so i had been goin around with this one guy wen he was here in texas wit me..we were sexualy involved and stuf ..he moved abt 2 months back to NY on work..but we still talk..and he even came all the way her on thnksgivin week to see me,..and we spent time togethr..had sex..lafed..talked..went to movies..etc etc.he likes me....i think..coz i know i hav al the qualities he wants in a girl.and also he keeps callin.n recently he said he ws thinkng of a "long term" relationship wit me..wt does this mean?? but the prob is, even tho i guess he likes me, hes still tryin to find a match for himself in his same caste...as we r indian..he is 27 n in the stage of marriage..so hes lookin out for chiks in his same caste n religion, etc...Why would he do this if he was sure abt me?? maybe he wants to luk around n make sure hes makin the rite decision?? AND HOW DO I HANDLE THE FACT THAT HES DOIN THIS...IS IT WRONG OF HIM..SHUD I JUS LET GO OF HIM...? pls advise me!
2006-12-04 08:31:36 · 3 answers · asked by Har S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are both indian, you both better stick to your own caste, he is just using you for sexual gratification.
2006-12-04 08:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the fact that he sorta used u liekd a raggedy ann doll and ur not even sure thst he evn likes u but u guys did hav sex so that conforms it??i don't get it and honestly i've bben there.sounds ot me liek u ahv a guy that is trying to sprucs around wen he already has one girl,like my mom says,u can't hav the meal with a plat on the side as well..ii thkn u need ot tal kto him face to face and c wat he wants,if it's not u,u can move on wit u life,hope i helped=)
2006-12-04 16:37:52 · answer #2 · answered by 321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should just let him go cause he is using u for sex
2006-12-04 16:36:48 · answer #3 · answered by First L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋