I'm 15 and I met this guy who's 16 for only around 2 weeks now and we've went out the first time on the 2nd day after we've met. he's a really good looking guy and lots of girls are after him, yet he chosed me. my family knows about him and they object us being together, maybe because i'm still young. i've thought about it and being with him would cause trouble to me cause i'd be hiding things from my parents which i hardly do. once, when i told him that we'd be better off just being friends, he just lost it and started crapping. he cooled down the next day and we made up again. he then told me that we could be a so-called couple which meant 2 friends who cares alot for each other. i agreed with him and accepted him because i still liked him. sometimes i agree with him just so i won't hurt him, because i hate hurting people. he treats me good and everything's fine right now but i just feel that something's not right.. what could it be?? =s
2006-12-04 08:20:53 · 9 answers · asked by Jojo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just to say if you feel something is wrong go with your instinct because it is usually right
2006-12-04 08:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by parentsofbadmeandt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, you are young. Not to say that love cant start for you, but sometimes your gut feelings, instincts, are what you should pay attention to. They're usually right. If you have bad feelings now, in the beginning, theres never telling what will come later. Its a risk youre taking right now, if you really feel like something is not right, you should tell him. If it hurts him, you shouldnt beat yourself up about it, its better to have told him then to have it lingering within you. Just trust your instincts. As for your parents, it may be because you are young. They dont want you to get caught up in feelings and make bad choices cause you think the feelings are that important. They just are looking out for you. If you think he is right for you, go for it, just be careful. If you dont have a good feeling about it, think it over. and remember, its better to end things early then to wait, or put it off, and you both be more hurt later.
2006-12-04 16:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by wanderinglove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a nice caring young person, with good instincts
you respect your relationship with your parents and you are hearing warning bells about this young mans inability to have a mature conversation about something very important to you.
This is what concerns me I see stand over tactics ahead.
Its great to have friends but they are not in charger of your life,you are, follow your gut feeling and trust in your parents for guidance They will really love and care for you forever.
And remember a good friend makes you laugh
a bad one brings pain and turmoil to your life
good luck to you Merry Xmas
2006-12-04 22:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds controling and possesive.......... be careful please. Your family is right in objecting to this relationship. They love you and they see something in this boy that you don't. Heed their warnings and leave him for good while your relationship with him is still new. Him 'crapping' as you said, is a big sign that he has issues. Blessed be...........
2006-12-04 16:25:35 · answer #4 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you're 15! He's sixteen. I don't even remember being that young! Hold on to your hormones--it only gets worse (I mean, better ;)
2006-12-04 16:24:32 · answer #5 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be you are both still young. If it's not right with him - move on. Just be friends.
2006-12-04 16:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by Rez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run off with him and get pregnant. Then your parents will have to accept him
2006-12-04 16:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by Liquor Sick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you still love him but see you don't think you can because your parents object so just follow your heart girl!!
2006-12-04 16:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by Skatercutie45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u feel bad b/c u kno ur parents object to yall being 2gether....but dnt b/c ur not ur jus friends....RITE!!! ^_^
2006-12-04 16:24:16 · answer #9 · answered by Omni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋