2006-12-04 07:22:12 · 11 answers · asked by customlegal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want the pain to subside, you must first let go of the anger. It serves no purpose. You must find a way to completely forgive the person who caused you pain.
Remember, you don't forgive someone for their sake. You forgive them for YOUR sake.
2006-12-04 07:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by lunatic 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't really specify what actually happened, but in general pain and anger from love is the hardest to get through. The bright side is that you do get through.
My advice is to work through your anger, and try to understand why are you angry. Is the other person the main source of the problem, or could you have contributed to it somewhat?
In the past when I was hurt by a man I would ignore him for months. I thought I was hurting him, which I was, but I was also hurting myself. Since I didn't confron the problem, and I didn't know the balance of when to speak up and when to let it go and give space, I was miserable. My advice is to speak your mind then drop it. It will make you feel good to let it out, and you give the other person a chance have the thought fester in their mind. Time is also a powerful tool.
I hope you feel better. The worst decisions are always made when we are run by our emotions.
2006-12-04 15:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by la chica sexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, only time will heal. It's good to get some of the pain and anger out by crying, releasing it however you can. Talk about it, cry over it, and vent your anger over it, and eventually you will burn out the pain and hatred inside.
2006-12-04 15:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by Warm Breeze 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree that time heals. but you also have to let things go. you have to decide its not worth being angry or hurt. it doesnt happen over night, and a little hurt and a little anger will always be there.
but it will go alot quicker if you count it as a lesson learned and let your mistakes fade away into the past. keeping it with you with only cause more mistakes in the future.
2006-12-04 15:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't, but you have just made yourself a little mentally stronger, as for the anger, if you you don't think you are important here then carry the anger, but life is going to suck till you get rid of it,
2006-12-04 15:32:36 · answer #5 · answered by happyeverafter48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time will only heal the pain and anger
2006-12-04 15:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by rupmsn2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds. You have to make tomorrow better than today, and if you do that, then you'll one day wake up and be all better.
2006-12-04 15:27:46 · answer #7 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all things.
2006-12-04 15:36:24 · answer #8 · answered by Pudge 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TIME only Time can heal
2006-12-04 15:25:19 · answer #9 · answered by albert 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would like to know to i going through the same thing
2006-12-04 15:27:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋