My cousin has been living with her boyfriend for over 10 plus years. what's strange to me is that they don't even sleep together unless they are sharing intimacy. (he sleeps in the basement). He's given her excuses like her mattress's are uncomfortable, he likes sleeping with the tv on etc. What's the deal with this man. Is he just not into my cousin like he pretends? He also doesn't really like to do anything with her other than going to eat occassionally.
2006-12-04 05:18:27 · 9 answers · asked by stella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She also told me that she doesn't want to put him out because she knows he doesn't have anywhere to go. He pays the utilities there.
2006-12-04 05:24:35 · update #1
10 + years you say. Maybe this weird arrangement of theirs is the glue that keeps them together.
2006-12-04 05:27:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's getting the milk without paying for the cow. Why would it matter if he's into her or not? How could she be into THAT? There is someone better out there and she needs to go find him. This guy is using her for sex and half the rent.
2006-12-04 13:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i lived with my girlfriend for two years in two homes and i spent one night in bed with her and never slept in the same bed again or the same end of the house for that matter
this is no joke she SNORED sooooo LOUDLY that even at the opposite end of the house she would often wake me from a dead sleep.
my point is there may be something you don't know about their situation and let them sort it out after all, they have been together 10 years they must be doing something right!!
Good luck
2006-12-04 13:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by whizbang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes just to lazy to get a place of his own and is using ur cousin to sleep at her house
2006-12-04 13:23:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's still waiting for something better to come along.
2006-12-04 13:21:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, i think hes not into her. Hes just with her for the sex.
2006-12-04 13:22:02 · answer #6 · answered by Muffin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is just her roomate.
2006-12-04 13:20:39 · answer #7 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two words: "f*** buddies." Some people think this is the best!
2006-12-04 13:25:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hhhm weird...Maybe he's gay...
2006-12-04 13:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋