im madly in love with this guy. called jack. (on the internet but have met him up once have to wait next year until i get him for real). but then one of my friends on the internet says he has a feeling for me. i guess i feel the feeling to, i love jack and i fancy this other guy. i dont want to dump jack, and i dont want to hurt this guy's feelings. arrrrrrrrrgh!
2006-12-04 07:20:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would question myself if it's TRUELY love you feel or are you inlove with the idea of being inlove?
2006-12-04 07:24:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people you meet on the Internet are not really what they appear like in real life.
On the Internet people seem different...open happy sexy mannerly and everything you may love but Internet affairs are only a fiction.
It is best to meet a person (even if you first met on the Internet) and be able to keep close (not on the Internet but in person)
Just remember that what you talk to on line is a fictionalized person....not real.
2006-12-04 07:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by spider 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u are young..... maybe u should get your life straight first before talking about loving someone..... having a relationship over the intenet is not always the right thing... u dont get to see how he really is .. and meeting them once doesnt show u all the sides of the story... use your head first and think about the situation..........
2006-12-04 07:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by truckindad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends on the internet should be just that 'FRIENDS ON THE INTERNET'
Leave being in love for REAL people. Ie people you actually SEE on a regular basis.
it's easy to fall in love with a fantasy person when u don't really know.
welcome to modern technology - just remember to be present in real life as well.
2006-12-04 07:25:35 · answer #4 · answered by Ambience 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The Internet thing is not tangible. Stick with the real world. At least your having fun, keep it that way...
2006-12-04 07:28:54 · answer #5 · answered by taccol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet real guys in the real world. Guys on the internet are ugly anyway.
2006-12-04 07:23:12 · answer #6 · answered by RetroBunny69 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i know the feeling. tell them both the situation and tell them both you need to sort your head out. trust me. i should've come clean when i got stuck between two men and i'm in a right mess now. just be honest and the world will see you through
2006-12-04 07:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by smethansmee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in situatios like this you allways know deep deep down who to really go for so decide wich one even though you feel bad go for your instincs dont worry about hurting one of them in the long run it will hurt them more knowing hes not the only one good luck hun x
2006-12-04 07:24:23 · answer #8 · answered by francho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you have feelings for people on the internet? You know absolutely nothing about them.
You donr even know if they are who they say they are.
Dangerous passtime.
2006-12-04 07:27:23 · answer #9 · answered by Pat R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude-its the internet... who cares? You don't really know any of them anyway-do what you want....plus, breaking up over e-mail is SO junior high :)
2006-12-04 07:23:44 · answer #10 · answered by BrookieB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See the other guy, too.. Don't have to tell Jack. He's probably seeing other girls anyway...
2006-12-04 07:23:33 · answer #11 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋