Family & Relationships - 4 December 2006

I still don't have a boyfriend after a whole year...im attractive and have loads of friends i like a couple of guys but i'm really shy..what should i do?

2006-12-04 08:19:05 · 9 answers · asked by sweetgurl3491 2 in Singles & Dating

i never went on a date im too young and i never got my first kiss =( i want to kiss someone but i dont noe how i like someone how do i ask him out?

2006-12-04 08:18:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together over 2 years, and he does not care much for horses. He pets the baby once in a while, but that's it. He thinks they are expensive and require too much care. Well, he thinks that way about all animals. He likes them, and will rarely come outside with me when I feed and even more rarely lend a hand, but he has no interest what so ever in them. I've had horses for 22 years now, and I have no desire to get rid of the 6 I have left. I've told him I'll take care of them, and he won't have to help. We're talking about getting married, and I finally managed to talk him into buying a couple acres for us. Anyone ever run into a issue like this? How did you resolve it? I'm worried that this will be a huge problem later, (it has already caused a couple minor arguments) and I'd like to resolve it now before we get married. Thanks!

2006-12-04 08:17:43 · 14 answers · asked by ss_silverado01 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Is having sex in the backseat of your car illigal? I've had alot of police cars circle my car before, but never actually knock or talk to me. we're they just suspicuious or what?

2006-12-04 08:17:19 · 65 answers · asked by ProGraphics 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, so I've known this guy about 4 years, and we recently hooked up sexually, just for the sake of helping us both. I realized that he shaved all his hair off his chest and lower area, and it freaked me out. Further, he couldn't finish the act, so I'm wondering, from my limited experience, isn't this something bi-sexual or gay men usually do? Do women like this, it was a first for me, so I don't know if I like it or not. How do I ask if he's into other men?

2006-12-04 08:17:02 · 18 answers · asked by Tulips4Me 1 in Singles & Dating

I knew if I put that word up, you'd all come looking.
Why is that?

2006-12-04 08:16:54 · 30 answers · asked by Moorglademover 6 in Singles & Dating

I'm in 7th grade and I like this guy who's in 9th grade. I met him when I was in 3rd grade and he was in 5th grade. I met up with him again this summer after I hadn't seen him in like 2 years. I saw him again when I was babysitting for his neighbors. I talked to him for like 2 hours that night. I got a HUGE crush on him. The next month when I was at school orientation I saw him with his brother who is my age. He said "Look "Matt" it's your girlfriend" For the next like 2 months at school he would always say hi to me whenever he saw me. Then one time he said hi and I just put my head down and walked away. After that he stopped saying hi to me. :( Then a few weeks later at lunch (me and a group of 7th graders were eating lunch with the 9th graders for a school related reason) I went to throw my stuff away and I hadn't done anything and then he just swore at me to make me mad. Now whenever I see him he doesn't do anything! What can I do to get him to say hi to me again?

2006-12-04 08:16:24 · 2 answers · asked by Katherine 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 08:16:00 · 12 answers · asked by wormwoodkid 3 in Singles & Dating

Many men come at her & try to get fresh with her, but they only use her for sex & then drop her. She's looking for a stable relationship, & she's worried about STD's.

2006-12-04 08:15:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have tried lots of things to help, read books, bought toys, and even joined a sex site with him but i always gett stomped at actually doing something i want to do, like i worried i might do it wrong, so then i dont do it and it irrates him, now he thinks im not into it, and then i feel retarded....help?

2006-12-04 08:15:31 · 17 answers · asked by tired 1 in Marriage & Divorce

its almost my sisters anniversary. what should i get her.i wanna get her something on my buget ( around 50 ).so give me the best edvice.thanks

2006-12-04 08:15:23 · 2 answers · asked by anonna96 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok heres long story short. ok i really really like my boyfriend but we broke up for about three weeks and now we are back together. well we used to talk some and now we don't cuz he is never home.i call and hes with his friends all the time. i fell like he just wants me for sex but then again i think he just hangs out alot. so what should i do to feel less insecure and to stop feeling like he doesn't want me??

2006-12-04 08:15:15 · 3 answers · asked by Shortie<3 2 in Singles & Dating

i love him more than anything...but people always ask me why i am with him and i could do so much better...how can i get over caring what people think

2006-12-04 08:14:57 · 67 answers · asked by ANGELIQUE 1 in Singles & Dating

daydreams ...nightmare...wishes...hopes...everything goes...;0)

2006-12-04 08:14:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so this guy i like has recently been talking to me and always calls me darling or beautiful and we always say morning sunshine or w/e and i was thinking of something cute to call him other than plain old cutie...so i thought it'd b cute to say "goodnight moonlight..." is that too stupid? any other names would be very helpful!

2006-12-04 08:13:45 · 17 answers · asked by MSU 3 in Singles & Dating

it was me who stopped the relationship tha was starting to grow but I did it because it didn't feel right, (now I'm not sure about that). He has only called me once maybe expecting me to make the next move which I dind't, but nothing since then, I keep wanting to see him but too much time has passed, but I'm so proud that it is not because I don't like him, is most people like this or is more probable that he's moved on

2006-12-04 08:13:35 · 9 answers · asked by MAR 1 in Singles & Dating

so theirs this guy and I we have never talked to each other. um....... my mom and my sister used to tell me that he’s a cute guy and I should go out with him, but I never wanted to yet I liked him. ok so a few months back he stopped looking at me and it bugged me. Some tell me that he stopped because he though I wasn’t interested. his parents were so lovable they would hug me, kiss me (not on the lips lol), and do other stuff that seemed so nice. now I don’t think I like him but I do think about him. and I just don’t understand why.

2006-12-04 08:13:30 · 3 answers · asked by Female 4 in Singles & Dating

i like a guy who is quiet, shy and adorably innocent. we have hooked up a couple of times while drunk, but in school we usualyl avoid each other. today i was with him in a group for a class and he didnt talk to me much. i tried to start conversations (bc i like him) and he would smile, answer, and go back to being quiet and soemwhat ignoring me.

the reason i wonder if this is becoming more than friends with benefits is because, while he talks to other girls socially, he doesnt to me. i get the feeling he is shy around me bc he doesnt want to screw up what he says. on the other hand, maybe he is trying to give me a sign that hes not interested in being more than fwb.

given my evidence, what do you think? was he being shy to a girl he likes or rude to a girl he uses for a ss?

2006-12-04 08:12:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

the ugliest man and the man that takes all her money uses her does not committ and lies to her and she believes them what can i do to make her see and open her eyes to these people my children were always taught its whats inside and not out but it seems she seems to pick the bad in both of these

2006-12-04 08:11:17 · 8 answers · asked by tiger 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 08:10:15 · 47 answers · asked by Kelly T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We moved to California and got a place together. He did not have a job at first, but now does and pays his half. I was his transportation until he got his car stuff in order recently. Now he wants to move out! He says because he never got to live by himself, and it has nothing to do with me and wants us to stay together. Living on your own is a great experience but I feel there is more to it. Until now we were in this together. Now it’s all about him, and he isn’t thinking about me or ‘us’. I suspect this was his plan all along. He wanted to move and didn’t have much saved. I got a nice amount for moving expenses, so I paid for most of it. I feel he has been using me to get his finances and car in order, and now that they are, he is bailing. He swears that isn’t true and he loves me, but I feel he is full of it! He doesn’t understand why I’m upset! If he moves I don’t see us being the same. Am I overreacting? Are my suspicions justified? He has been an amazing boyfriend, until now

2006-12-04 08:09:30 · 7 answers · asked by Jennessy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am freelance and have all my work up north in england. grown up here etc. I panicked though when I turned 31 and told my family I had to move down south as I was scared of getting talked into an arranged marriage. The people I freelance with really like me and I lilke the people I am with. For yrs I have been unhappy and I feel I don't want to move away as I don't think I will find the same sort of nice people again. My trouble is ...I live with my mum who has high expectations of me marrying a hindu boy of preferably a high caste and who is punjabi. I also live with my brother who gets to do anything he likes. I can not stand him as he gets treated very differently to me and he doesn't see it. I won't go on...but it is pretty major things like my mum not demanding money off him like she did with me and my mum stating that he will get all her homes when she dies.

My family will not understand me moving away just for the sake of it. If I say I have to move

2006-12-04 08:09:10 · 8 answers · asked by Blue_Bell 1 in Family

ok iv been asking lots of questions but thats because i need answer's! well i just want to know how can u be so sure that the person your with (boyfriend) realy mean's it when he says he loves u?

2006-12-04 08:08:41 · 6 answers · asked by *loca* 1 in Singles & Dating

i also like her

2006-12-04 08:08:29 · 18 answers · asked by KING T 1 in Friends

ok iv been asking lots of questions but thats because i need answer's! well i just want to know how can u be so sure that the person your with (boyfriend) realy mean's it when he says he loves u?

2006-12-04 08:08:25 · 13 answers · asked by *loca* 1 in Singles & Dating

We have a son together from a 2 yr relationship. While i was pregnant, he cheated on me and now the girl says dat is his baby. He is my first eveything, I know what I need to do but I'm still in love with him. I'm clueless :(

2006-12-04 08:07:37 · 8 answers · asked by tee2hot 2 in Singles & Dating

i am reli self conscious about the way i am developing. i like to wear clothes to cover myself up. what shud i do?

2006-12-04 08:07:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does a few years difference really matter? Please...help!! I am not sure what to do.

2006-12-04 08:05:21 · 32 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

This kid asked me if I wanted to go to 3rd base but I had no idea what it was so I said no. I know it has to do with something sexual though. I'm not that stupid...............

2006-12-04 08:04:23 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I just want to check if someone I know, still has me on their list. We stopped talking awhile ago and we decided to delete all contact information. I deleted his, but he keeps pinging me once in a while and I want to see if he still has me listed or just pings me randomly

2006-12-04 08:04:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends