He didn't even ask me about it, he just put it on there... it's a really hot pic, and I probably would be fine with it if he had showed it to me first. It just feels like he's flirting with everyone by doing that, why should he need to be sexy if he has me? Am I overreacting? I tried to not bring it up, but it really just bothered me because I have him on my top 8 so whenever I log in it shows that picture... and so I asked him to take it down but he refused. He says he doesn't like me talking about us in my blog, so I stopped talking about our relationship at all in my blog. I say I don't like this pic, shouldn't he just humor me? He keeps saying "it's just a picture", why doesn't he just humor me then?
2006-12-04 06:12:57 · 13 answers · asked by Procerus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you stopped blogging about your relationship, it would seem fair for him to take your wishes into account on the internet as well. however, unless he's trying to pick up another guy with the bare chest pic, it seems like you're overreacting to this one.
(you should defnitely take timothy c's suggestion though, that will get some boundaries defined damn quick!)
2006-12-04 06:16:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You both need to get off Myspace! Myspace is a relationship killer. It creates to many problems. And no you not talking about the relationship on a blog and his picture are not the samething. Although, I agree with maybe he should take it down. I think he doesn't want to because he doesn't wanna feel like he is being told what to do. Also you have to look at it as either you just have to deal with it or not because he has every right to do what he wants as it relates to himself.
2006-12-04 14:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by Wordsmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it make a difference if a whole bunch of people tell you not to be offended ? Will that make you hate the pic any less ? No. You feel what you feel, end of story. I do agree with you that putting that pic up is sort of like flirting with other girls or at least trying to get attention. Maybe that's what he wants to do. Why not put a really hot pic of yourself on your myspace and see if it bothers him.
2006-12-04 14:21:50 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow........immediate red flag!
It sounds like he is ashamed of you as his partner and does not want the world to know that you two are together or are affiliated with eachother. If this is how he feels and is not going to respect your feelings regarding his picture, than that should let you know that he is not at all serious about you.
A couple are going to be considerate about the others feelings, even if it is about a picture that basically shows his goods to many other people; and with his mindset in that manner, it sounds like he is a possible cheating candidate. Him placing a picture of himself half naked is an indication of where his mind is.....he wants to show others how he looks with a shirt off to get some attention from people who are single.
You have to think, Why else would he place a picture of himself half naked? Think rationally....
You need another who will appreciate you and your feelings...it does not sound like this guy.
2006-12-04 14:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by Tiff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know for sure but he sounds like he's trying to keep something from u. When it was just about the picture I didn't really think to much about it then when he said that he doesn't like u talkin about each other in the blogs then i thought that something was goin on. I may be wrong but u need to let him know how u feel about this whole situation. I would if it was me.
2006-12-04 14:19:28 · answer #5 · answered by bride 2 be in 07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should just humor you but he doesnt see anything wrong in what hes doing my ex was the same way and it took us breaking up the first time for her to humor me but after every thing is done now and its the second time weve broken up ive realized that the little things like this are what will drive a couple apart so either care or dont care and if he doesnt care what you think then my dear.....
2006-12-04 14:16:20 · answer #6 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reality check.
Why wouldn't he want you talking about him?
... because he doesn't want anyone knowing he's attached.
And why would he want to give that impression?
... because he's flirting... possibly with an intent to cheat
JERK JERK JERK JERK JERK.
This isn't about a photo of him with his bare chest (though that does read "POSER"). This is about him having an over-inflated ego and disrespect for you and little/no consideration for your feelings.
Drop him from your Top 8. Remove all mention of him. Upload a hot picture of yourself in a little top.
See how he likes it with the tables turned.
I'd probably drop him if I were you. If he wants to know why, construct your reply using the following words 'immature' 'desperate' and 'inadequacy about pen*s size'.
2006-12-04 14:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by midsojo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if he wants to keep that picture up then tell me whats wrong with talking about the good things in your relationship on your blogs.. I see nothing wrong with the blog thing.. Dont take offense to the picuture.. If u really know that u have each other then dont worry ok
2006-12-04 14:16:09 · answer #8 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you apparantly are too jealous/clingy for him?
maybe he is not looking for what you are looking for in this relationship. you are attached and in loooove and he is still shopping around.
ask him to talk with you, if he cannot repsect you and try to understadn where you come from dump the loser and find someone who is ready for a relationship
2006-12-04 14:17:49 · answer #9 · answered by The Weed Fairy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a douche.
2006-12-04 14:14:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋