ok iv been asking lots of questions but thats because i need answer's! well i just want to know how can u be so sure that the person your with (boyfriend) realy mean's it when he says he loves u?
2006-12-04 08:08:25 · 13 answers · asked by *loca* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just remember - actions speak louder than words.
2006-12-04 08:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by Rez 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't. You have to trust them. If you can't trust them about that, how can you trust them about anything? A good relationship is built on trust in the other person.
Another factor in really loving someone is time. You have to get to know a person extraordinarily well before you can know if you really love that person. It's my opinion that at least a year is a good time frame for really getting to know someone.
Best Wishes,
LB
2006-12-04 16:12:34 · answer #2 · answered by Love Bites 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there really isn't a why to know for sure if he means it or not. you just have to trust him. But think about this, is there a reason as to why you are so concerned about this? you shouldn't have to question his love for you unless there is something in the back of your head that you keep denying.
2006-12-04 16:12:41 · answer #3 · answered by basmusiq 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys have lots of fun together and stuff. If he says I love you wants something more than that (if u no what i mean) than u may want 2 watch him.
2006-12-04 16:12:51 · answer #4 · answered by puffalump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can know that he really mean it by the look in his eyes. The eyes can have a whole conversation.
2006-12-04 16:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by shanelle045 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can usually determine this by his behavior and how he treats you (alone and in the presence of others). It's always a risk--good luck
2006-12-04 16:10:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a call you make from your heart and your gut. You know how he treats you. You know how he looks at you and how he acts around you. Body language is everything.
2006-12-04 16:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by espactor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can ever be 100% sure- but you can judge this based on their actions towards you. Do they act like they love you --like you would act towards someone you loved.
2006-12-04 16:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well- he lets me have the last slice of pizza and give me the last $30 in his wallet if he knows i need it and doens't care if he's left with nothing.
2006-12-04 16:10:21 · answer #9 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask it on here...it means you aren't sure...you should always know 100% in your heart if somebodu loves you!
maybe he doesn't as much as you want him to
2006-12-04 16:10:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋