2006-12-04 05:54:25 · 16 answers · asked by jtimberlake240 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you mean that you are attracted to porn, and that harmed your relationship, or that your objection to your partner's porn interest was the 'problem'? And do you want to fix the relationship, or the porn problem?
Porn is a powerful attraction for some, like alcohol or drugs. For many people the only way out is through a 12 step program. The hard part is that, while you have to make a trip to the liquor store to get booze, porn's sitting on your browser 24/7 just a couple clicks away. If you want out, you really have to swear it off and get in a support system that will keep you free.
I don't know how to keep it at a distance though, if you put filters on your PC, you know how to bypass them too. I think it really takes professional help to beat a porn addiction, and you can't repair the relationship unless your partner wants to.
Good luck!
2006-12-04 06:00:48 · answer #1 · answered by newbie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I suggest you try mediation (alternative dispute resolution) for the relationship problem, and non-denominational guidance counseling for the porn problem.
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2006-12-04 14:10:48 · answer #2 · answered by TransformYour.World 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
we all have our own quirks. there are people in this world who will love us for who we are and everything that goes with that. i don't thing that porn is really a problem as long as you leave it at home. if you try and find men like what you are watching this may become a huge mental and physical problem for you. in addition to this you may no longer be able to be turned on by anyone unless they are like what you see in these movies. and the situations will have to be the same. this would make it a rough and hard life for you. so please try and don't let that happen to you.
2006-12-04 14:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by aaron c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first you have to admit your responsibility for the problem. Next you have to want to change the problem. If you don't want to change the problem and only want to change the fact that your mate broke up with you, then you are not ready to be back in this relationship. Now, if you truly want to change there is sex-addiction annonmous classes out there that run along the same 12 step program as AA.
2006-12-04 13:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by joker:P 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Quit looking at that disgusting stuff. No one wants their other half to be looking at porn and getting satisfied by that instead of them.
Quit looking to porn for your needs and turn to your boyfriend instead.
In my opinion, he has every right not to take you back.
2006-12-04 13:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Porn is not a problem unless you prefer it over your BF.
There's plenty of guys out there that won't mind otherwise.
2006-12-04 14:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well stop watching porn altogether. Your guy may think your too into the guys your watching instead of him.
2006-12-04 13:57:16 · answer #7 · answered by ms.pink 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are a porn addict you are only going to find the nasty guys who would have sex with a stripper with AIDS. you need serious counselling.
2006-12-04 13:57:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are no problems with porn just closed minded individuals with problems with porn--you cant fix them unless you want them to tell you who and what you are and who and what you like
2006-12-04 14:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
id give you a seeing to, porn or no porn, hay baby, we can make our own!
2006-12-04 14:00:03 · answer #10 · answered by oih o 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋