Family & Relationships - 4 December 2006

my best friend is a guy and we were really close for so long. He started having some problems financially and wanted some space because he is that type of person. I didnt respect that and became obnoxious. I initially apologised just to move on because i wanted to, but the more he refused to speak with me the more i realised how much i had hurt him. He became very aggressive verbally and so did i.He told me he was fed up with my impulsive behaviour, bitter and pissed off because he saw this coming and let it appen. I really want us to make up but he told me when we finally spoke, to just let it go. What does anyone think? I really just want my friend back.I am so sorry but i dont think he believes me.I really miss him

2006-12-04 07:27:35 · 2 answers · asked by wolfee 1 in Friends

I have a good frind that is an boy but i like him more than just a friend. How do i tell him that i like him with out acualy telling him. I have flirted my brains out but i dont know what else to do. I dont want to tell him strait up.

2006-12-04 07:27:33 · 2 answers · asked by Dancer24 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm goin out with this guy and i never have the chance to hold his hand... we only get to see each other in the hallway and only one class... i can't go to the movies... i want to stay after school with him but i don't wanna stay after without my friends there and i don't want my friend to be mad at me hangin out wtih my boyfriend ... how can we hold hands during school???

2006-12-04 07:27:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'd be a rocking chair... soothing, comforting, elegant but you can rock the night away with me!

2006-12-04 07:26:50 · 18 answers · asked by Velma 2 in Singles & Dating

If you thought your bf/gf had a mental illness that wasn't being treated (or was being ignored altogether), how would you convey your concern and suggest they get help? I care A LOT about this girl, we've dated for some time now, but, looking back, I have always known there was something odd about the way we relate to each other. I think I know what is REALLY going on (though she hasn't told me). I do respect her privacy, but I also care for her a lot, so I am torn about what to do. Half of me says to let her come to her own conclusions while the other half instinctively knows she will just continue to blame herself for the disintegration of our relationship b/c of this potential condition and, therefore, am almost willing to let her hate me (for bringing this to her attention) in the hopes that she will eventually agree w/ me (even if she never talks to me again) and get the help she needs. What would you do?

2006-12-04 07:26:44 · 5 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

my mother doesnt except who i am because i am lesbian, she trys to make it really hard on me especially these last 2 years in highschool. how do show her that i am just this way and she could love me this way.

2006-12-04 07:26:39 · 13 answers · asked by teddy 2 in Family

One week ago, my husband came home with his younger cousin who is 25 years old and announced to me that he would be staying with us till he gets in rehab. He is on heroin and pain medication. He never kept a job and floats around and stays with different people. We have a baby boy and this guy had to sleep on our couch as we do not have a spare room. I was completely uncomfortable with him here. He would cook and leave a mess for me. He was always on my phone. I could not put my baby in his swing or playpen to watch Elmo because this guy is crashed on the couch. My husband went to work and I was alone with him. This guy did not make one call to get into a rehab. I am not working now as I have been ill with seizures and trying to get my epilepsy under control. Maybe I have no say because I am not bringing in money right now. I left and went to my brothers and then my husband told him to go but will not speak to me and says I was wrong. What do you think?

2006-12-04 07:25:33 · 3 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-04 07:25:08 · 2 answers · asked by evosixty9@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 07:24:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been dating a guy for a month and we're in a LDR. Well I sent him an email asking him if he misses me, and he responded 'I supppose, I haven't really thought of it.' Then he says he's planning on visiting me. So do you think he misses me? Is he trying not to seem too eager? Thanks!!!!

2006-12-04 07:24:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 07:24:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he's pissed off with me about other stuff doesn't wanna talk to me. messed about with him once i dunno if i should warn him my boyfriend knows about it before the inevitable confrontation between the two of them. i don't want them to fall out over it they'll see each other tomorrow i need to decide quick what do you think?

2006-12-04 07:23:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would u think simply 'wow - she s beautiful' or 'yeah she s pretty but she s just too short and there4 not worth dating but just for friendship yeah sure'?
Just wondering coz im confused ... sumtimes it seems the former and sumtimes the latter - i know obv its the inside that counts but sumtimes i feel like coz im a pretty short woman i seem to get the less attractive tall men and not the best looking 1s even tho im still very attractive - as tho tall good looking men think only tall women will suffice regardless that a short woman may be more beautiful. Ps also y do tall women seem to think that the tall men that do think a short woman is good enough to date must be insecure or intimidated by them - do they really think that because some1 is short they must have a rubbish personality and spark and no intelligence or beauty on the inside or something?!? Y do they think that its their height that makes them better than the rest of us (and tall men who try to bully shorter ppl 2)? Ty

2006-12-04 07:23:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I'm not single, but i'm not taken with "M."
We kissed on Friday, and today, in Science, we watched a movie and had a sub. Usually when we have a sub, "M" comes and sits next to me and we kind of mess around together, because i'm known to be a w h o r e. (&&proud of it to)), and he's just the gangsta that all the girls like, but anyways, today we sat together, but he was flirting with my friend Domi, who also likes him, but "M" has no interest in her whatsoever, and it made me very upset, but then when he started to flirt with me, the boy("T") that i was kind of with ((he had a gf, but liked me a lot, and we were FWB's)) started like feeling on me, and acting like i was giving him head, and so "M" stopped.
Then I accidentally bumbed "T"'s upper thigh and he made this big deal, so then "M" was like, "why cant you touch on my leg like that?" so then I like put my hand on his thigh, but after that it was really awkward.
Is it supposed to be this awkward after the first kiss?

2006-12-04 07:22:44 · 9 answers · asked by UH OH iiT`S J* 2 in Singles & Dating

i went behind his back and cheated after the breakup i realized how much i loved him i really am sorry i think i deserve a second chance to make things right,i just need him to see i really have changed and i love him more than anyone and i need him in my life! i just need to know how do i get him to see the better side of me.

2006-12-04 07:22:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 07:22:12 · 11 answers · asked by customlegal 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband had a one night stand before he met me and almost 2 years later when we are about to have our baby he found out that there was a child from that night. She thought it was her bf and now she coming after us full force for child support and wants nothing else. can we get custody?

2006-12-04 07:21:06 · 34 answers · asked by betty123 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im madly in love with this guy. called jack. (on the internet but have met him up once have to wait next year until i get him for real). but then one of my friends on the internet says he has a feeling for me. i guess i feel the feeling to, i love jack and i fancy this other guy. i dont want to dump jack, and i dont want to hurt this guy's feelings. arrrrrrrrrgh!

2006-12-04 07:20:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

as a child i know my parents did not want me, but i still fear being unwanted in a relationship. Its awful it is and i think its silly as the guy i am seeing he was mistreated as a boy, i was quite surprised when he told me, his elder stepbrother tried to kill him at he swimming baths, the lifeguard saved him. his mother run off when he was one and he had a horrible stepmother and yet he is successful and one of the loveliest men i have ever met. I really like him so much he has so many qualities i like. Hes interesting and independant, but i am afraid he is going to go off me, and i will be hurt, if he does not want me i would rather he just told me. How can someone who has been with though so much be so nice.
most of the men in my past have not been very nice. i speak to him for hours sometimes on the phone and we get on great You know i am 47 been married but divorced and i have never liked a bloke as much as him and it scares me a bit cos i want to stay with him.

2006-12-04 07:20:54 · 19 answers · asked by denise g 2 in Singles & Dating

I have fallen in love with a girl, who admits intense feelings for me, but is currently in a serious relationship. We met through at a work conference. Kept in touch via the phone - and started to form an incredibly strong relationship. She is currently living with her boyfriend, and at first it was ok - as we didnt realize we were starting to build intense feelings for eachother. The ONE big problem with her bf, is that they dont see eye to eye on the future of their careers - more like he is in a small city world and she thinks bigger then life. Our fields go hand and hand, we share passions, creativity, and most importantly, she says I give her an amazing spiritual feeling - which she lacks with her bf. He is about being at home, drinking and relaxing - she thought that's what she was cool with - until she met me.

I'm very confused - I KNOW something has to change. WE cannot continue to create stress in her life. We've tried twice to stop talking - and we can't. what todo

2006-12-04 07:20:41 · 7 answers · asked by loveright 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 07:20:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if you are dating a married person, why are you doing it?

2006-12-04 07:20:06 · 15 answers · asked by jeff d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a guy for a while and now im fedup so he started showering curses on me each day and night and i really hate to hear this.I wish i can just let him forget me because seeing him is enough to spoil my day. PS: Im fed up for no reasons but just fedup,no longer interested.

2006-12-04 07:20:04 · 12 answers · asked by BeautyBreak H 4 in Singles & Dating

I am very serious about my Fine Arts class, therefore, I come 2 class everyday and take notes. So far, I have gotten A's on every tests that I have taken. The problem is that finals are coming, and people who never spoke 2 me are know trying 2 be my best friends. The fall semester of college started in August, and now all of these randome people are trying 2 be my friends. I have even had randome people email me and ask me for my note. So, here is where the problem comes in. A girl asked me for my notes and I gave her my notes, but the only problem is that I gave her the incorrect notes on purpose. I mean... they did include some of the materail we went over, but alot of the info was incorrect. I have noticed, that she is only befriending me 2 get my notes and share it with the class. It pisses me off when people come 2 class, sign the roll and leave and now they want my notes. Do u think I was wrong for what i did? I feel justified! If I have 2 come 2 class and study, they should 2.

2006-12-04 07:19:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-04 07:19:15 · 27 answers · asked by arask919 1 in Weddings

About three weeks i found out my husband was cheating on me i caught him with a hickey on his neck the girl is 22 years old and he is 31 so far in the last two weeks he has come to my house with hickey's on his kneck and he tells me that he didn't even know they where there thats a bunch of grap. He talked to shis step dad about it and his step dad told him to break it off with her if he wasn't happy in the relationship at least wait until after the holiday's then sit down and talk to her about the relationship but he didn't take his advice and kept on seeing her. right now i am so hurt because i feel he chose thie girl over his family. We have to daughters who having a hard time withthis. He is still seeing the girl and i don't wnat my kids around her yet beacuse they are ready for that. My 9 year old daughter is not ready for all this. I am so hurt i don't what to do to stay strong for them?

2006-12-04 07:19:02 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-04 07:18:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband never gives me his money nor do I give mine to him when we both get paid. He pays for his bills and I pay for mine, because we are currently living with my mother. Sometimes I get frustrated because I think he tells me that he does not have any money left and saves like $20 or $10 per week in his bank account. The only thing that he has been paying for is the rent, which sometimes if we both are struggling on a particular week then we pay half it, or sometimes I've had to pay it.I really do not think this is a good way of working our money, because I do not feel comfortable. What I am thinking though, when we move out, which will be in like two weeks, we both need to start working things out better. What is your advice/suggestions?

2006-12-04 07:17:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-04 07:17:13 · 19 answers · asked by shana b 1 in Weddings

ok, i want to ask this girl out, i have the phone number, do u think i should call her.....and what do i say

2006-12-04 07:15:38 · 1 answers · asked by dalter 1 in Singles & Dating