A woman that I've been dateing for at least 2yrs now has a husband getting out of the slammer soon...should I break it off or should I countinue to see her behind his back?
2006-12-04 05:08:03 · 23 answers · asked by lempala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It depends, has she been talking to him wanting to get back together with him? How serious are you two? And most importantly what was he in jail for??? If it was murder os assault or something I would break it off...but then again you may not have to be the one to end cause she may have only been looking for someone to take care of her while he was in jail.
2006-12-04 05:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion if she has gone on with her life and you are what she wants stay with her. But she should of got a divorce the minute the judge said he was guilty and put him in the slammer to begin with.
2006-12-04 05:15:27 · answer #2 · answered by Carmela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't technically have a commitment with someone who already has a husband..so in my mind there is nothing really to break off cause it's not a viable relationship anyway. That being said, I it would probably be better to make better dating choices in the future.
2006-12-04 05:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by cucha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude if you've been with her for 2 yrs and she still hasnt discussed divorcing her husband you need to leave. Especially if she still hasnt brought up the issue knowing that hes coming out soon.
2006-12-04 05:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by TheLight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what he is in the slammer for and how tough you think you are. Then again, you can't be too tough if you have to "see her behind his back".
2006-12-04 05:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer otherwise you wouldn't be asking. Stay away from her. Do you really want to end up with her. If she cheats on him, she'll cheat on you.
Actually, you two deserve each other.
2006-12-04 06:59:10 · answer #6 · answered by Sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should leave her.. u don't want to get involve between a wife n husband, do u?
2006-12-04 05:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by LiL PumPkiN♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pleeeeeeze! If you are asking this question, YOU already know the answer. If SHE ends her relationship with him you might consider staying close, but til then, keep your distance.
2006-12-04 05:16:30 · answer #8 · answered by IndianaAnnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would end it now, if she never divorced him, than she expects to get back with him. your just setting yourself up for alot of problems, maybe with the husband, and with hearbreak. she is married and he is back, so time for u to go on down the road.
2006-12-04 05:19:26 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does sloppy seconds ring a bell with you?
2006-12-04 13:15:40 · answer #10 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋