how am i going to let my boyfriend know that i don't think he is serious when it comes to our relationship? He plays to much and i don't think that he really cares about my feelings.
What should i do?
2006-12-04 06:13:41 · 18 answers · asked by Lady_A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you need to go on a romantic date with him, you know how your boyfriend behaves when ya are alone. try to make him feel special, i know your feeling that he probably doesn't care about you but he could feel the same way as you do. (just has a different way of expressing his feelings) once you notice he's serious because of the atmosphere, then tell him how you feel, but never point the blame towards him. another words just talk to him from your heart, if he is mature enough he will listen. but if he still acts like a jerk, then don't waste your time with him. enjoy yourself and live life to the fullest.
2006-12-04 06:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by JANE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him your not sure if he is serious and let him know if he still wants to be with you that he needs to be more serious instead of playing around all the time.Tell him you like him playing around with you but tell him that you need him to be serious a little bit more often.
2006-12-04 06:17:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. Flat-out. The next time he does something that makes you feel like he isn't serious, tell him right that second, "I don't think you're that serious when it comes to our relationship. You play a lot and I really don't think you care about my feelings, based on your actions."
2006-12-04 06:25:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to bring it up and talk it over with him. If he is not interested, then ask him if you two need to take a break. If things start heading that way, then take a break and really look at your relationship and see if that is what you really want.
2006-12-04 06:15:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually I write down a detail of all the things that are bothering me and I go over them with him,l it he's smart and wants to keep you, he will chnage the things you've talk about, esle let him go, so you can at least have peace of mind!!
2006-12-04 06:19:38 · answer #5 · answered by Joni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl....that is normal. I have those issues with my fiance, and I straight up tell him. I know he loves me, but everything is a joke to him, including my feelings, not to mention that sex is the only thing he thinks about. Just be straight up and tell him that u don't think he takes u seriously.
2006-12-04 06:17:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down regardless, don't say just tell him how you really feel and whats going on. There's always time to be playful and theres time to be serious. Now its time to be serious. Let him know how you feel and where you stand. Let him explaine himself, then let him know what your going through. If he loves you he will respond, and if he don't please be very cautious on getting hurt
2006-12-04 06:20:09 · answer #7 · answered by George 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably isn't serious if he doesn't care about your feelings. Drop him and find another one who does care about you. Or, just relax and have fun with lots of guys dating around!
2006-12-04 06:16:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to drop this player,You deserve someone better who can give you all that love and care.
2006-12-04 06:24:35 · answer #9 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just tell him, and if he acts like he dosn't care or he's not litening, then maybe you should consider breaking in a new boyfriend....
2006-12-04 06:18:10 · answer #10 · answered by ηєvєrmorє 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋