Family & Relationships - 4 December 2006

Please answer only if you have. What was the situation? What led you to do it? Do you regret it?
I had a boyfriend who lied to me about hanging out with another girl. I broke up with him, and to this day, 4 months after we broke up, says he is still in love with me and is trying to get me back. He even went so far as to have my car repaired for me. But he lied about hanging out with this other girl for so long, I just can't trust him that way, even though I do value him as a person. He says that he liked hanging out with this other girl, but never had any real feelings for her - even though he liked her enough to lie about her to me.
I'm wondering if anyone who has cheated could help me understand his rational?
Thanks!

2006-12-04 05:28:09 · 16 answers · asked by starlet_8 4 in Singles & Dating

I seen what you wanted for Christmas in a store add why don't you go pick it out.would that offen you or hurt youe feelings?

2006-12-04 05:28:03 · 19 answers · asked by Dew 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Love advise ...REALLY NEEDED PLZ!!!!!!!!?
so this hot guy comes over and introduces himself i've never really seen him b4 so we start chatting and become friends(not close)but i think i'm falling 4 him and i don't think he's interested me in that way,how can i make him notice me in that way??i'm really pretty and fun....so plz help.

2006-12-04 05:27:49 · 21 answers · asked by the_one 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 05:27:40 · 12 answers · asked by Aree M 1 in Friends

What is the best thing to get for my 34-year old boyfriend for Christmas? We have been going out for three years. Please any ideas!?

2006-12-04 05:27:32 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

because i always call her and see what she is doing and she gets so mad and she is pregnant and she keeps telling me she is going to break up if we dont give each other space. I thingk she is hiding something she saw this guy the other day after five years and went out with to dinner then to a club and didnt get home until 1am I dont know what to do I love her and want us to be together. please help ladies

2006-12-04 05:27:00 · 2 answers · asked by Chris c 1 in Singles & Dating

To break out the vodka? I'm having a really crappy day!

2006-12-04 05:26:52 · 17 answers · asked by Pardonne Moi? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 05:26:42 · 2 answers · asked by jay 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 05:25:57 · 13 answers · asked by little miss naughty 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend has a ex she is so crazy!!! well she know where i live ( i live 45 miles from my bf). she left him a note on his truck and told him if she see's me with him that she is going to key his truck!!! so he called me last night and told me that if she calls me to tell him that im dating his cousin. he said that he dont want no problems with his ex. she doesnt know what i drive or look like!!! when he told me that last night i kinda got upset!!!! i dont really dont know what to do!!!! thanks for all ur answers!!!!

2006-12-04 05:25:54 · 8 answers · asked by mustangsweetthing 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

some people loves to look at the eyes, mouth and etc.
I like to look at the person's eyes..
some people had the strong look..
some people had a great smile..
which one do you like to so deeply when talkig to them?>>especially you love one<<

2006-12-04 05:25:23 · 4 answers · asked by anna 2 in Singles & Dating

well heres my situation.. i was with him for 2years.. and i recently cheated on him.. it was a one time thing.. and yesterday i told him what happen. he left me and told me that he doesnt want me in his life.. i dont know what to do. but i love him soo much and i cant live my life right without him.. i need him and i dont know what im gonna do without him.. i told him how i feel and i begged for him.. i know i should give him space.. but how will i ever get my sweatheart back?

2006-12-04 05:25:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If I were to say this to you, what would be your answer....Open to everyone...I am not shy.. Keep an open mind and give me some good answers!

2006-12-04 05:24:33 · 8 answers · asked by Collared 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

cps came and took my kids out of school and they think that they are in imminent danger .but of what ..if they were in immenent danger as they say wouldn't they have taken them along time ago.instead of out of the blue like they did.i work a full time job and i'm not on assistance from the state..i'm confused on how they can come and get kids that aren't in danger of anything.i heard that 80% of cps case files are false to begin with..what is wrong with america these days?

2006-12-04 05:24:29 · 11 answers · asked by shedogg30 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondering what will be your comments on this one.....I have a friend whose parents are arraging his marrigae with his cousin (it is perfectly OK to marry cousin in their culture - so no comments on that please).

The problem is he loves his parents and they support him everytime he needs anything...money or whatever.... the problem is he is almost 6 foot and his cousin is almost 5foot.. he thinks she a bit too short for him and he never thought about getting married with her

.... but if he does get married with her he will have a good life by having his everything done by his wife...including cooking, dishes, everything done at home... guaranteed... as she is grown to be a house wife....

What would you do if you are in this situation>? Please this is very serious matter...he needed my help and I know Yahoo user can tell the best...I wrote what I understood. Again this is not DISGUSTING in their culture...just imagine another lady instead of cousin if is matters....

2006-12-04 05:24:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Im looking for my childhood friend. We went to elementary school together, I havent seen him since i was 8 years old. im almost 20 now, and ive got this sudden urge to go look for him. Aside from hiring another person, paying for a service on the internet, or looking on Myspace, does anyone have any tips on how i might go about finding him? Please keep in mind that im a simple college student and i have almost no money.

2006-12-04 05:24:19 · 5 answers · asked by firephoenix_357 1 in Friends

I've been with this girl for 8 months and I really loved her and I was willing to spend my whole life with her. She broke up with me because she couldn't take the fact we kept fighting but thing is she doesn't realize "she's" the problem. I accumalate my anger until I'm ready to burst out and i know its a bad thing. Everytime we fight she manages to win the fight because i know she's wrong but i juss try to ignore the fact she's always "right". Its been a month passed and I recently found out she's been ditching school for a week and spending time with this guy who I don't like because he's a freaking pot head. I found hickey's all over her neck and it hurt me at the fact that I still really cared about her. People tell me to move on and I try my best to do it but its really hard for me. I don't know if I should talk some sense into her or juss let it be until she realize what she's done. And she is scared shitless at the fact she's "dept" in goin to the marines. Suggestions?

2006-12-04 05:24:17 · 17 answers · asked by Eldrick 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend of almost 2 years. People have told me I should leave him but Ive stook by him. As we stay longer together, I feel close to him but slowly not as romanticly but more as close friends. I know he doesnt feel the same way.
Another issue is I have met someone who I am starting to like a bit, romanticly. Hes 22 and I am 20. We just talk nothing more. I cant cheat on my bf, so I've told this other guy that we are strictly friends.Getting to know e/other though is making it hard. I would love to give this guy a chance but there is one thing I dislike, he admitted that after 1yr of being with someone he analyzes the relationship & if he doesnt see himself marrying the person he leaves them. Its like he has an expiration date! So i ask, do I want to get involved with this guy? I could see myself falling for him but nervous that theres a chance after 1year he'll leave.I think hes getting tiered of waiting though he says i'm worth it.

What do you guys think?

2006-12-04 05:23:36 · 10 answers · asked by TheLight 5 in Singles & Dating

Do you guys like the small, delicate slim ones, the plumper ones or the athletic girls????

2006-12-04 05:23:34 · 7 answers · asked by ? 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Tell her that you are impotent?

2006-12-04 05:22:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hate my last name. I like to sign my last name with a different last name consistantly. I even prefer to be called that name and answer to it.I don't have the money to change it legally right now. Also, I am about to move to another state and don't want to wait the waiting period to change it?

2006-12-04 05:22:18 · 4 answers · asked by H May 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Please take your time, I only need good answers! Thanks!

We have been married almost 2 years.
He allways said "He's not ready."
Now he says he is ready. But never shows it. And never asks me to stop taking the pill. I really want him to "want" to have Children, but I can't make him want it. But if we are gonna keep waiting then we will be too old. I really wanted to be a young mom, at least not too old. I'M TIRED OF WAITING AND HOPING. Should we stay Lonenly forever or should I push him????
Besides all of our Siblings have Kids and they look at us like we r such outsiders.
Please Tell me what to do, I'm so confused and I'm starting to get weired!

2006-12-04 05:22:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-04 05:21:40 · 32 answers · asked by sweetbianca 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 05:21:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

you can figure out the connection. how can i get people to stop saying its incest when its just love!

2006-12-04 05:20:48 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

well actually there is quite a few but really we are suck on this island. So its hard to find someone new, or someone who doesnt know someone you know. Stupid New Zealand. Do you think i could start importing men?

2006-12-04 05:20:43 · 15 answers · asked by Taylor 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 05:20:40 · 5 answers · asked by imcoolendof123 1 in Friends

2006-12-04 05:20:35 · 1 answers · asked by always true & always nice : ) 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend works and I don't. I stay home and keep the house clean. I mop, vaccum, cook, do the dishes, laundry, dusting, clean the bathroom, I do all the house work. Everything. Some weekends he'll work in the yard and I help him there too. I do have money coming in too, from a small business I do so when I'm not cleaning [mostly at night] I am working on that. Plus I take care of my 8 year old son. I do everything for him. But he's my son and when my bf and I got together he said he'd help and really doesn't too much. It's all on me, which as far as my son goes that's ok. But do you think I cater too much to my boyfriend? I even put away his clothes pick up his dirty clothes, I do it all. Am I being used? I do pay bills too, half the rent, the electric and the gas and water. So it's not like he's taking care of me. Plus I buy more than half the groceries. If I run short of money I borrow money from him, I always pay him back. So what do you think?

2006-12-04 05:19:50 · 4 answers · asked by musicpanther67 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I asked a question about hitting a girl back if she hits you like a man would. Everyone seems to say the same thing, never hit a woman even if she hits you or is hitting you. That it's not ok for anyone to hit, but a woman hitting a man is more ok than the other way around. Talk about mental castration of new age males.

2006-12-04 05:19:38 · 23 answers · asked by Alpha Male 1 in Singles & Dating