hey whats up? i really need some help here! at this church that i go to, there is this guy that i like! his name is mark. we flirt all the time! u know, just like friends. but over the last few weeks, i have started to fall for him! im friends with his little brother, who is my age. and if i ask him out, and he rejects me, or if things dont work out between us, i could lose his friendship and his brother's!! i really like mark, and at times i get the feeling that he likes me! but i dont know how to tell! also, i cant figure out how to tell him that i have feelings for him! does anyone have any ideas?? i really need your peoples help!!
2006-12-04 06:10:18 · 5 answers · asked by Christina G ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just do it
2006-12-04 06:11:46 · answer #1 · answered by Everyman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't actually need our help, but I could give you advise, just from experience. What you should do is talk to him. Just pick somewhere comfortable, let him know that since your friendship with him started to blossom so well, he's a guy you feel you could trust and have a relationship with. Warm your way into his heart and be sincere. Guys like sincerity just as girls. Also, to get rejection lightly, tell him that you just wanted to get the fact that you really like him off his chest and not get mad at you. Tell him you still accept his friendship. Watch how sweet every thing goes. He can't reject a sweet sincere person!
Krazy Libra
2006-12-04 14:16:00 · answer #2 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is to just go up to him and ask him he wants to get something to eat, or go to a movie. If he says yes, then you have your answer. If he says no, then just politely ask him, if he would keep this just between you two.
2006-12-04 14:12:30 · answer #3 · answered by pecksun8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask if he wants to hang out sometime and just see where hanging out brings you. you will be able to tell how he feels a little more if you are alone with him. maybe he will confess he likes you and it will be a date instead of hanging out
2006-12-04 14:13:12 · answer #4 · answered by The Weed Fairy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him and talk to him and let him know that you like him
2006-12-04 14:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by desi07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋