Family & Relationships - 4 December 2006

so i had been goin around with this one guy wen he was here in texas wit me..we were sexualy involved and stuf ..he moved abt 2 months back to NY on work..but we still talk..and he even came all the way her on thnksgivin week to see me,..and we spent time togethr..had sex..lafed..talked..went to movies..etc etc.he likes me....i think..coz i know i hav al the qualities he wants in a girl.and also he keeps callin.n recently he said he ws thinkng of a "long term" relationship wit me..wt does this mean?? but the prob is, even tho i guess he likes me, hes still tryin to find a match for himself in his same caste...as we r indian..he is 27 n in the stage of marriage..so hes lookin out for chiks in his same caste n religion, etc...Why would he do this if he was sure abt me?? maybe he wants to luk around n make sure hes makin the rite decision?? AND HOW DO I HANDLE THE FACT THAT HES DOIN THIS...IS IT WRONG OF HIM..SHUD I JUS LET GO OF HIM...? pls advise me!

2006-12-04 08:31:36 · 3 answers · asked by Har S 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 08:31:12 · 24 answers · asked by jojo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Shes tall athletic happy happy blonde shops at hollister good grades

I'm tall thin not always happy red headed shop at hot topic and a C student

2006-12-04 08:30:56 · 15 answers · asked by xxapplejuice33xx 1 in Family

okay, so i'm going out with this guy, right? and at this party i was talking to my guy friend(he was drinking) and he just started like, making out with me. i shoved him off, but my boyfriend saw us and like, flipped out. my guy friend tried to explain that it was his fault, but my bf punched him out. i've been trying to get him back, but i just don't know what he wants me to do! nothing seems to work! i really miss him, and i feel so guilty because i really loved him and it's just not the same without him

2006-12-04 08:30:48 · 9 answers · asked by stephhh. 3 in Singles & Dating

Hey! OK; I'm asking this question for my friend. She's totally convinced that no guy would ever like her. She's 5'3 and weighs 130 lbs. She has brown/blond hair and large hazel eyes with long, thick lashes. She's kinda tan, too. I personally think she's pretty, but when ever I tell her she is she's like "Yeah, right..." Is she right, or am I?

2006-12-04 08:30:28 · 17 answers · asked by AngelGurl 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 08:29:01 · 13 answers · asked by Carealotbear71 2 in Family

Alright here's the facts: shes in my french class and i sit next to her in my social studies class, I like her but Im not sure if she likes me, she looks at me when I'm not talking, she starts conversations with me (most of them about her), we talk, we laugh at each other's jokes, and her friends have said that "We would look cute together" or "They should go out" WHAT DO I DO? If you want more details, ask for them.

2006-12-04 08:28:53 · 14 answers · asked by inkyblack11 3 in Singles & Dating

it came to a point in our realtionship, where I want a comittment,a nd he said he's not ready. He wanted to stay friends, and he would fight til the death to stay freinds. Then I kept asking him, and he broke it off, saying it would be best, becuase he doesn't want to hurt me. I told him I loved him, and stop calling.It's been 2 months, and I wonder what is going through his mind. We normally go through this off an on.

2006-12-04 08:28:18 · 36 answers · asked by la chica sexy 2 in Singles & Dating

my love cant do me no wrong...

2006-12-04 08:28:06 · 8 answers · asked by Foxtrot 2 in Singles & Dating

ive know my friends ex-husband since high schools, we lost contact because of him leaving for the army, we regain contact the day i signed up for the army and he introduce me to his girlfriend at the time. the month i came back from basic training i ran into them she had a baby and they annouced that they are getting married, i was excited for him! he pulled me to the side and asked me a favor, he asked me if i can hang out with her more because she came from a different state and had no family or friends to be with i agreed and became close friends with her. as the years went by i notice her distancing her self away from me, thats when i noticed she was having an affair,i felt bad for my friend but keep the secret to myself.years went by and still no words to him, my friendship with himhas distances as well only because i felt bad and didn't want to feel that way anymore, he got sent over seas and she contiune tocheat.he returnedandshe got depolyed,and little bylittle i feel iminlove!

2006-12-04 08:27:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a way to make u appear unfoolish like

2006-12-04 08:27:30 · 5 answers · asked by star4night 1 in Singles & Dating

I just asked this question, but now I want to be more detailed. We are actually 22 1/2 years apart. He is older, and I am younger. I am 22. He is really into me, but I'm not sure what to think. He was married before and has three kids. One of his kids is actually a year older than I am. He has dated since being divorced and told me that he hasn't felt like this towards anyone since he got married to his other wife years ago.

2006-12-04 08:27:27 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I saw my auto mechanic, and he is a hunk! Talk about chiseled body, glistening biceps, soft voice--if he asked me, I would jump in with him---and do it under the car!!

Am I wrong to have these thoughts. My husband loves me very much, gives me all kinds of gifts all the time; a friend told me she went through this slump before, and she had a sexual affair that lasted 3 months, and now she is back madly passionate about her husband.

2006-12-04 08:27:19 · 25 answers · asked by paanbahar 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Let's say you're walking down the street and you come across a good looking guy. Do you look straight into his eyes? Do you pretend you didn't see him? Or do you just say hi? I want to know what goes through your minds when you are attracted by a guy in any circumstances.

2006-12-04 08:26:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I bought this wedding topper and I didn't like it but I only paid $14.99 for it and it was $8.00 to ship it. Well it's $8.00 to return it to the company!!! So I would only get a couple of dollars back. It's a Letter R and if anyone would like it please give me your email address and it's yours. I would rather give it to someone on a tight budget who would use it instead of sending it back or trying to sell it on ebay. I already bought a new one.....
Nothing wrong with this one, just not my style.
Thanks!!

2006-12-04 08:26:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am asking this question for a friend because he is too shy to ask.. so please help out this friend of mine in need

2006-12-04 08:26:22 · 21 answers · asked by Just a girl 2 in Singles & Dating

bf mention to me that he has all this money to support me and i dont need a degree but i want to have something just in case he tries to leave me and he doesnt even want me using birth control that why i told him it better if we do others things until i get my degree and i know he has his own company but i dont want to depend on him and he wants to get married right away i understand he needs love and affection but i can give him that without living with him. he already donate his body to the hospital so that worries me because i think if we get behind on bills he would do the same crap and we will be homeless on the streets like for ex the hospital pays him 100 dollars a day and he stays for 4 -6 days at the hospital and fast without eating and they inject a human hormone inside his body and draw his blood
so you see this type of behavior its already risky .... he doesnt want to compromise i even mention that after i get my degree i will come up there and move with him but hes talking about he wants a wife now and tomorrow aint promise

2006-12-04 08:26:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How did you make your choice?

2006-12-04 08:26:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Because My Bio Teacher, Does It All The Time and If That Is True Then Im Gonna Be Really Creeped Out!

2006-12-04 08:25:56 · 23 answers · asked by Lanie 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 08:25:49 · 15 answers · asked by adam c 1 in Singles & Dating

but i told him "No" cuz i wasnt ready, but now i am, and after that he never asked me again, so how should i tell him that im ready now!!!!

2006-12-04 08:25:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do you make out if you have braces?and how should i?

2006-12-04 08:25:09 · 4 answers · asked by sam_roxmysox 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 08:24:41 · 29 answers · asked by lala 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex recently broke up with my about 5 weeks ago. Stated that he still loved me but that he needed time and space to get his life together.

The other night I went out with friends to a party and began flirting alot with this guy there. It was evident to everyone that we were flirthing, dancing etc.. no kissing or anything like that though we did exchange numbers.

This new guy hangs out at a bar that my ex frequents. I am still in love with my ex and hope to get back together with him, I am not sure now if he hears about this that he will want me back.

Did I just ruin any hope of reconciliation?

2006-12-04 08:23:19 · 9 answers · asked by jane s 1 in Singles & Dating

He is a filthy scumbag,.

2006-12-04 08:22:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

PLEASE DON LEAVE THIS PAGE UNTIL U READ THE WHOLE QUESTION .... PLEASE DON BE MAD AT ME I WAS LYING I WAS JUST TRIYING TO GET ATTENTION BECOUS THIS IS MY LAST CHANCE OF ASKING LEFT FOR THE DAY!!.. I APLLOGIZE FOR ANY DISAPPOINTMENT....

HERE IS MY REAL QUESTION.........................
HEY GIRLS, WHERE DO LIKE A BOY TO TOUCH YOU While DANCING
I AM ALWAYS HAVING TROUBLE WHEN I DANCE WITH A GIRL IN A PARTY.. THE GIRLS DON WANT TO BE TOUCHED THEIR ****, HIPS , BOOTY, EVEN THEIR ABS .... SO WHERE SHOLD I LAY MY HAND

2006-12-04 08:22:04 · 17 answers · asked by DREW 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 15 and I met this guy who's 16 for only around 2 weeks now and we've went out the first time on the 2nd day after we've met. he's a really good looking guy and lots of girls are after him, yet he chosed me. my family knows about him and they object us being together, maybe because i'm still young. i've thought about it and being with him would cause trouble to me cause i'd be hiding things from my parents which i hardly do. once, when i told him that we'd be better off just being friends, he just lost it and started crapping. he cooled down the next day and we made up again. he then told me that we could be a so-called couple which meant 2 friends who cares alot for each other. i agreed with him and accepted him because i still liked him. sometimes i agree with him just so i won't hurt him, because i hate hurting people. he treats me good and everything's fine right now but i just feel that something's not right.. what could it be?? =s

2006-12-04 08:20:53 · 9 answers · asked by Jojo 2 in Singles & Dating

what can i do for my hubby to love me, charish, care, cuddle and all of those things that love birds would do?

2006-12-04 08:19:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

b4 im inlove with him im sure he is free no gf at all ,we are many girls in love this boy, and the other week , i just got news he had already girl friend , i saw in my eyes too that he always with that girl , but two of my freind says no its not yet his gf , what ever , i need to forget my feelings to him , i want to 4get him , how ? how to learn to forget him, while i really love him

2006-12-04 08:19:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does it bother you to kiss a girl with braces?

2006-12-04 08:19:24 · 24 answers · asked by sam_roxmysox 2 in Singles & Dating