He broke up with me 6 weeks ago b/c we were butting heads constantly over his future (i.e. job, school, living arrangments) basically he needed some drive, ambition and to grow up.
We both didnt really want the break up, but thought it would be best. We were both really sad and he said that he thinks he needs time to get his life together.
I havent seen him since and have spoken to him very minimally. The last was 2 weeks ago. He asked me to give him a call sometime and that we should get together.
I havent called. Im scared and not sure what we wants. I still want to be with him. But not sure if he does.
2006-12-04 06:04:17 · 11 answers · asked by jane s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he has asked you to give him a call so that you two could get together, I would think that would be a sure sign that he would most assuredly want to 'hook up' with you again.
You should give him a call and arrange a lunch date or get together of some kind, and talk to him one on one. See how he is doing, and if he has made any progress since your split. Perhaps by you doing this and talking to him, will show you his mindset as to where you fit in his life.
Talk to him, don't be afraid to do so; he obviously still wants some kind of relationship with you, if he is suggesting for you to stay in contact with him.
He just needed some time for himself to figure things out; we all need that at times when things get stressed out.
Hope things work out for you two.
2006-12-04 06:10:23 · answer #1 · answered by Tiff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 04:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by Sherman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so wierd because I left my ex for the same reasons.
Think about why you left him in the first place, what has changed and why do you think it will be better if you get back with him. Basically all I am saying is that you need a goal driven man and it seems like you ex is not the one at the moment.
I think you need to give time to decide what he is going to do with his life, while you decide where you want to go with yours.
You made a good decision, so stick to it...you can be friends with him, but he needs to do something about his life.
Goodluck!!
2006-12-04 06:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by Joni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to get together, he'll make it happen ... he won't ask you to do it.
What the heck are you doing with someone who has no drive or ambition and needs to grow up? Get yourself a guy who lets you know for sure how special you are, and doesn't make you wonder.
2006-12-04 06:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by Myrna B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LISTEN I REALLY UNDERSTAND TAT U GUYS MOVED OUT DUE TO CIRCUMSTANCES AND NOT ANYTIN DUE TO U GUYS.maybe u guys just needed a little space and time.relax coz u still have felings 4 him call him and talk to him expect the worst tings will turn out 4 the better.gradually increase ur calls and meet uo whil he goes to colg or work ,have a coffee 2geter or drop each other to places.ull have more time together as well focus on other priorities.
hope tings work out
2006-12-04 06:12:11 · answer #5 · answered by earth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If nothing has changed regarding your relationship, then why do you want to get back together? Does that mean you've changed your mind, and willing to 'settle' for less now???
2006-12-04 06:07:30 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him time he's probably stressed with all the drama. Give him about 1-2 weeks and then call him
2006-12-04 06:06:05 · answer #7 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you were just trying to change him and force him to "grow up", you shouldn't be together. Love him for who he is now or don't love him at all.
2006-12-04 06:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs.Neville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~He asked you to give him a call, so why don't you? It beats sitting around stressing about it, don't ya think? Tell him you still want to be with him, just be honest.~
2006-12-04 06:09:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and make mad love to him!!!! do things that you would never do before!!!! I think this will tell you if he is the one you should be with. Remember do things you would never think about doing!!!!
2006-12-04 06:14:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋