ok heres long story short. ok i really really like my boyfriend but we broke up for about three weeks and now we are back together. well we used to talk some and now we don't cuz he is never home.i call and hes with his friends all the time. i fell like he just wants me for sex but then again i think he just hangs out alot. so what should i do to feel less insecure and to stop feeling like he doesn't want me??
2006-12-04 08:15:15 · 3 answers · asked by Shortie<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talking to him might help... but if he allows try to hang out with him at some of these places if it is safe and maybe he will get that old relationship back with you, if these places involve bars stay a way from them.
Good luck.
But as for feeling less insecure I am sorry I don't know how to help that... For I am all ways insecure myself.
2006-12-11 07:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by Not Known To Me. The Voter ;~`}= 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My personal feeling on your situation is that you need to get your own life, not his. Sounds like you are in a rut, only you can dig yourself out of it. Go out with your girl friends, volunteer at a hospital, do stuff with family. Take up a hobby, take night classes in something you enjoy. Join a book club. Get a part-time job. When you are out with other people, you trade ideas, thoughts and perception of what "reality" is for you and you build an internal life that is deep and rich.
Right now you are focusing on what you don't have, his physical presence. By making your time and life full with other activities and thoughts, you block out what isn't there, him.
The plus side is that you become more secure in who you are and you become more interesting to him because he wants to know what you are up to now. Good luck, I hope this helps.
2006-12-12 10:34:18 · answer #2 · answered by Ding-Ding 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
idk maybe you should try talking to him about it!
2006-12-07 18:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by Babydoll 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋