 3 in Singles & Dating

There must be a evasive way I can hint or talk about something that would bring it out. Any ideas?

2006-12-04 06:10:31 · 9 answers · asked by Karen E 1 in Singles & Dating

hey whats up? i really need some help here! at this church that i go to, there is this guy that i like! his name is mark. we flirt all the time! u know, just like friends. but over the last few weeks, i have started to fall for him! im friends with his little brother, who is my age. and if i ask him out, and he rejects me, or if things dont work out between us, i could lose his friendship and his brother's!! i really like mark, and at times i get the feeling that he likes me! but i dont know how to tell! also, i cant figure out how to tell him that i have feelings for him! does anyone have any ideas?? i really need your peoples help!!

2006-12-04 06:10:18 · 5 answers · asked by Christina G ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I mean, with all the violence, family upbringing history, parents divorced, drugs, aids, all the deseases, and how tough to even float above all that, it seems that our generation is growing sicker.
For example, with all the pressures of trying to make a wise decision in career choices, my own insecurities and the fear of the unknown after we graduate from college, my doctor want to treat my anxiety with anti-depressants! I'm not depressed...I'm worried about my future. People think of us as the worse generation ever! What do you think?

2006-12-04 06:08:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

A housewife wakes up late one night to what sounds like shattering glass in her living room below. Taking the utmost precaution, she puts on her nightgown, and tip-toes downstairs. She sees her husband sitting on his recliner with all the fine drinking glasses and two half full bottles of liquor next to him. Across the room there is a mountain of shattered glass. The husband pours a fresh glass, quickly drinks it, and throws it across the room with a loud CRACK! adding to the glass pile. "Whats the matter, honey?" the wife asks.
"I don't wanna talk about it," the husband replies.
The wife says, "Dear, you can talk to me about anything you know that."
"Well, you know when your dad caught us having sex the night you lost your virginity?"
"Yes?" she says.
"And he told me I could either marry you or spend 20 years in jail."
"Yeah. So?"
"I would've gotten out today."

2006-12-04 06:07:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he seems to be a nice guy, they have been together for over ten years, he's generous and has helped us out money wise, however he is kind of strange and he hugs them strangely, my two daughters are 15 and 10 and the way he fools around with them, makes us feel uncomfortable. they know enough not to let him do anything but they sometime stay overnite with them and i'm not sure how to put and end to this without totally offending or pissing someone off. i'm not even sure how to bring this up to them. what would you do?

2006-12-04 06:07:11 · 12 answers · asked by vebyllucs 3 in Family

How do yu get you husband to give into what ever you wont?

2006-12-04 06:06:50 · 6 answers · asked by ball 2 in Marriage & Divorce

You know, something like, "Hey everybody, DO NOT go in there for at least 20 minutes."

2006-12-04 06:06:30 · 5 answers · asked by cannonball 1 in Singles & Dating

this 29 year old guy says that he likes me and thinks that im a nice girl blah blah,we have kissed only, yet, he wont ask me out on a date.its "give me a call when your next in my town". we live in different towns.

he knows that a came out of a 6 year relationship 8 months ago and that i was engaged with a mortgage with my ex.could this be a reason why he hasnt asked me out?he doesnt know why i ended the relationship.my ex has moved away.

he is single, has his own place too and has his career sorted.wouldnt he be ready for a relationship?he hasnt been married before.

i met im through my ex.he isnt a friend of my ex.he always used to text me now and then when i was with my ex too.hes has kept in contact with my now for 2 years.we are not really friends as such.

2006-12-04 06:06:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am looking for a friend from way back..Kevin Robbins. We grew up one street away from each other in Phoenix AZ...went to RE Simpson grade school and Central High School. Kevin are you out there?!? I am curious about how you are doing and would love to catch up! Hopefully you or someone who knows you sees this! Hope you are well my old friend!

2006-12-04 06:05:47 · 4 answers · asked by Maudie 6 in Friends

My husband and I have been marrried 9 years. We have three kids, 3,5, 7. It was very good until three years ago. He then started working late alot. late and on weekends, and then on weekends he was "too tired" to do anything ( we have able and ready babysitter-both sets of grandparents). Two years ago, I started going with my friends in Las Vegas twice a month. It then became once a week and before you know it I had accumulated all of this debt. My husband moved out.
Turned out that a year before he moved out, he started seeing another woman. He continued to see her after he moved out. Now he wants to come home.
I have quit completely, gone to counseling and participate in DA. He says that he has realized that he was having a mid-life crisis and wants his family back. My gut is telling me to move on, my heart says try again, particularly when I see how it is affecting my kids. Will he leave if I have cancer? Unfair, but I wonder. Anyone been there?

2006-12-04 06:05:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-04 06:04:58 · 4 answers · asked by qtpie16707 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend went for a night out and I caught him in a toilet cubicle taking drugs. I went mental and battered him. I am deeply ashamed about my actions. I love him so much. I didnt hurt him coz I hate him. I done it coz I love him. My boyfriend has told me it is over and there will not be anymore chances. I really miss him. He is the 1 that makes my life worth living. Please help.

2006-12-04 06:04:42 · 8 answers · asked by Lee B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know alot of people bring this up, I've seen a few of them and even answered to one.

But now I need help. I know it was wrong, but I hacked into my dads email and have been doing so for a few weeks. Dont tell me 'would you like it if he did that to you' because he already has, and he's read my diaries too.

I read some stuff from his emails and have found out that hes been talking to some people about well.. sex. I want to know if hes cheating because I cant stand having a growing suspicion.

I cant ask him about it because he'll deny it all and then get mad at me for bringing it up, so what do I do?

2006-12-04 06:04:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He broke up with me 6 weeks ago b/c we were butting heads constantly over his future (i.e. job, school, living arrangments) basically he needed some drive, ambition and to grow up.

We both didnt really want the break up, but thought it would be best. We were both really sad and he said that he thinks he needs time to get his life together.

I havent seen him since and have spoken to him very minimally. The last was 2 weeks ago. He asked me to give him a call sometime and that we should get together.

I havent called. Im scared and not sure what we wants. I still want to be with him. But not sure if he does.

2006-12-04 06:04:17 · 11 answers · asked by jane s 1 in Singles & Dating

Having some issues getting back into the swing of things..Such as: dating,going out,hanging out,whatever it is, I am having issues...Got any suggestions???

2006-12-04 06:03:45 · 5 answers · asked by kitten30fl 2 in Singles & Dating