2006-12-04 08:31:12 · 24 answers · asked by jojo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i just love this question and if he can't i can
2006-12-04 08:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste time by not sharing that fact with him. Sometimes you have to tell a man he's just not reaching it,(most of them can't imagine that fact at all!!). If you can't just tell him confortably, the next time ya'll have sex, show him where it feels good. You also can initiate the sex and incorporate things that you've seen, heard of, or tried with someone else that seemed to work for you. It's hard, (I know) to tell your guy, you have a hard time "getting off" but you should be able to tell them and them care enough to try to change that!! I often wondered if it was normal too until I met the man who would take as much time as it took to get me off and now we both know what to do!!
2006-12-04 16:38:56 · answer #2 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're talking about climax during THE act, that's normal. If you're talking about AT ALL, he's not very skilled and needs to learn some things which you can teach him if he can learn. What should you do? Tell him gently but firmly what feels good to you and and guide him until you achieve what you know you want to attain. That's the short explanation of a complex subject.
2006-12-04 16:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, unfortunatley it's normal. Just communicate (part of marriage, yay) and let him know what will work better. I'm sure if he loves you, he'll be happy to know what he can do differently to make the situation work out positively for the both of you.
2006-12-04 16:34:16 · answer #4 · answered by Usual 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to take more than two minutes and try foreplay. Seriously, if he isn't ringing your bell it either means he needs help (he's inept and could use some tutoring) or he doesn't care. That's provided that you are not the problem.
2006-12-04 16:34:21 · answer #5 · answered by DJL2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal ? yes most women don't cume from regular sex, it is open your man to figure out how to get you there. Does he orally help you out? that is a sure fire way, it works for me. You need to talk to him about you and yours make him focus on you for a change.
2006-12-04 16:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
completely normal..i've never *** and i've had a few playmates as time went on..it's perfectly normal, so don't freak..just find out what helps you get there, and coach him on how to do so..i found out recently that it helps to keep telling yourself, okay today i'm gunna ***...it works..just have the attitude!!
2006-12-04 16:38:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEX IS NOT A BRAIN FUNCTION FOR A GUY. FOR WOMEN IS ALL ABOUT FEELING IN THE RIGHT PLACE TO ACHIVE SEXUAL PLEASURE. NOT SO FOR GUYS...FIRST TALK TO HIM ABOUT THE PROBLEM AND GENTLY SUGGEST WHAT YOU LIKE AND WHERE YOU LIKE IT. GET A COUPLE OF BOOKS LIKE THE KARMA SUTRA OR KINSEY'S BOOK ON SEX. THE ANSWER LAYS IN THE HEAD AND NOT THE BED. IF ALL ELSE FAILS ..THEN DO IT TO YOURSELF!!
2006-12-04 16:43:48 · answer #8 · answered by us veteran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You husband has a tongue right? You have a clitoris, right? Apply his part to your part for at least 10 minutes. Problem solved.
2006-12-04 16:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by javelin 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For some women, it takes a little longer. Try some foulplay prior to deep penetration. At times think dirty works.
2006-12-04 16:34:14 · answer #10 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He should try for an hour maybe every day.
If its not enough, maybe figure out why.
Maybe you are just growing distant in some ways.
2006-12-04 16:34:07 · answer #11 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋