For many reasons, I absolutely despise my fiance's parents and paternal grandparents. They have done so many things to hurt us and my side of the family that I feel they are no longer worth my time or effort. My fiance doesn't want anything to do with his grandparents, but he says he still feels a need to have a relationship with his mom and dad. Personally, I will never forgive any of them for the things they have done, but I don't know how to feel about my fiance speaking to them. Whenever he does this it feels like he's betraying me, but I keep in mind that they are his parents, and for some reason he wants to maintain a relationship with them despite their faults. I try to be understanding because he tries to get along with my parents, but it's like they're getting away with the things they have done to us. I don't know how I should act around them, or how I should deal with this anger toward them. Does anyone have any suggestions? Thank you in advance for your responses.
2006-12-04
07:47:52
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Persephone
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