We have a son together from a 2 yr relationship. While i was pregnant, he cheated on me and now the girl says dat is his baby. He is my first eveything, I know what I need to do but I'm still in love with him. I'm clueless :(
2006-12-04 08:07:37 · 8 answers · asked by tee2hot 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can you really trust him NOT to cheat on you again? Even though y'all have a kid together, doesnt mean y'all have to be together in a relationship. If hes going to continue cheating, is he really worth all that heartache? Why be in a relationship if neither one of y'all are happy. Trying to stay together for the childs sake is no way to go about it either.
2006-12-04 08:17:40 · answer #1 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...he's an ex for a reason......
If it didn't work the first time....it won't work this time....
Move on..as long as he's continues to be very much a part of your childs life...he need not be a part of yours....there is a man out there that will click the first time around...and it will be a lasting love..with no cheating....
You need to have more respect for yourself...don't settle for anyone that's gonna cause you pain!
2006-12-04 16:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. Come on he cheated on you when you were pregnant with his child. There is nothing that could excuse that. If he really cared about you and your son he would put both of you first. He obviously wasn't doing that when he cheated. Plus, he cheated once, can you honestly trust that he won't do it again?
2006-12-04 16:24:34 · answer #3 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he cheated on you when you were pregnant, got another girl pregnant, and you're asking us if you should take him back? Um, the guy sounds like a low-life piece of crap. He is too immature and selfish to deserve you and your son. I know it's hard but you need to at least try to move on.
2006-12-04 16:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan's Ma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a lousy guy and an even lousier judge in women (no offense to you, his judgment became impaired after he lost his mind and cheated on you). You deserve someone better. Good luck finding them, though.
If anything, do NOT let the other woman have the child.
2006-12-04 16:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get back together with him...a man having multiple women is as ancient as polygamy. Seriously, if he is your first then you have a special bond with him, plus if you have kids that is all the more reason. Take him back but don't have him visiting prostitutes.
2006-12-04 16:11:47 · answer #6 · answered by Lucky L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive yourself for the mistakes you've made in the past...and get on with your life. Do whatever it takes to get this behind you. Good Luck
2006-12-04 16:13:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
is he gonna be a good daddy for the baby and a good man for you?
does he want to do this? or is he coming back to you because the ohter one threw him out and he's got no pusssy?
you girls always try to kid yourselves that it's better than it is. don't be a sucker.
2006-12-04 16:13:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋