Family & Relationships - 4 December 2006

My cousin has been living with her boyfriend for over 10 plus years. what's strange to me is that they don't even sleep together unless they are sharing intimacy. (he sleeps in the basement). He's given her excuses like her mattress's are uncomfortable, he likes sleeping with the tv on etc. What's the deal with this man. Is he just not into my cousin like he pretends? He also doesn't really like to do anything with her other than going to eat occassionally.

2006-12-04 05:18:27 · 9 answers · asked by stella 2 in Family

I am tall but I just want to know why is tall atractive to women?

2006-12-04 05:18:08 · 21 answers · asked by mmaskovic 3 in Singles & Dating

im seeing this guy casually and i really like him.he wants to take things further sexually.i do too cause i really really like im but im worried cause we are not dating.i feel that if he was really interested in me, he would date me.

he still wants to meet up even though i wont take things further sexually.

is he just confused as to what i want?i do keep giving him mixed signals by staying at his place all the time.

he knows i came out of a 6 year relationship 8 months ago too.

2006-12-04 05:17:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

... anything to help us at all what so ever. Then- had the nerve to ***** about everything, even the invitations. Without going into extreme details lets just say it got pretty bad. My mom/ sis and brides maid had my bridal shower. His fam was invited since they obviously were not going to have one.Now- we are expecting our first baby. His grandma came out and asked "oh- so your family is doing the baby shower right?" I just stated, "my family is having a shower for me." Without mentioning if her fam was invited or they should have their own. Its getting time to make an invite list and my mom is being the better person and saying, just invite them, how bad could it be. I look at all the time, effort and money that is already spent on my shower. Why cant his fam do their own thing for once? I asked my husband to talk to his mom about it.... what do I do if they dont want to do one? I know they will be upset if I we dont invite them to my familys... and I hate drama!!!

2006-12-04 05:17:04 · 6 answers · asked by sunflower222 2 in Family

2006-12-04 05:16:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-04 05:15:59 · 20 answers · asked by Peyton S 1 in Friends

2006-12-04 05:15:44 · 7 answers · asked by Rachel N 1 in Singles & Dating

Friday night. I asked him how important I was to him. I asked him "Why don't you love me?" He came back immediatly and said that he did. He has never said that before in our three year "relationship" He said that he had hoped his actions were speaking for him and that the words had not been spoken because they scare him and had gotten him into trouble before. He said he would do his best to let me know more often. Ok, it is Monday....I have talked to him three or four times since then (just on the phone) and he has not said it since he left my house on Saturday morning. Is this a bad sign? Or do I just need to let it go and see, give him time.....What do you think?

2006-12-04 05:14:40 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

i live with my boyfriend of 2 yrs his cousins wife is always borrowing money and never pays back .she has borrowed over 350 dollars and has never attempted to pay him back .the only time she calls him is when she wants something .he asked what i felt about him loaning her more money and i told him that it was a bad idea .i think his kindess his being taken for granted.but i feel bad because i know we should help out others but i dont want him to be used anymore .was i wrong

2006-12-04 05:14:16 · 11 answers · asked by ANGEL L 1 in Family

Okay so this morning in my math class, I went to sit down right? So like I put my stuff there, and then this girl comes and takes my chair. So I'm like "Um that's my chair" and this girl goes "Does it look like I care?" and I'm like "Well I was here first ***** so give it back" and she's like "don't call me a ***** you whore" so I'm like "Dont fu.cuking call me a whore, because we all know your the one who slept wiht Stephen like um 5 times" (Because she did, stephen is in her other class and she has had sex with him, he even said so).


So who was right here? Was I right doing what I did or what she right takin my chair? She shouldn't of take my chair, so um YEAH im gonna tell her to give it back but she didnt (there was no other chairs left). So like do you think I did a good thing, or did I overreact? I think she overeacted.

2006-12-04 05:13:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been with my fiance for going on three years. We a son and I am tryign to finish school. My mom appears supportive, but when he couldn't find a job my mom kicked him out. Other than that she isn't mean about him. she says he has no work ethic, but he does when he finds a job.
His mom hates me and she has gone so far as to try to set him up with other people. No one is happy about us being together. Including our old friends. how do I handle this? I am a little passive but when I get mad you can't stop me, should I tell his mom off. Should I quit school and move in with him. Should I finish school and then us resume our life together? I mean we are still a couple and going to get married but he wants us living together. HELP!!!!

2006-12-04 05:13:18 · 7 answers · asked by blackwidow849 1 in Family

You're hubby gets home in the middle of the day.You ask him why he's home...he tells you his boss sent him home because he wasn't shaved..You ask why he was'nt here 4hrs ago (when he claimed he was sent home)he tells you he feel asleep in the car.Would you buy this story?

2006-12-04 05:13:13 · 33 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I would love to know, if you can tell me, some things to do at a girl's party who is going to be 16. It's at her house. I just needed some ideas on what to do, she thinks it will be lame. Id appericiate it.

2006-12-04 05:12:59 · 1 answers · asked by dthcab4emily 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 20 years old, Junior in college, and I don't care what people say, these are NOT the best years of my life. I get sad all the time because at school I have no real friends. My only friends are my cousin, brother, and some people i talk to online. At school and in public, it's almost like i push people away by being so shy and quiet. It's almost an instinct for me to be like that and I hate it.
This morning i saw this cute girl (she has a bf, but she talks to me)who is one of the only people i talk to at school, and for some goddamn reason i didn't even bother to wave at her. What the hell is wrong with me?????

2006-12-04 05:12:52 · 3 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Friends

2006-12-04 05:12:42 · 3 answers · asked by tiffanynicole* 1 in Singles & Dating

i wish things were different between us i miss him soo much weve been fighting over the stupidest things imaginable our problem is we do not talk things out we just do not talk for days/weeks/months i know this is not healthy i am a mess i never felt this way before in my life and as much as it hurts and kills me inside i still love him with all my heart besides this we are a great couple when we do not have an argument i just feel that if he cared as mad as he is he wouldve called or texted me but no long story short he made me cry last sat night and just sat there and didnt even try ro make me feel better i thought it was heartless so when he apologized i said no apology in this world will make the way i felt that night go away and said only a heartless piece of **** would be that way to his gf that was last monday and since then no calls no text no contact i am so00 depressed all i do is think about him and how can he not care or miss me cuz if he did hed make it right wouldnt he???

2006-12-04 05:12:11 · 10 answers · asked by bkgrl718 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm Feel So Aroused All time..i'm 29 Male...what ShoulD I dO

2006-12-04 05:12:08 · 11 answers · asked by bedroom_desires 1 in Singles & Dating

if you keep meeting up with a guy casually, and he invites you back to his place all the time yet you wont go further with him sexually even though he wants to, is he really interested as he still wants to meet up?

i know this is giving the guy mixed signals.is that why he wont ask me out on a date?is he confused?

i really do like him.

2006-12-04 05:12:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

sometimes I feel like no one understands me or get where im coming from. where can i look for guidance?

2006-12-04 05:11:07 · 9 answers · asked by Queen_of_Miami! 2 in Family

Hello, this is Clay (Jeunguk) Hall from southern California. I recently discovered a question here, and received an email indicating that someone might be looking for me?, possibly an old friend from Korea? If this is you, please email me at, hall_clayton@hotmail.com. But you must use a standard return email address like yahoo, or hotmail, as I was unable to reply to the last email. Well, I hope whoever you are we are able to make contact! Thanks!

2006-12-04 05:10:09 · 1 answers · asked by Jeunguk Clay 1 in Friends

I knew her when we lived in Richland IN. Her mother"s name was Bobby and her brother was Ray. I lost track of her when she moved to New Harmony IN

2006-12-04 05:09:52 · 1 answers · asked by IndianaAnnie 1 in Friends

2006-12-04 05:08:08 · 29 answers · asked by tapansweetybeauty 1 in Friends

A woman that I've been dateing for at least 2yrs now has a husband getting out of the slammer soon...should I break it off or should I countinue to see her behind his back?

2006-12-04 05:08:03 · 23 answers · asked by lempala 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-04 05:06:20 · 4 answers · asked by Narasimha R 1 in Friends

2006-12-04 05:05:47 · 20 answers · asked by Waineo G 1 in Singles & Dating

ok im going to give the facts and you tell me ok? he lives with his ex wife becase her house is getting fixed up..(and they have a son together) ....he stays at womens house... meets women off the net.. calls women all hrs of the night.. lies to me about women.. His excuse is they are just friends.. so am i just being jealouse? or should i have left him by now?

2006-12-04 05:05:31 · 20 answers · asked by sorry_dawn 1 in Singles & Dating

my son is not being taking care of properly and i only have him on the weekends. legal aid will not help men. please help!!

2006-12-04 05:04:42 · 10 answers · asked by shelly l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am a virgin and she is not...i am affraid of gettin her pregnant and i am just really worried..idk y tho. is a condom good enough? i have a really strong relationship with her family especially her grandparents and i dont want sex to ruin it if they ever found out..idk wats wrong with me,....i sould be really excited but im really worried about getting her pregnant and i am 18 and she is 17 isnt there a law for that or something? please help me please

2006-12-04 05:04:30 · 14 answers · asked by Kyle 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 05:03:52 · 6 answers · asked by abigailpink21 1 in Singles & Dating

he says he has to pay because my son is named after his father and my husband feels that its unfair but he new about this when he decided to have children with me. he named our daughter i think i should get to name our son.

2006-12-04 05:03:43 · 13 answers · asked by leigha s 1 in Marriage & Divorce