I've been dating a guy for a month and we're in a LDR. Well I sent him an email asking him if he misses me, and he responded 'I supppose, I haven't really thought of it.' Then he says he's planning on visiting me. So do you think he misses me? Is he trying not to seem too eager? Thanks!!!!
2006-12-04 07:24:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds like you're pushing too hard n he's trying to slow you down
2006-12-04 07:37:31 · answer #1 · answered by Whatever299 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what is his actions saying? He's coming to visit you so of course he has thoughts about you. I don't think you should do or consider this a LDR. It's only a month old and how often have you seen him in 1 month if it's LDR? let's call it dating and have fun with it but if a great guy passes your path and asks you out on a date I suggest that you should. keep your options open...
2006-12-04 15:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by tonaloha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush things - neither men nor women like to be pushed in a relationship and if you have a LDR it makes it even tougher. Try playing it cool and maybe he'll be more open about what he wants. The more you try to question him and contact him the more he will back away.
2006-12-04 15:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever you can to boost your self-confidence. Then it won't matter is he misses you are not. You'll marvel at all the other fish in the sea. No one can answer your question for you and you shouldn't ask him to answer it again. He said he's planning on visiting you. Enjoy the anticipation of his visit and stop worrying if he cares as much for you as you do for him.
If his is playing it cool, you should take a lesson from him and do the same.
2006-12-04 15:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by Maddy Waddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very true Angela. Most guys see a question like that as an attempt to "steal" some power in the relationship. If you two have been open about ALL of your feeling toward eachother for a while than it would be ok, but I very seriously doubt that you two have gotten THAT close in only a month.
2006-12-04 15:30:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember:
games and LDR's do not mix well.
i thought "hard to get" was for the dating thing in the beginning as cute foreplay?
if this continues then it is not a LDR.
2006-12-04 15:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just a jerk!! It's also possible that he plans to visit at his convenience for a 'booty call.' I'd be cautious about this one...and be prepared to let it go. He's definitely not trying to sweet talk ya, now is he?! Good Luck
2006-12-04 15:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never ask a guy if he misses you. He'll never admit it early on in a relationship.
If he is planning to visit you and he shows up, then yes- he misses you!
2006-12-04 15:27:03 · answer #8 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he know that he's in a LDR, it doesn't sound like it?
2006-12-04 15:26:27 · answer #9 · answered by Rob 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My guess is....he really wasnt missing you until he realized you were missing him...c'mon...we know what he's been missing....and he thinks he can get some again....sorry
2006-12-04 15:28:37 · answer #10 · answered by ~LAX Mom~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋