ok im going to give the facts and you tell me ok? he lives with his ex wife becase her house is getting fixed up..(and they have a son together) ....he stays at womens house... meets women off the net.. calls women all hrs of the night.. lies to me about women.. His excuse is they are just friends.. so am i just being jealouse? or should i have left him by now?
2006-12-04 05:05:31 · 20 answers · asked by sorry_dawn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im the gf.
2006-12-04 05:11:35 · update #1
You should of left him by now..........long ago............ this man is leading you on...
2006-12-04 05:08:10 · answer #1 · answered by rupmsn2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok I want you to read what you wrote here and you'll know the answer..unless of course you're in denial.
Let me help you out ...He's living with his ex wife..talking to other women,meeting women...would he like it if the tables were turned?I think not.
I say follow your heart,if you feel he's being a negative energy in your life,be with someone that doesnt let you worry about such things,be with someone that treats you the way you should be treated...nothing less than the queen you are.
Whatever it is you choose,I wish you the best of luck :)
2006-12-04 13:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not quite understanding the question...if he is living with ex-wife...they are no longer together and no longer committed to each other regardless they have a child in common or living under the same roof...unless you two are in some type of relationship...To me it sounds as if he is having a internet relationship...I dont know if I can call it cheating unless he is in another relationship at the same time...Good Luck
2006-12-04 13:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him girl it sounds like he has an excuse for everything and that includes excuses to you about different women. If he is so quick to come up with an excuse that means he is cheating or just keep two eyes on him and protect yourself b/c you never know what you might find out
2006-12-04 13:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by badazz_51 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheater, leave him now or you'll be sorry. Don't waste any time thinking he will change for you either. He won't. And don't worry about wanting him to hurt like you hurt, he will get what he deserves. Too many good women give up everything for men like that, don't be another one, give yourself a chance. You will find happiness with someone that deserves you! Take care.
2006-12-04 13:16:10 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
any man who stays at other women houses they meet off the net, there not siting around having coffee, my dear. and calls them all hrs of the night and lies to you. and tells you there just friends. have you meet these friends? it's not a question of being jealous. jealous has nothing to do with it. it's a matter of facts if your being lied to or not. and with my experience of life with men yes you are. wake up honey. please. your man is cheating and lien to you. please read ten stupid things women do to mess up their lives by Dr. Laura C. Schlessinger. you need to read this book if you want some real help. it's a easy book to read and you can find it in most major book stores and if they don't have it ask them to order it for you, you REALLY NEED IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-04 13:19:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lies to you about other women/lives with his ex wife/meets women off the net/calls women at all hours/stays at other women's houses.He tells you they are just friends.You want to know if he is a cheater.I think you already answered your own question.What are you still doing there with him?
2006-12-04 13:14:03 · answer #7 · answered by noga 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whew.
If it walks like a duck, and it quacks like a duck... you know the drill. I think he iis definately cheating. Even if you don't want to believe that, he is doing things that make you upset, and he is doing NOTHING to make you think he isn't a cheater, or to make you comfortable. He continues to do these things even after you have talked to him about it, and made it clear it was making you uncomfortable. This means he does not respect you nearly enough.
You need to learn to trust your instincts, and not torture yourself by forcing yourself to trust an obviously untrustworthy guy, who doesn't seem to care what kind of emotional hell he puts you though, as long as he gets to do what he wants to do. Ditch him asap.
2006-12-04 13:10:14 · answer #8 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a test question. You should leave him NOW. Forget him, you are being played as the fool. Get smart NOW
2006-12-04 13:22:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should of left him by now...your being played!
2006-12-04 13:07:59 · answer #10 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He isn't worht the time of day, get yourself a new man who can treat you right and with respect
2006-12-04 13:34:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋