My ex recently broke up with my about 5 weeks ago. Stated that he still loved me but that he needed time and space to get his life together.
The other night I went out with friends to a party and began flirting alot with this guy there. It was evident to everyone that we were flirthing, dancing etc.. no kissing or anything like that though we did exchange numbers.
This new guy hangs out at a bar that my ex frequents. I am still in love with my ex and hope to get back together with him, I am not sure now if he hears about this that he will want me back.
Did I just ruin any hope of reconciliation?
2006-12-04 08:23:19 · 9 answers · asked by jane s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont lie, you screwed the guy and thats exactly what your ex is gonna think... If your gonna be a whore, ya gotta do it right and make it worth the risk. You shoulda slept with a few more of the guys at the bar that night.
2006-12-04 08:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by Liquor Sick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it doesn't sound like you really did anything that wrong here but then again I don't know your boyfriend and how he is. I mean he's the one that wanted some space so he should have known something like this could happen since your not a nun are you? ;o) Of course not you had a boyfriend. ;o) I mean a woman can have male friends too right? If it comes up and he asks you about it I'd just say as you told us only leave the flirting out of it ok ;o) Good luck to you. ;o)
2006-12-04 16:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are that if your ex hears about it he will become jealous and come running back to you, but either way you shouldn't put your life on hold for him to figure out what he wants. I understand that you still love him, but what if he doesn't come back and you lost your chance with this great guy and possibly a lot of others too. He will come back if he wants to no matter what you do in the mean time. Just PLEASE don't wait for him.
2006-12-04 16:30:10 · answer #3 · answered by tinytinkbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its just flirting it shouldn't be too bad. Its not like you went in that back room for a quicky. But, if you want to get back with guy #1 any time soon, I would suggest not acting like you'd take the first chance you get at something new.
2006-12-04 16:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by Ian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys were over before the other guy came along right?I don't think that it should disrupt anything.Well It shouldn't be any trouble, like you said "no kissing or anything like that" it would of been different if you were all over him sucking face,and you were with you ex at the same time,but you weren't right?Well if your ex can't except that than he has the problem,not you.
2006-12-04 16:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by smaitlander 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, he dumped you to "get his life back together"
Right there, the chance of reconciliation is already pretty low. Now you act like a flirty tart in front of his friends?
Done. move on. NEXT.
2006-12-04 16:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you care..You stay away from temptation. It sounds you want to get him jealous however hanging out at his favorite bar & flirting sounds very inmature... Sure you can party & go on with your life... but I bet there other places you can hang out..if you want him back... Guys are very territoral
2006-12-04 16:36:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anannie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe if he finds out, he will see that you are a desireable woman and know that "time and space" can be shared with you all the while getting his life together...if that's the plan.
2006-12-04 16:26:55 · answer #8 · answered by lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are you wont get back together anyway. And what did he expect you to do ? sit around and wait ?
2006-12-04 16:28:58 · answer #9 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋